14/f ok so im tired of always being akward around guys especially ones that i like so i need flirting tips... thanks muddymidfielder
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Cux answered Monday August 18 2008, 11:17 pm: 1. Smile! If you're not smiling, chances are the guy won't be interested.
2. Don't always talk about yourself, let him talk about himself, too! Balance the conversation. Yes, conversations are a HUGE way to flirt more indirectly ;].
3. Think about what you do. Don't just blindly go around flirting with everyone. Some people don't want to flirt, and you can tell by their body language, facial expressions, etc.
4. Be nice. I can't tell you how many times I've seen girls be complete bitches. It's SO irritating. If you're not nice, then it isn't worth the effort. Guys don't like bitches.
5. BE YOURSELF! I know you said not to say this, but as the above question told you, if you aren't yourself- who are you going to be? You aren't being truthful with the guy if you're making up things about yourself or you're doing things you normally wouldn't do. The guy will get the wrong impression and may like something about you that isn't even a part of you.
6. HAVE FUN! If you aren't at least doing that, I don't know what to tell you ;]
heya answered Monday August 18 2008, 10:58 pm: I know everyone says this but truly..you just need to be yourself...if you have a good sense of humor use that to your advantage when youre flirting with a guy...if you are just a really sweet person then compliment them on their shirt or hair or w/e..you cant be shy or they will never know youre flirting..guys dont ever pick up signals with shy girls..you have to be outgoing..you also need to make eye contact with them..and maybe give them a cute smile or touch their shoulder..then they will start picking up signals..good luck to you! [ heya's advice column | Ask heya A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.