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i love the series called "summer boys" by hailey abbott along with her books that shes done.I was wondering if anyone could recommend books that are like or same style of writing as hailey abbott.


Wow, I am so sick of people suggesting Sarah Dessen, the it girls, gossip girl, and the twilight series. i mean HELLO. there are ten times more amazing books out there.

kay. first off.

you HAVE to read anatomy of a boyfriend. it's an amazingly hilarious book.
24 girls in 7 days. amazing.
two way street. amazing.
so much more.


hello my name is seanicka and im 18. Im in a long distance relationship and I was wondering do you think seeing my boyfriend every three months or two is bad? we love each other dearly and willing to make it work.

You're 18, so long distance might work better for you than it did for me when I was about 14/15.

They usually are hard to work with. But seeing them every two or three months? I'm sorry but that's not right. You say you're willing to make it work, but you're going to want to see each other more than that.

But that's just my opinion.
Hope I helped, let me know.



It's not my favorite, but I like it better than cantaloupe.


the color cantaloupe is it really that color or lighter or daarker orangey more coz i dnt kno if i shud buy it or not bcuz i hateeeee getin ripped off!

has anyone tried it?
ooooh! also the punch, and peach fizz, ND HONEY!

i like recommendations =]]]]]

It really is that color.
It may be a little bit lighter, but basically it's the same color. =]

I've tried the punch and the peach fizz and personally, I love the punch. It's a really pretty color.

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Sorry, but how exactly do you remove a song from the mp3? and do you mean move the songs then add them again in a new playlist?

Connect the USB cable to your Sansa MP3 player, then hook the other end to a free USB port on your computer.
Give the computer time to recognize the Sansa MP3 player. Once it has, double-click on the MP3 player’s icon to view the music files stored to memory.
Scroll through the list of audio files until you find the ones that you wish to delete from the Sansa MP3 player.
Click on single items or click and lasso multiple files.
Right-click on the highlighted files to pull down an action list and from there select Delete. The computer will ask if you really want to throw the file away. Select OK.
Exit from the window, then disconnect the USB cable from the Sansa MP3 player. The player will automatically turn off. The memory will update the first time you turn the player on after deleting songs.


so i just bought marc by marc jacobs white skinny leg jeans and im so excited for them to be delivered but im not sure what to wear with them. im talking about shoes. i know the best thing to probably wear them with would be pumps or some kind of heel and im fine with that. i love heels but i'll also be wearing these in school and running all around the school and up and down stairs in pumps is not so practical.

also! i have a size 10 foot and flats that have absolutely no heel and skinny jeans really bring out the large-ness of my feet which i dont like.

Converse and skinny jeans are my specialty.
It's cute, and converse are comfortable.

Wear some bright colored ones to go with the white. Like bright neon colors.


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hi, i was wondering where i can find a program to transfer the songs from my ipod back into my itunes library. for free.. and also alllll of my songs, not just a trial version for 200 songs

You don't need a program.
Here's two ways to do it, without a program.

1. A reader points out a straightforward way for Windows users to transfer music from an iPod to your hard drive, without extra software:

1. Connect the iPod to your PC. If iTunes starts syncing (ie erasing) your music automatically, hit the X in the upper right hand corner of iTunes display, to the left of the search box, to stop it.
2. In Control Panel, Portable Media Devices, double-click your iPod.
3. In the Tools menu -> Options, in the View Tab, check "Show hidden files and folders."
4. Navigate to the Music folder. On my 2nd gen 'pod, the full path is
Portable Media Devices\GINA'S IPOD (F:)\iPod_Control\Music
5. Select all the music folders, and drag and drop them into a folder on your hard drive, or directly into iTunes.

And you're done! The iPod music folder structure is strange and inexplicable, but once you move your files into iTunes you can set it to automatically organize your folder by artist and album to clean that up. (To do this, in iTunes Edit menu, choose Preferences and in the Advanced tab, check "Keep iTunes Music Folder organized.")


