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I`M 15, SOFMORE@ HATBORO- HORSHAM HS. I'M 1/2 JAMAICAN&1/2 ITALIAN. &I THINK I GIVE GO0D ADVICE.... LATER CATS!
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Last Update: August 24, 2004
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i've been with my b/f for 5 almost 6 months and my mom thinks he has been telling people that we have been doing stuff. and she says she doesn't want me with him and if she sees me or finds out i'm hanging with him, i'm gonna be grounded for 2 weeks. the thing is if i'm not aloud to see him of course i'm gonna sneak around.. so i dunno i need advice like, what can i tell my mom so i can be aloud to be with him, or if i have to sneak around what do i do when she finds out or something before i freak.. thanks.

- lheather llynn x (link)
WELL YOU SHOULD PROBABLY TALK TO HER FIRST, LIKE A SERIOUS TALK, SIT DOWN WIF HER&EXPLAIN SHIT... IF HE IS TELLING PEOPLE YOUR DOING STUFF&YOU ARENT, YOU NEED TO DUMP HIM NO MATTER HOW IN LOVE YOU ARE BECAUSE IT COULD SERIOUSLY FUCK YOUR REPUTAION UP&HAVING A BAD REPUTATION WILL FOLLOW YOU ALL THRU HIGHSCHOOL!!....BUT IF YOU DECIDE NOT TO TALK WIF HER, THEN TELL HER YOUR GOING TO A GIRL FRIEND'S HOUSE, OR MEET HIM AT THE MOVIES WIF ANOTHER GIRL FRIEND&ONE OF HIS FRIENDS SO YOU BOTH CAN GO YOUR SEPERATE WAYS&YOUR MOM WILL NEVER KNOW.

LAURYN


my friend brooke has this boy that she likes josh hes the boy i like mike's best friend..and i just met these boys like a couple of days ago i met mike at roller kingdom when he IMed me and told me i was hott so we kinda sorta hooked up n i have no idea if i should go for it or if brooke should go for josh..i mean me and mike were at his house today n i have a boyfriend..but we were makin out n suff in his room while everyone was up stairs n i dont want my boyfriend to find out even though he is kinda well a "playa" n does stuff that i dont know if im into i have NO idea what so ever if me and brooke should go for those guys even though we juss met them...but they are soo nice..n they like us too n they make us happy but we still juss met them what should we doo..? (link)
TOTALLY GO FOR IT GIRLFRIEND!!!


ok im not sure if this subject should be mental illness. but have any of you heard of the tidy-bowl-man?? the guy that lives in the toilet. my mom used to say he swims there and comes to getcha when i was really little. but then someone else i knew said they feared so have any of you heard about him? sry its long and stupid but i was wondering. (link)
NO, IVE NEVER HEARD OF HIM......

LAURYN


Ok... I have a really serious problem... Ok.... i met this boy a while back in a chat room... and hes only one year older than me... anywayz... we started talkin on the phone ALOT and we kinda started to fall for each other... we dont actually date... because we live in different states and thats just not really what i want. My parents have no idea about this... they would die if they knew that i met a boy on the internet and they would really go crazy if they knew that i talked to him all the time n the phone.. whenever they ask who i am talkin to i have to lie and say a boys name that they know... and its really really sad because i kno that they wouldnt understand my situation and u would be in sooo much trouble if they found out any of it and i think i am just makin it worse by lying continuously. He cant even just call when he wants to talk to me because it says the state he lives in on the caller i.d so i have to sneak to talk to him and everything.. ive asked myself alot of times if it was really worth losing my parents trust for a long distance boy.. but i KNOW that it is worth it because i love him so much. I thought about telling them on my birthday because they cant get really really mad at me on my birthday can they!? But.. the only problem with that is that my birthday is 7 months away and it has just become to much and i dont know if i can take it that much longer... actually i know that i cant take it that much longer... so what do i do!? plz help me ASAP! Thx! XOXO~******~ (link)
YOU MAY THINK HES ONLY ONE YEAR OLDER THEN YOU, HE COULD BE LIKE SOME WEIRD PSYCHO 50YEAR OLD PERVERT.... EW!!

