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ok i have been talkin to this guy and he lives REALLY far away. I like him a lot and he likes me a lot. He is a very sensative guy and thats what i like. But were starting to get pretty serious. We both agreed already that we can't have a long distance relationship because face it...those never really work out. the thing is i don't want to stop dating other people and wait for him. But then again i would feel like i was cheating. Do you understand what i'm tryin to get to? I like this guy alot but i can't put my life on hold just for him but yet i feel if i dont i'm going to hurt him and in a way hurt myself. Do you see my dilema? I don't know what to say think or do about it.
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I don't really see your dilemma here, actually. But I guess you have 2 options:
1. Date other people.
2. Don't date other people.
With the first, you just date other people. It isn't cheating, because you're not IN a relationship with this guy.
With the second, you wait for him and don't date anybody else. It seems like you want to go with this option more so than the first.
It's really up to you. You just have to decide if you WANT to date other people or not. We can't make the decision for you.
-Laura (16-f)
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Ive totally been in this situation and i know exactly how you feel..the guy i liked lived all the way in michigan and i love in nc! Me and got pretty serious but i realized that..hes not there physically anymore and if you remove the physical part where you see eachother and hang out with eachother theres noway to possibly continue the relationship...my advice..i would end it with this guy for now but dont close the door on him because who knows maybe in the future something will happen and it will all work out..but for right now..i would end it..its for the best..im sure theres some guys just like him in your town..you just gotta be open and available
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i know exactly how youre feeling and it sucks.
alotttt.
but maybe you should try telling him about this and see what he thinks and how he feels about the relationship between you two.
and maybe you two should just be really good friends and maybe sometime later in life there could be a relationship thats more then just friends.
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