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14/f
I have been dating my boyfriend for about a week now. The only thing is that i have a moustache that is sorta dark and a lot of people notice it i'm sure. It's really embarrising because i don't want him to see it. I can't do anything about it. I'm not gonna wax, shave or bleach it. What do i do? I'm scared that he will be grossed out by it and break up with me. Help! (link)
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You need to wax it or pluck it..ive been through this and the best thing is to wax it.
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im 18 years old, female
i've never had a boyfriend before and i'll ive done is madeout with two guys and that was about two years ago. everytime someone hears that i have never had one they're all shocked because everyone tells me im gorgeous (and i do think im pretty, not trying to be conceited at all) its just that i dont know whats wrong with me. maybe i'm too picky but all these guys try to get with me and i always just see them as a friend and never anything more. im scared to kiss a guy or anything because it's been so long and i just dont know. i like this boy right now but has a girlfriend. he tried "fingering" me and i really wanted him too, but i just couldn't let myself do it. i feel so awkward doing that kind of stuff. all my family and friends are always like why dont you ever have a boyfriend! and im just like i dont know. im so worried about school right now because i just started college and i usually dont go looking for one. im outgoing around people i know, but i wont approach i guy i think is hot when im by myself. what do you guys think, what should i do im starting to get really depressed about this... (link)
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Omg i am just like you and im in the same situation. I am also 18 and ive never had a committed relationship..im not that experienced either and it bothered me for awhile. But then i realized that I need to move at my pace..i dont need to feel pressured by other people to get a boyfriend just because ive never had one. People wonder about me all the time..im sure they prolly think im a lesbian just because ive never had one but im def not and truth is..im just not ready for that. So maybe we are a little slow w. when it comes to boys..who cares? When youre ready..youre ready and youll feel it. And it also depends on the guy you meet..once you find a guy that you really like and you have chemistry with..itll be different. Youll WANT to kiss him..you wont be afraid instead youll be excited. Give yourself time..you have all your life to worry ab boys..focus on you and your time will come when you least expect it. Hope i helped!
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So im a freshmen in HS now and im really shy. I barely talk to older people. When some of the people try to talk to me i dont know what to like say and if i do say something it doesnt come out right. I also want a boyfriend. But boys that i like dont like me back. Boys who really bother me try to ask me out but i want the one!!how can i be less shy around boys and other people around me. (link)
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I totally went through this stage when i was a Freshman in Hs. You're intimidated around those older people..you dont know if what you say is the right thing around them and you dont wanna be talked about badly. You need to be confident in yourself when you walk into that HS. Everyone was a freshman once and therefore people should give you the benefit of the doubt. Also the boy situation..boys like girls that are outgoing, fun loving and confident...if you portray these three traits you will eventually find a boy that you like and that likes you back..dont worry about the boys..you have plenty of time..dont rush it..good luck
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25 yr/F
Hello. I feel as if I have a problem b/c most other people have many friends that they can hang out and party with. I sometimes find myself alone bored wanting to go out on a Friday night. I have a wonderful husband and a son which make me very happy. The area of my life that I feel I am lacking in are my friends. I think that a lot of times in the past I have been misunderstood and some girls just don't like me. I've had girls hate me because they think that I am one way when really I am another. I have two best friends, but honestly we don't get to hang out much and one of them just moved away to another state. I just need to know what I can do to make new friends or meet new people. I want to be open and inviting, but I feel as if I'm doing too much and I don't want to be looked at like I'm a weirdo. I'm tired of asking friends to hang out only to be let down when it doesn't happen or they change their minds at the last minute. This really makes me feel like a loser. While some people have childhood friends they can call on, I don't because my mom moved my family around almost every year until I was about 12. So, those bonds and long relationships I never got the chance to create. I feel like I can count on one hand the amount of friends I have and I just wanna go out and have fun. (link)
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Some places you can meet new people are church..your kid's pto meetings..the gym..community volunteer services..people in your neighborhood..your husband's guyfriend's wives...usually when you are married you tend to have other married friends..thats just how married life is but maybe if you go to some of these places you will find more people to talk to..be outgoing, confident and friendly and youll make new friends in no time
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18/M My girlfriend, who I love very much,
is still in high school, and lives about 20 minutes away, and she's depressed and stressed because I don't get to see her as often now that school's in. (weekend's are basically the extent of it, and she want's a job too)
How can we see each other more often during the week when she has homework, and how can I make her feel better? (link)