LAURYN


HI uummm see i just broke up with my boyfriend because he was beating me, u know banging my head n his car hood, and stuff , so I broke up with him and well i still love him for some reason but did i do the right thing?
plz help! (link)
YOU TOTALLY DID THE RIGHT THING, NO GUY, OR PERSON IS WORTH ALL THA.... NO ONE!!&ITS A SHAME YOU HAD TO GO THRU THAT, I'LL KEEP YOU IN MY PRAYERS!!

LAURYN


Hey ok the new school year starts this monday and im scared bout making new friends cuz last year i told people i was christian (im not afraid 2 share my faith) so they all thought i was weird and stuff...and i dont cuss so instead of saying a bad word id say like crap or freak or whatever and they'd make fun of me..i still want ppl to know im christian this year but im scared i wont have friends! i know what i did wrong last year id tell people that Jesus loves them jokingly and they got scared so yea not gonna do that but even if i tell them that im a christian they might reject me..so what do i do? (link)
THEY ARE SOME FAKE LOSAHS MAN. YOUR JUST BETTER THEN THEM&IT SCARES THEM... THEY DONT KNOW WHAT THEYRE TALKING ABOUT.... DONT EVEN WORRY YOURSELF OVER THEM... IF THEY DONT WANT TO BE YOUR FRIENDS, GET SOME NEW ONES, BETTER ONES&YOUR LIFE WILL BE TOTALLY BETTER, EVEN IF THEY ARENT THE "MOST POPULAR"...

LAURYN


ok... i have a really good guy friend . me and him met eachother a few months ago, cause he doesnt go to my skool. plans changed- so hes coming to my skool when it starts in september. im excited as ever that me and him will be able to hang out more, but not excatly estatic. i have friends, but not the ones hes starting to hang out with. hes meet some guys and girls in my school who i dont like- and i think hes going to ditch me for them. also, we have no classes together. how do i keep this alive? (link)
THE TELEPHONE, INSTANT MESSAGING, WRITE NOTES, HANG OUT ON THE WEEKENDS..... THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS TO KEEP THIS RELATIONSHIP GOING, BUT IF HE DECIDES, IN THE END, TO BE A COMPLETE FAGGO ABOUT THINGS, HE WASNT WORTH IT&A BETTER ONE WILL COME ALONG!!

LAURYN


Okay like how do I not be shy to ask someone a simple question if they are (name..) who i think they are. Im so shy because he's my brother girlfriends brother and he said im pretty and my friends know and im shy. (link)
BEING SHY WILL GET YOU NO WHERE IN LIFE. GO FOR WHAT YOU WANT, DONT LET YOUR FEELINGS GET THE BEST OF YOU!!

LAURYN


this girl at my school like sleeps around and does drugs and drinks and stuff...and not alot of ppl like her...but she wants to go out with my best guy friend and all shes gonna do is sleep with him and get him into drugs and everybody knows and doesnt want it to happen and i dont know how to tell him that he shouldnt go out with her... (link)
TELL HIM THAT YOUR ONLY LOOKING OUT FOR HIM. DONT TELL HIM NOT TO DO IT, THAT WILL JUST MAKE HIM WANT TO GO WIF HER MORE... LET HIM KNOW YOU JUST WANT HIM TO BE CARFUL&YOU WOULDNT KNOW WHAT TO DO IF HE GOT INTO "BEING BAD"

LAURYN


My friend is going crazy because she tried to have mad hot lezibian sex with what should i do??? Help...should i do it or not the next time i see her?
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IF YOUVE GOT A LITTLE DYKEY WIKEY IN YOU GO FOR IT..... IF NOT..... DONT! DURR!!

LAURYN


I am going into my junior year in school in about 2 weeks. Ever since freshman year, I have had the reputation of being the "goofball" or the "non serious" one. I think this is what caused somebody at school to always say "I hate you" and make fun of me. I never hear her say anything nice to me. Once in a while she'll be like "Oh you know I'm just kidding right?" And I'll be like "Oh yeah! I know!" It doesn't bother me that she says "I hate you" once in a while just kidding around, but it does bother me that she treats me differently than everyone else. I think she thinks it doesn't bother me because I usually just laugh it off. But it does bother me. I'd like to be friends with her without her treating me mean. I don't really want to tell her it bothers me, because that would be embarrasing to me...and her. So, what's a goofball to do? (link)
WELL UHM. IF YOU DONT SAY NETHING YOUR PROBLEMS WILL NEVER GO AWAY... LET HER KNOW!!