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Okay, I was watching LOGO a long time ago. And I remember watching a movie on there. I'll try to describe as much as I remember.

There were these two friends. One was a girl and the other was a guy. The girl was blonde and the guy was a really pale guy and he always wore black. The guy was gay. I remember there was a part where they were sleeping in the park. And the guy was in the bathroom. And earlier that day, they saw a bus filled with football players. So anyways, he was in the bathroom & one of the football players walk in the bathroom. And I think they have sex. And I remember in the end they decide to move on. And I think they were at a cemetary when they were saying goodbye to each other.

I need to know this movie. Please help me!

I'm pretty sure I found the movie you're looking for.

This movie is called Gypsy 83.
Here's stuff about it to see if I'm right?

Hope I helped, let me know? =]


I love seventeen magazine and cosmogirl so i take their magazines apart, grab all the good articles, put them in page protectors and into a binder. It's getting pretty costly having to buy all those page protecters! Is there any way I could protect my magazine clip outs have them so I can read them anytime in a binder.

Any ideas BESIDE:
1. gluing them to paper and three hole punching them (that wastes paper and is bad for the enviorment)
2. put them all over my wall (who wants that)
3. make a collage (no)

please help me!! I need to make sure I can get to them through a binder or some kind of book, but still have them not ripe.

& no i'm not just gonna keep them in the magazine!

I do that too.
I just got one of those portfolio things and put them in there, and I organized them by the magazine.

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In Keith Urbans music video for You Look Good In My Shirt, does any one know why he is laughing when he first starts. It is a video from one of his live concerts so if anyone was there and saw your answer would be helpful

He's laughing because the crowd was going wild.

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how can i tighten and tone my vagina?

* When you're peeing, clench (without your hands) your muscles to stop the flow of urine for about four seconds. Then release those same muscles to let the urine flow again. These are your pelvic floor muscles; these are the muscles you'll be exercising when you do Kegels.
* If you want to check and make sure that you're using the right muscles, put a finger or two into your vagina. Tighten the muscles. If you can feel your fingers being squeezed (even just a little), then you've located the right muscles.
* About five to ten times a day, repeat the Kegels ten times per session.
* It can take up to 8 - 10 weeks to notice improvement, and there will most certainly be improvement. Like any kind of weight lifting or muscle building exercises, Kegels take time to make a difference! (Adding a vaginal barbell to your regular Kegel exercise routine can help. They are available at specialty stores that carry sex toys or sexual enhancement items.)

Do kegel exercises. Its done by holding and squeezing your p.c (pubococcygeus) muscles. Try holding your urine when you pee. Those muscles you are squeezing are your pc muscles. Once you can identify them you can squeeze them anytime. Like at work or when driving. It will help tighten things up. I had my son and afterwards I did those and one time my husband complained I was squeezing to hard. It will help restore tone and they are really easy to do.

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Okay so
Me and my boyfriend are sexually active, but rarely. The times we do have sex we're ALWAYS protected.
The condom has never busted or anything like that... but I have a question.

Is it normal for periods to be 1-2 weeks late every once in awhile? I'm 18 years old... and I don't know I always have scares like this, I guess I'm just paranoid... but I've been getting the faint stomach pains that always come before my period.. but it's just not coming and i don't understand why. We probably had sex either right after my last period came or right before... I can't exactly remember, but either why it was about a month and a week or something ago.

So is this normal?
Please give me all the advice you can.

You could end up having your period every 35 days and it would still be normal. So yes, you're fine and everything, and yes it's normal.

The more you stress or worry about it, the later it comes. Just in case you didn't know that.

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Can You Actually Get Famous From Posting Videos On Youtube? Singing Videos I Guess. Like If Some Company Finds You And Likes You Or Something. Has That Every Happened Before?

It's happened, but it's not LIKELY.
It could happen, but you would have to be making videos about something amazing, haha.

