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ok, i liked this guy from school a little, and we really hit it off. We started talking over the internet, and since the hurrican ive been talking to him for a week. Its kinda hard talking to him, but today he told me he loved me. it totally freaked me out!then he said he was just kidding and that he was srry. Of course i told him he needed a life and a girlfriend. But he stared telling me that he was really sorry and sending me these internet flowers. They were soooo beutifull! But, i really cant give my heart to him, how can i tell him that we should be friends and that he should stop being so really sweet to me, even though i like it? And how do i tell my friend about thid last conversation? I think she might like him...I see big problems in the future!
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i think that you should just tell him ... i dont see you as a boifriend i only see you more as a friend..i like the sweet things that you say just its a lil weird that you are saying this wen were only friends..n if your friend likes him tell her that u have a feeling he likes you .. n tell her to talk to him .. nd get him to like her... it could happen ..
good luck i hope i helped ...
xO MisTy Ox
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ok, well first off, tell yur friend wutz been going on!! bc after all, itz NOT your fault!!
then..tell the guy that yu think yuz shuld jus be friendz for a while and everything, and let him kno that yu dont wana lose this friendship over this either..
but dont let a guy come between yu and yur friend!!! so clear it up with her first..
hope i helped!!
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good luck!!
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SIMPLY SAY "YOUR AN AWESOME GUY&ANOTHER GIRL WHO WILL FIND YOU TO BE HER TYPE WILL SOON SHARE THE SAME FEELINGS YOU WILL HAVE TOWARDS HER. IM NOT SAYING THAT YOU DONT HAVE TO TALK TO ME BUT IM TELLING YOU IM NOT GONNA LEAD YOU ON, I WANT YOU TO KNOW THIS BEFORE ANY FEELINGS GET HURT OR MIXED UP."
LAURYN
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It's obvious that dispite what he says, he does have feelings for you, and though your mind might not want you to have the same feelings, your heart is telling you differently. Maybe you should take your relationship further then just the internet, have him over and watch a movie, no hanky panky, and just see what happens. If you end up feeling differently after spending some quality time, go from there. As for your friend, there's really no need to tell her unless things get serious. =)
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okay 1st off dont tell your friend. i know that sounds bad. but this isnt really a big deal. it will save alot of childish drama. and as for the guy. just tell him "you're a sweet guy, but i really enjoy being your friend, so i need you to please stop acting like you like me, because i really cherish our friendship." and then if you'd like you could add "but i'm sure my friend so&so would love for you to send all that sweet stuff to her, she really likes you".... good luck! :)
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