LAURYN


ok this is the same person who wrote the question about how i dont know how to tell my mom i have a boyfriend.....well she caught us together.(we werent doin nething but we sat close)...well i went for a walk and he met up wit me so we made out then sat next to each otha watchin the sun set...when my mom pulls up and asked me if i was ok and asked who was that kid sittin next to me....i told her he'd fallen off his bike and was hurt so i just sat and talked to him......she gave him a ride home but still didnt think of me likin him........now i definatly cant tell her bc now shes gonna think i go for walks everyday just to see him....now how do i tell her that i have a boyfriend?
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JUST TELL HER THAT YOU WERE SCARED OF WHAT SHE MIGHT SAY, SO YOU TOLD A LITTLE FIB, YOU JUST DIDNT WANT TO TELL HER&MAYBE DISSAPOINT HER, BUT NOW YOU FEEL ITS BEST IF SHE KNOWS...

BUT BEFORE SHE HAS THE CHANCE TO SAY NETHING, EXPLAIN YOURSLEF TO HER...

LAURYN


ok see all the girlz are lie acting like bitches to me and im so sick of it like 1 point there att my house then the next day the acting like there all that and like i deont no there just mean so help! (link)
ITS PROBABLY CUZ YOU CANT TYPE...

NO SERIOUSLY....
PICK NEW FRIENDS, THOSE GIRLS ARE OBVIOUSLY 2 FACED HATERS... DON'T STICK WIF THEM, ACT LIKE THEIR SHIT DOESNT AFFECT YOU IN NE WAY, THEY'LL FEEL LIKE SALTY LITTLE WHORES!

LAURYN


I'm in love with a guy I never even met but I talk to him on MSN and he's so sweet and everything he lives like 10 hours away and I don't know I live in Ontario he lives in Calgary and I'm so in love I can't help my self he's sweet and like yeah feels like I know him it's been 2 years almost since I first met him on Chat Rooms...ne suggestions?...and why do I always fall for the guys I never met and never will? (link)
DUH DUH DUH!!!!! THATS SO FUCKING NOT SMART, YOU GOT YOURSELF A LITTLE ONLINE BF HUH?!... DID HE SEND YOU HIS FULL BODY PIC? HAH! YOU CANT POSSIBLY BE IN LOVE WIF SOMEONE YOU'VE NEVER MET BEFORE, ITS IMPOSSIBLE!!.....

LAURYN


i had sexx wif a boii nd now i dink i'm preggers. when i wake up i get rilly syck. nd i'm a bytch to my frends. i aslo havent got mi visit frum ant flo in a whyle. if i still hav sexx will it hert the babie?? nd how shud i tell mi parental units?? nddd do yew dink i shud get a abotrion?? (link)
IT COULD TURN OUT TO BE NOTHING?... BUT THEN AGAIN YOU COULD BE PREGGO... NO, SEX WILL NOT HURT THE BABY, TELLING YOUR PARENTS COULD GO EITHER WAY, IT COULD TURN OUT THAT THEY REALLY WILL SUPPORT YOU 110% OR THAT THEY WONT??!.... BUT IF YOU DO GET AN ABORTION, DO NOT DO NOT GET A CHEAP ONE, YOU COULD REALLY GET YOURSELF HURT, IF YOU WANT AN ABORTION THATS TOTALLY UP TO YOU.

LAURYN


who would u rather give head to?
mikey, or shane or gio???
write bak i HAVE TO KNOW!!
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SHAYLA I HATE YOU. ALOT!!

MIKEY= 12 YEAR OLD WIF SMALL PENIS
SHANE= GAY LOSER WHO LIKES TO WEAR MY HOT ROCK STAR GLASSES WHICH IS NOT COOL!!
GIO= ISNT HE LIKE 3?