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Hardcore scheduling..so now that you and your girlfriend are really busy you need to schedule dates of when to see her..this will help your girlfriend and you become more productive and get things done so you can eachother the day you scheduled..plan at least a week in advance or a couple of days..my friend did this when her boyfriend went to college..and they are happier than ever now..relationships are hardwork but if you and your girlfriend are willing to put forth the effort than you will make it
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Hello, my name is Dania. I live in Pittsburgh, PA and my boyfriend lives in Canada. We've never met in person but we've been pen pals for a long time. My question is: How am I going to be able to keep in good communication with him? We have webcams so we use those to talk to eachother through msn. We can't really call eachother because the long distance charges are ridiuculous. How can I make this work? I really don't want us to fall apart. Thank you! (link)
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I am surprised you guys are dating when youve never met..im sure you guys like eachother and everything but after awhile it will get annoying because you cant physically hang out and be with eachother..relationships are about being with eachother and being in their presence..its what makes a relationship grow and if you guys dont ahve that..this relationship will die down because eventually one you guys are gonna get frustrated because you cant see eachother in person..you just communicate by phone and computer..my advice..i wouldnt date eachother..its a bad idea..im sure you wont give me good feedback but its the truth..i cant lie
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14/f ok so im tired of always being akward around guys especially ones that i like so i need flirting tips... thanks muddymidfielder (link)
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I know everyone says this but truly..you just need to be yourself...if you have a good sense of humor use that to your advantage when youre flirting with a guy...if you are just a really sweet person then compliment them on their shirt or hair or w/e..you cant be shy or they will never know youre flirting..guys dont ever pick up signals with shy girls..you have to be outgoing..you also need to make eye contact with them..and maybe give them a cute smile or touch their shoulder..then they will start picking up signals..good luck to you!
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my school years about to start and i will be going to a new school this year (and i'm a sophmore... going to be) and im getting nervous because all i can think about is lunch on the first day!!! i am one to be really shy, but once i get talking im realy friendly and outgoing, but im scared because what if i dont meet someone that i click with before lunch? i don't know what to do, because i would hate to be sitting alone and the fact that everyone will notice. but like, im not a person to go and ask if i can sit with them.. but maybe i'll have to?? UGHHH i don't knowwwwwwww. any other realistic choices? (link)
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Before you go to lunch that day..start looking for new people in your classes and if you find someone walk with them to lunch and start talking to them..eventually you guys will talk in line together and nonchalently just sit where they sit..this has always worked for me when i go to a new school..eventually when you meet one person you will meet all their friends..and also..talk about how you dont know anyone and youre nervous about the situation..and start talking about what you think about the new school..if you do this..i guarentee you..you will make new friends immediatly..be yourself and be outgoing and youre good to go..good luck to you!
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im 13, and i work out daily 50-60 minutes on my treadmille.
i eat only 3 times a day
Breakfast
dinner
and at night before i sleep like hours before i sleep, and it works good and i lost weight but since i started working out and eating less everytime i get up to walk i get dizzy and everything seems to get kinda black,, i dont kno whats happenin im sure its nothing big but what is it? (link)
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Well first off your 13 years old meaning your still in the growing stage and your body has not fully developed second of all..i know you think eating only 3 times a day is healthy and makes you lose weight but really..eating 6 little meals a day makes you lose weight quicker because food gives you energy which makes you more energetic and when youre more energetic your metabolism moves faster which helps you lose weight third of all..dont stress about losing weight you are 13 years old and you are in the growing stage both mind and body..soo splurge every once in awhile youre a kid!
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hello my name is seanicka and im 18. Im in a long distance relationship and I was wondering do you think seeing my boyfriend every three months or two is bad? we love each other dearly and willing to make it work. (link)
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It depends on how bad you guys wanna make this work...i dont see a problem in seeing eachother every three months..but i do warn you..it will be challenging and you guys will have to trust eachother completely to make it work. So many girls go into relationships without building that strong trust system with their boyfriends and then they end up getting screwed over. If you guys trust eachother and are willing to do anything then i think you guys will make it. Good luck
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If i eat sweets and junk and healthy stuff as well but i don't over eat and i exercise will i loose weight? (link)
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Well it really depends on how your balancing out your eating habits and exercising. If you are eating way more sweets and exercising less then you are not losing weight. If you are eating sweets and exercising the same amount of sweets you eat then you are maintaining your weight. My advice..eat more healthy and when you have a sweet tooth craving or junk food craving go ahead and eat that food in moderation..dont over do it..just..eat a little bit. I think if you do that..you will see better results..its all about eating healthy and exercising.
