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me and my boyfriend have been together for 15 months now. I'm 16 and he's 17. He's gonna be a senior this year and im gonna be a junior. We're in love so much, it scares me and even makes me cry sometimes. I'm so afraid of losing him when he goes off to college. is it abnormal to be feeling these feelings now? I would love to spend the rest of my life with him. We even talk about it sometimes. I tell myself "if it's love, it'll all work out" Yet i still think about it. I love him so much and would like die if we broke up lol. not really but u get what im saying. Is it wrong to feel like this so early?

no i don't think it is wrong to feel that way but if he really luvs u everything will work out for the best just keep talk about ur future together

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Hi! Well I'm new to my high school and there's this girl (Anna) and she was so sweet. She's been new before so she knows how it feels! But anyways, she came up and talked to me in 1st period and was like r u in journalism w/ me? and so she striked up a convo. Then the next day she asked me to go walk around w/ her before class so I wasn't in class all my myself. Then after that we started writting notes back and forth a lot! She even hooked me up w/ this guy I like a lot! I feel really close to her, we talk about stuff that normally I wouldn't feel comfy sharing and I think its the same w/ her! She has lots and lots of other friends but I'm not sure about 1 thing! I know she's my best friend but am I her's and how do I know if I am!?!?!

i don't think that u need to know if she is ur best friend...if u guys r there for each other whenever u need someone she is ur best friend

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ok... i have a really good guy friend . me and him met eachother a few months ago, cause he doesnt go to my skool. plans changed- so hes coming to my skool when it starts in september. im excited as ever that me and him will be able to hang out more, but not excatly estatic. i have friends, but not the ones hes starting to hang out with. hes meet some guys and girls in my school who i dont like- and i think hes going to ditch me for them. also, we have no classes together. how do i keep this alive?

you can ask him to come over to ur house and just hang out...u should specify a day in the week were u guys can hav a movie night or something just u and him and just talk but if u really mean something to him he wont ditch u and if u does he is a total jerk!

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When I get my period i get HORRIBLE cramp! Sometimes theres so bad i can't go to school or do anything all day! Do know some way to get relief ?

i hav the same problem!! i usually take 4 tylenol and if that doesn't help i take a rice bag (its a piece of fabric with rice inside of it) put it in the microwave until its hot then put it where ur cramps are

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okay so i really like this guy and hes going out with this one girl...it seems like this guys likes me i mean he calls me almost everynight and we talk for hours and when where together he always wants me to do stuff with him (like kiss and stuff) but hes going out with his girlfiend so why would he be going out with his girlfriend if hes making it seem like he likes me...

this has happened to me...in my case he wasn't gettin wat he wanted from his girlfriend and he knew i would giv it to him so he turned to me...BAD IDEA! don't do anything with him and u should tell him gf ASAP!

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HI uummm see i just broke up with my boyfriend because he was beating me, u know banging my head n his car hood, and stuff , so I broke up with him and well i still love him for some reason but did i do the right thing?
plz help!

YES U DID DO THE RIGHT THING!!! guys who beat u aren't kew!! u should never let anyone do that...u should definetly tell someone about that he could really end up hurting some really bad physically as well as mentally!

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so a year ago my mom moved like an hour away to live with her boyfriend now husband....and i moved in with my granny cuz i didnt want to move that far from everything...and my sis moved in with my dad....well eventually i moved back in with my mom its been about 4 months and I HATE IT ...my granny said that i can move in the downstairs apartment at her house. but i know im gonna feel bad my sis says i shoulddent becuz our mom left us blah blah blah

if u really don't like it with ur mom and u truely feel like u should move bak with ur granny do it...don't let anyone talk u out of something u feel is right...and don't listen to ur sister yeah ur mom might hav left u but u aren't ur mom and sister needs to get a grip

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ok my bff just stop bein friends with her old bff her old bff hates me she always puts me dowm and makes me wanna stab her she also calls my cell and says "ur ugly im pretty u need to die gay loser biotch" wat should i do??? i really need help or it will go on forever!!!!!!!!!!! plzz help.....thanx!!

i think the old bff needs some serious help!! don't let anyone tell u u are ugly! u should definetly tell someone about this...she shouldn't be saying those kinds of things!

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SODAS! I took up Mountain Dew and I put on alot of weight drinking it and I tried to stop it but its like going threw withdrawl. I get headaches and everything, I throw up and my stomach hurts and this always happens when I stop drinking it. I'm starting school soon and mountain dew wont be available as it will if I were home. What can I do?

i had the same problem...i was so hooked on mountain dew...i just drank lots of water and took lots of pain meds!...but it sux for about 2 weeks so stick in there!

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I had sex with my boyfriend about a month ago.. and since then my periods have been messed up. I got one at the beginning of July.. then I had sex.. and got it again in mid-july. Then.. I got it again today.. Is it nomal for ur period to be all outta wack after u have sex? or is something wrong?

i would go to a doctor asap! im sure its nothing but u wanna be sure

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This boy (lets call him Dan) asked me if i wanted to go out 2 dinner with him, i said yes, but i dont fancy him or anything. i dont really know him either, so what do i do if i didnt enjoy the date and dont want to go out again ( i hate hurting peoples feeling) whats the nicest way of putting it??? thanx

well if u didn't really like his just ask him if u guys can be friends...and if that hurts his feelings he is a real softy!

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