okayyyy so when me and my boyfriend make out its really wet. (as in spit) the actual kiss is good but it always seems like its abnormally wet compared to like movies and stuff. is this normal? or do we need to change how we kiss?
If that's not enough, just joke around with him and be like, "Whoa! Wet! Haha." Make it like you're just having fun with him, but he'll get the hint and know to swallow more.
duudee_advicer answered Sunday August 10 2008, 12:35 pm: Wet, messy kisses can sometimes just totally ruin the moment. On the other hand, some people enjoy them. Either way, its totally normal.
If you'd like to calm down the messy-ness, try this. Swallow before you start kissing, try swallowing while kissing to. You can easily pull your lips back for a second to swallow then continue. When using your tongue, try not to shove your spit in with your tongue. Thats pretty hard to explain, but just be aware if things are starting to get really wet to try swallowing a little more often.
If you're comfortable with it, you can ask your boyfriend to swallow a little bit more to help out.
heya answered Sunday August 10 2008, 1:18 am: well probably the reason why it is a mess is because your crazy teenage hormones are raging right now therefore producing more spit and other bodily fluids more rapidly and efficiently..my advice go to the doctor and see if theres any medicine out there that can contain these hormones or you could buy a suction straw like the one you see at the dentist that sucks out all the spit after youve got your teeth cleaned from that nasty cherry flavored toothpaste..yuck that shit is nasty...anyways..you could use that every 4 minutes..im sure then..it would reduce the amount of spit [ heya's advice column | Ask heya A Question ]
laynemayhem answered Sunday August 10 2008, 1:02 am: thats pretty normal. especially if you include tongue. my boyfriend and i make out and it gets really wet, too. just make sure to swallow often.
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