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I've played volleyball for about 6 years- going into 9th grade- but I can't
stand the people on my team.
I really love volleyball and now that I'm going into high school, now is
when it starts getting serious.
However, I don't feel like part of the team because everyone on the team is
friends and I'm just kind of stuck outside of their crowd. Every time I go
to practice and a match, I feel like I don't belong there and it's getting
really irritating at how they treat me sometimes.
It's getting to the point where playing on the school team isn't fun
anymore and going to practices and matches just seems strenuous cause I
have to deal with their crap. I don't feel like talking to the coaches
either, because they play favorites and I don't think that it would
help.
My parents don't want me to quit the team because they say that there are
always going to be people like that, but I can't take any of this anymore
and it's getting really frusterating- I have no friends on the team and I
always feel left out and it's starting to feel like what's the point of
continuing with this if I don't enjoy it...
What do you think? (link)
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I was in the same boat a couple of years ago..i felt like i was no apart of the team and the volleyball practices and games were so serious i started getting stressed out..but you need to ask yourself..If i dont play will i miss it? Also ask yourself..What do i enjoy about volleyball? If you just completely hate it..then why stress yourself..QUIT..if you are just having troubles with the team..seek out a person on the team that oyu feel most comfortable with and talk to them about..im telling you this can go a long way..you gotta open up to your teammates..i know being a freshman is hard but if you love volleyball..stick to it and eventually your time iwll come..trust me..you just gotta keep working and never give up..if you are open and outgoing..your teammates will notice and pay more attention..JUST DO IT!
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I feel sad all the time. Right when I think I'm having a good time, I just feel like crying. All the time I just want to cry.
Things just haven't gone the way I've wanted them to for so long and I just have this heavy weight of sadness on my shoulders. I can't even talk about it because I don't think anyone would want to hear it. My best friend and I talk all the time, but it's mostly about her. I help her through everything but can never tell her what's bothering me. I don't like to talk about it because I don't want her to leave me all alone like my other "friends" if she thinks I'm being stupid or selfish talking about myself. I don't want to be selfish.
I try so hard to be nice all the time and hardly speak my mind or bother people with how I feel because being nice is so important. But it's wearing me down. I keep everything inside and I don't think I could let it out because everyone would leave me again. Well, everyone that's left. It isn't fair, but I shouldn't say that. I don't want to complain because I don't want to come across as a brat.
I just want the sadness to go away. I just basically wallow in self-pity which isn't good and I know that. But I can't pull myself out of it. I don't know how to. I feel like such a bad person because I probably am. I'm trying to change things about myself so maybe I can feel better, but I'm never good enough. I'm so upset and I just want to stop crying all the time. But I can't. ='[ (link)
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I have been in the same boat..it just seems like life is never right..right? You have repressed feelings just like i do..you keep everything..but truth is..that wear you down mentally and physically..if you have good friends they would listen to your problems just like you listen to theres..so try to talk to them who knows people can surprise you..and also i advise you to talk to a counselor..i know it sounds stupid but it really worked for me..i am doing alot better and i dont feel so down all the time..also find something that you enjoy like a sport..or music..that can really alleviate some stress..also turn towards God and pray..God can do wonderful things..and if you have God in your life you can get throught anything..its an amazing feeling..if you dont read all of this just read what i am about to say....life is too short to wallow..get out there and enjoy your life..because you never know what is gonna happen.
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hey guys! 17 f
trying to lose weight. i'd say i dont look overweight.. but my weight is considered overweight..i currently weigh 183. ive been trying to lose weight by..
-not eating after hours.
- eating smaller portions..
- no greasy stuff. sugary stuff..