LAURYN


My boyfriend and I have been off and on for the whole summer. We don't get to see eachother as much as we'd like to but I'm worried he's cheating. He always tells me he loves me, I can trust him and he isn't like that anymore. He used to be a 'player' and cheat on his ex girlfriends. He told me he changed and it's different now with me. Can I trust someone like that? Is it true... once a cheater, always a cheater? (link)
YOU CANT AUTOMATICALLY ASSUME THAT HES STILL ONCE THE PLAYER HE WAS&CLAIMS HE IS NO MORE, BUT YOU CANT ALSO PUT YOUR FEELINGS OUT TO SOMEONE WHO USED TO BE A FORMER OR STILL MAY BE. SIMPLY ASK HIM....... "IF YOU ARE CHEATING LET ME KNOW, I DONT WANT TO PUT MYSELF OUT FOR YOU IF YOU ARE... BE TOTALLY HONEST WIF ME..."&DONT TAKE IT THE WRONG WAY&FLIP OUT NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU MAY WANT TO.... KEEP YOUR COOL, IF HE IS&YOU STAY COOL CALM&COLLECTED IT MAY MAKE HIM CHANGE HIS WAYS, YOU NEVER KNOW....


LAURYN


ok, i liked this guy from school a little, and we really hit it off. We started talking over the internet, and since the hurrican ive been talking to him for a week. Its kinda hard talking to him, but today he told me he loved me. it totally freaked me out!then he said he was just kidding and that he was srry. Of course i told him he needed a life and a girlfriend. But he stared telling me that he was really sorry and sending me these internet flowers. They were soooo beutifull! But, i really cant give my heart to him, how can i tell him that we should be friends and that he should stop being so really sweet to me, even though i like it? And how do i tell my friend about thid last conversation? I think she might like him...I see big problems in the future!

from distraught and in need of answer! (link)
SIMPLY SAY "YOUR AN AWESOME GUY&ANOTHER GIRL WHO WILL FIND YOU TO BE HER TYPE WILL SOON SHARE THE SAME FEELINGS YOU WILL HAVE TOWARDS HER. IM NOT SAYING THAT YOU DONT HAVE TO TALK TO ME BUT IM TELLING YOU IM NOT GONNA LEAD YOU ON, I WANT YOU TO KNOW THIS BEFORE ANY FEELINGS GET HURT OR MIXED UP."

LAURYN


i have a boyfriend kevin but i want another guy named mike and kevin is like the hottest guy alotta ppl like him n mike is just soo much nicer n there is a less chance of him hurtin ur feelings becvause kevin is the kinda guy who would cheat on you and has already done alotta things that i dont know if im into yet...but lately i have been talking to mike alot and hanging out with him when im goin out wit kevin n i have NO IDEA what to doo....because alot of girls would be lucky to have kevin and i think i have alot more feelings for mike ... what should i doo?? (link)
TOTALLY GO WIF THE GUY THAT MAKES YOU FEEL YOUR BEST, HE COULD BE SO HOT&POPULAR, BUT HE WILL TREAT YOU LIKE SHIT...THATS TOTALLY NOT WHAT YOU SHOULD BE LOOKING FOR.... GO WIF MIKEY BOY... HES YOUR BEST BET!!


LAURYN


ok, well i cut. and i dont want to hear the "oh dont do that! blah blah blah" im really trying to stop and i dont need anyone to be pressuring me right now. but anyways..i usually cut on my shoulders so no one can see and so that i dont kill myself. but the other day i cut my wrist. and i mean, i wanted to, but i didnt want it to bleed...and i didnt even push hard. i just ran it slightly across the skin. and it just started bleeding. im fine and everything, but is that normal? like is the skin just really delicate there or something? (link)
YOU WANT TO CUT BUT DONT WANT YOURSELF TO DIE??!.. THAT HAS TO BE ONE OF THE STUPIDEST THINGS IVE EVER READ.... CUTTING WILL CAUSE SCARS, SCARS THAT WILL STAY WITH YOU FOREVER&WHEN YOU LOOK BACK AT THEM YEARS FROM NOW YOULL JUST THINK OF HOW UPSET YOU WERE THAT DAY&YOUR DEPRESSION, OR W.E THE REASON IS YOU CUT WILL NEVER GO AWAY....

BUT TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION, YOUR SKIN IS PROBABLY JUST MORE SENSITVE THAN OTHERS, BUT IT COULD ALSO BE YOUR BODY NOT PRODUCING ENOUGH SKIN CELLS BECAUSE OF THE CUTTING...


LAURYN




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