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ok... i have a really good guy friend . me and him met eachother a few months ago, cause he doesnt go to my skool. plans changed- so hes coming to my skool when it starts in september. im excited as ever that me and him will be able to hang out more, but not excatly estatic. i have friends, but not the ones hes starting to hang out with. hes meet some guys and girls in my school who i dont like- and i think hes going to ditch me for them. also, we have no classes together. how do i keep this alive?
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Same way you did befoRe? You can meet with him befoRe school, at lunch, walk to classes togetheR, do homewoRk afteR school, and still hit the movies on the weekends. I'm shoRe things will woRk out!! I wish you the best!! =D
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you can ask him to come over to ur house and just hang out...u should specify a day in the week were u guys can hav a movie night or something just u and him and just talk but if u really mean something to him he wont ditch u and if u does he is a total jerk!
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after school make sure to call him and everything and find time to still hang out!! ..hez prolly jus soo happy to fit in and find friendz at this new scary school that hez not remembering wutz important..but thatz normal. so give him a break..but make sure yu dont lose him!! stick by him and just tell him how yu feel..tell him that yu dont wana lose him over other ppl and that yuz need to find time to chill wit eachother and make sure thingz dont change!!!
:) good luck, get back to me if yu need me for more help :)
-ash
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I go to the same school as 1 of my friends, and we are in none of the same classes either!
what we do is between classes she'll come to my locker and we talk and we also meet at eachothers lockers before and after school!
So why dont you give that a shot!
Also about him hanging out with the people you aren't crazy for, why not just tell him that you dont like him and that you would prefer him not to hang out with them!
Or he can hang out with them just please not to ditch you!
Good luck!
Hope i helped!
Hotdancinchic72
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Okay, first of all stop the stressing and worrying. Everything happens for a reasons and things always work out for the best whether it seems like it or not. Just give things time. But about this whole situation more specifically: You can totally keep this "thing" you and this guy have going if that is what you BOTH really want. There's no law that says that you have to LOVE your boyfriends friends. That's okay. Y'all can still hang out together one on one and have tons of fun!!! and LIVE LIFE! If he ditches you for them then he obviously isn't as great as you may have thought. But who knows, it may turn out that you get to know his new friends better and you start to like them. You have to give everybody a chance. People may surprise you. It's okay that you don't have classes together- maybe you will have lunch together- if not big deal. You could call him after school and talk on the phone or you could even ask him to come over nad help you with homework or you could study together. He could also walk you to class. You could hang out on the weekends. Go to his games if he plays sports and he could do the same if you do too. You could write him notes and slip em in his locker. Talk to him on the net. Email. There are tons of things you could do. Just remember to not force it and be yourself and have fun. Let things take their natural force. If it's meant to be, it'll happen. If not, it's just a boy and you'll meet others!!!! LIVE- :)
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THE TELEPHONE, INSTANT MESSAGING, WRITE NOTES, HANG OUT ON THE WEEKENDS..... THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS TO KEEP THIS RELATIONSHIP GOING, BUT IF HE DECIDES, IN THE END, TO BE A COMPLETE FAGGO ABOUT THINGS, HE WASNT WORTH IT&A BETTER ONE WILL COME ALONG!!
LAURYN
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