- (list of what i eat now) mostly boiled things. like boiled eggs.. boiled sweet plantains.. special k... maybe a slice of cheese... a small portion of rice.. orange juice..
yeah i dont drink water =/ I KNOW. its horrible but i just dont.. i force myself but i end up throwing it up.. what can i do? i mean this diet works but im not sure if its healthy or not =/..
thanks in advnace! (link)
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your diet seems possible..but really all you need to do..is eat lots of vegetable..fruits..and lean meats like chicken or fish..cut out alot of carbs..dont eat after 7..if you have a craving..go ahead and eat it right away and eat it in moderation..also for a desert..you can by low fat sugar free iceacream and by some fruit toppings..its really good and very low fat..also with this diet you need to exercise..about 30 min of cardio..and then tone your muscles..get a membership at your nearest gym and work out there..i know that you want to lose weight quick but within two weeks with just eating healthy and excercising..you are gonna see results..theres no good diet out there..eating healthy is the way
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ok i have been talkin to this guy and he lives REALLY far away. I like him a lot and he likes me a lot. He is a very sensative guy and thats what i like. But were starting to get pretty serious. We both agreed already that we can't have a long distance relationship because face it...those never really work out. the thing is i don't want to stop dating other people and wait for him. But then again i would feel like i was cheating. Do you understand what i'm tryin to get to? I like this guy alot but i can't put my life on hold just for him but yet i feel if i dont i'm going to hurt him and in a way hurt myself. Do you see my dilema? I don't know what to say think or do about it. (link)
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Ive totally been in this situation and i know exactly how you feel..the guy i liked lived all the way in michigan and i love in nc! Me and got pretty serious but i realized that..hes not there physically anymore and if you remove the physical part where you see eachother and hang out with eachother theres noway to possibly continue the relationship...my advice..i would end it with this guy for now but dont close the door on him because who knows maybe in the future something will happen and it will all work out..but for right now..i would end it..its for the best..im sure theres some guys just like him in your town..you just gotta be open and available
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i'm with a guy, i didnt go to school with him, hes 18, im 15. so um we always text, but sometimes we get to the point where we have no idea what to talk about. and i have no idea like what subject to bring up.
any ideas to keep a convo going?
and how do you get him to call you?
thnx (link)
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well thats your first mistake..you need to meet up with this guy face to face..texting is such a pussy thing to do..meet up with this guy..you might have more chemistry cuz it seems to me that you guys dont have alot in common..if you did..you wouldnt be running out of things to talk about..or you guys are just straight up boring
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I'm going to be attending cosmetology school soon to get my esthetician certificate (makeup and skincare) and become a makeup artist.
Two questions:
What do I wear to cosmetology school? Like when attending classes? Casual, semi-dressy?
As a makeup artist working in a salon, what should I wear?
Just so I can get a general idea. Outfit descriptions would be great, links even better.
If it makes a difference, I'm tall, medium weight (not super skinny but not chubby-), with pale skin, dark brown hair, and dark green eyes).
Thank you! (link)
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just dress like a fag on crack..that should do it
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ok i bought a herstyler like on friday and i tottally hate it now because i dont think its new at all then i told my mom and she said oh its so expensive. i feel sorry that i had ever bought that i was just thinking i should just buy a cheaper one at sallys but i think i got forced into buying it because my mom said you can have it now if you want. but then we both read the receipt and it says no returns or refund. then the lady also said that go online for warranty i dont get what that means because i didnt see anything about warranty there on their site. oh its so annoying i wasted 86 dollars. (link)
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well you officially got your first "you got screwed over" experience..yeah it sucks..i have so many of those its unbelievable...but it taught you valuable lesson....shave your head and wouldnt have to waste money like that
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okayyyy so when me and my boyfriend make out its really wet. (as in spit) the actual kiss is good but it always seems like its abnormally wet compared to like movies and stuff. is this normal? or do we need to change how we kiss?
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well probably the reason why it is a mess is because your crazy teenage hormones are raging right now therefore producing more spit and other bodily fluids more rapidly and efficiently..my advice go to the doctor and see if theres any medicine out there that can contain these hormones or you could buy a suction straw like the one you see at the dentist that sucks out all the spit after youve got your teeth cleaned from that nasty cherry flavored toothpaste..yuck that shit is nasty...anyways..you could use that every 4 minutes..im sure then..it would reduce the amount of spit
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16/f
Would tanning help hide my horrible stretchmarks? I have stretch marks on my arms and its really embarrasing =( I use to be really big and I've lost a lot of weight but the stretch marks kicked in ...is there any treatment ? Has anyone ever tried anything and sucessfully removed there stretch marks? (link)
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you get cream for stretch marks..they sell them at grocery stores and shit..you could probably got to a dermatologist and im sure they have some crazy technology shit to remove those stretch marks...or you could just cover them up with some concealor and forget everything else..my advice..get some cream..and then if that doesnt work..just tell people that you got in a crazy fight with your bipolar cat..ppl would think that was badass..
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