This boy (lets call him Dan) asked me if i wanted to go out 2 dinner with him, i said yes, but i dont fancy him or anything. i dont really know him either, so what do i do if i didnt enjoy the date and dont want to go out again ( i hate hurting peoples feeling) whats the nicest way of putting it??? thanx
xASH answered Saturday August 21 2004, 5:06 pm: You should say that you'd feel more comfortable if you guys could just be friends. [ xASH's advice column | Ask xASH A Question ]
UnluckyWishes answered Saturday August 21 2004, 11:01 am: Well , if you didnt like the date and you dont know him well, at least try going out with a bunch of friends to get to know him a little better.And if you just think it wont work.Just sit him down and tell him your open to being friends but your not sure if he's the perfect guy for, but i'm sure you will be for someone more compadable.Hope it helps! [ UnluckyWishes's advice column | Ask UnluckyWishes A Question ]
HurleyGurley answered Saturday August 21 2004, 10:35 am: i just think you better tell him the truth, cause if you lie and say you had a good time you'd be leading him on thinking you like him and well i don't think you want that to happen and so just be honest with him, if you have anymore questions you can always ask me, anything, anytime! :) xoxo [ HurleyGurley's advice column | Ask HurleyGurley A Question ]
pinklemonadestand answered Saturday August 21 2004, 10:30 am: Just be honest to the guy "DAN" that is the nicest way really because if you lie and say you had a great time then that is letting he think something and then if he later finds out you didn't have a good time then he will hurt even more!
HollyAnn2282 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 10:14 am: Just be honest with him... dont tell him that you hated the date. Say i had fun but i'd rather stick with being friends... I dont have those feelings for you. Good luck
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AmandaRenee answered Saturday August 21 2004, 10:09 am: .:Well you should be honest wit the boy up front because he might start getting feelings for u and want to be more then friends then he will end up getting hurt .You dont want the same thing to happen to u, u would want the boy to be honest to so just tell him that u dont feel for him the same way and that u want to be his friends. And im sure if he is a nice guy he will understand..Hope i helped u:.
heya answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:44 am: Ive been in this situation. Tell him that u just want to be friends with him. And if he still ask you to go out to eat..either agree and say just as friends or be like nahh im busy tonight..but thanks for the invite.
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mshonest4eva answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:09 am: Find someone who does. Then tell him, you know, i like you, but im sorry, we should only tell friendss. As you talk to him about different stuff, though, you can mention the girl who does like him....hopefully he'll catch your drift without you having to bluntly say it.
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