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is three months far?
hello my name is seanicka and im 18. Im in a long distance relationship and I was wondering do you think seeing my boyfriend every three months or two is bad? we love each other dearly and willing to make it work.
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As long as you both stay committed, you should be fine.
Sometimes my sister and her long-distance boyfriend don't see each other for months at a time and he's only home for about a week or so. And it works for them.
--Jack
(16/m)
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It depends on how bad you guys wanna make this work...i dont see a problem in seeing eachother every three months..but i do warn you..it will be challenging and you guys will have to trust eachother completely to make it work. So many girls go into relationships without building that strong trust system with their boyfriends and then they end up getting screwed over. If you guys trust eachother and are willing to do anything then i think you guys will make it. Good luck
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well if you guys are really in love and trust each other then i don't think its bad.. i mean i wouldn't be able to be in a relationship like that i have to see my boyfriend at least 4 times a week but if you two are willing to make it work then i think its fine, that must be really hard though
goodluck!
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Hey,
I'm an eighteen year old guy in a long distance relationship also. My girlfriend lives in Liverpool, England, and I'm in Vancouver, Canada. We met on vacation, and have been madly in love ever since. In fact, I've just returned from visiting her for three weeks, and now she is staying with my family and I in Vancouver for a month.
If you love each other as much as my girlfriend and I do, you can make it work. We've talked extensively over our trips about how we can possibly make things work, and we've come to the conclusion that regardless of distance or money, if you find someone who is right for you, never give up. Personally, the distance for me is ten hours on a plane and eight hours of time differencial. We are making things work, and have a plan for the future.
I'm not going to lie; it is very difficult. Trusting your partner to remain faithful is difficult, but achievable if you really believe things manageable. I love Gina to the moon and back though, and we've decided it is worth it. I'll be seeing her again in October, March, and July. We would do anything for three month intervals to be honest, so if you've found what I have, I urge you to pursue it.
I hope this helps.
-kitsy
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i think its not enough i mean it seems enough but once you get more involved with the guy your not going to just see him every 3 months, believe been there, also when you have a long distance relationship at fist it works great but then trust issues can really lead to break up , and its even wort when you guys would fight you wouldnt be able to fix things personally ( its easier to end a fight if you guys see each other not just fighting thorgh phone or msn ) and you will suffer alot from missing the other person, also wouldnt you want a relationship with someone that you can see whenever you want and can really spend quality time with him not just every 3 months?? think about the trus issues i think thats teh most important part, but hey maybe it could work who knows but i tell you my experience, my cousin's experience and some of my friends
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You're 18, so long distance might work better for you than it did for me when I was about 14/15.
They usually are hard to work with. But seeing them every two or three months? I'm sorry but that's not right. You say you're willing to make it work, but you're going to want to see each other more than that.
But that's just my opinion.
Hope I helped, let me know.
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