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At the end of august i'm flying from New York to Las Vegas, the flight is a good 6 hours.
I have this scrunching mousse from sunsilk that I want to bring, but I'm not sure if its safe.
It comes in a can, like an aerosol can, and it says "contents under pressure" and to not store it at temperatures above 120 degrees [F]
I know for sure it's not allowed in carry-ons, but if i put it in my checked luggage would it be fine?


I've brought stuff like that and kept it in my purse or in my make up bag.

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I see what you mean, and it works, thanks! But is there anyway that i can transfer the music into a new playlist if it has already been syncronized to my mp3? Because i don't want to sync all the songs again, you know?

Remove the songs you don't want then just make a different playlist.


how much weight can one stamp "hold"
how do you know when you need more than one?

The only way to know for sure that you've applied sufficient postage for the weight of the envelope is to take it by a Post Office or a satellite postal store and let them weigh it and put the postage on for you.

To do your own calculation:

If your envelope becomes "Nonmachinable" (cannot go through the automated machines), there could be a surcharge incurred since it will require manual handling.


Does anybody know if those blackhead erasers from like Clean & Clear and Neutrogena actually work?

They drastically helped with mine.
You just have to follow the directions VERY carefully.

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is there a way to change my eye color (like a product or something) that I can buy with no permission and under 18?????????

Colored contacts.
Talk to your eye doctor.
Just call him/her yourself.

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(There's no other way)


whats a face toner

From what I know.. toner shrinks up your pores and soothes your skin. You'll also may be a little less oily over time.

I think the original purpose of toner was to tighten the skin through the application of alcohols. Alcohols are drying because they evaporate easily, taking water from the surface of the skin. When the skin is dry, it becomes tight (as we all know!).

As skin care has evolved, there are more toners that include many other ingredients without alcohol. I love my toner, but only use an alcohol free one. I hate the way they make my skin feel when they have alcohol. If you have even moderately dry skin or sensitive skin, I would encourage you to stay away from them. They actually make your skin oiler (in most cases) because they dry you out and your skin produces more oil to compensate for the loss.

Oil is there to protect your skin, so you dont want to get rid of all of it. The more you get rid of it, the more it will produce. I have suffered from bad acne my whole life and have been through every product and medication you can think of. I have finally controlled my skin extremely well in my adulthood by not being so mean to it. I remember I used to scrub my face in the shower with Clinque's 3 step system (the bar of soap and a face cloth). I just cringe thinking about it now. Then I would get out and wipe their alcohol laiden toner all over my face and try to compensate with the lack lustre Dramatically Different cream. Stupid, stupid, stupid. Now, I dont even use a face wash (unless I wear heavy makeup). I use Proactive's wash periodically (probably every 2nd day) and alternate with an at home microdermabraision kit. I use the proactive toner (which has a minute amount of alcohol). I moisturize very well and my skin has never been clearer.

I guess what I am trying to say is just be careful with your skin. I regret all the things I did because I thought I was supposed to do it. I thought I was supposed to scrub the livin daylights outta my skin because it would make my acne go away. I have premature wrinkles from all the creams, medications and drying things I used. I know alcohol based toners are not the only reason I have them, but it definitely contributed to my skin problem.

In all honesty, I really think the less you put on your skin, the more your skin will thank you for it.

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This is the first cell phone I ever got and the first cell phone anyone in my house ever got. It's Virgin Mobile. I'm on prepaid services (that means i can pay as i go right? I won't use it a lot).

On the box in the front, it says "Be up $50 on prepaid $35 and get a $15 credit when you activate online".

What's "prepaid" and "credit"?

I logged into my account on their website and under ACCOUNT BALANCE it says:

Top up Balance: $15.00
Expires On: 04/Sep/2008

"Expires"?! and where did the $35 go?

Credit means when you activated your phone online, you got 15 dollars. Which is what the top up balance is.

Prepaid means the pay as you go thing.

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