Hey...My name is Jess I'm 16 I am a Junior at an all girls highschool. I am deeply in love with my boyfriend of 3 years. I have been through alot in life. and I am willing to help anyone with anything. It doesnt matter it can be from wanting to kill your self to what flip flops match what skirt. I've had it pretty rough and I never had anyone to talk to and I know who it feels. Thats why I made this account. So please ask me anything and I will try my best to help you.
Also if anyone needs any advice from a guy my boyfriend Shaun is willing to help. He is 20 years old and is a freshmen in College.
Here's a little survey I took so you could get to know me a little better
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E-mail: xoxjesixox@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvina
Occupation: Junior in highschool
Age: 16
AIM: ask and I will tell you
Member Since: July 21, 2004
Answers: 16
Last Update: August 11, 2004
Visitors: 1403
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Ok, my friend is 18 and his girlfriend is 19. She is a virgin and has never done anything with anyone else before. So he told me they were talking and she wants to lose her virginity to him. He said exact words "I don't know what to do because it can't fit in" then he explained that he can't even get his fingers in and her been trying but he doesn't want to hurt her. She said she thinks she has a thick hymen. Does anyone have any helped for my friend? I told him to have her go to the doctors but I don't know if he is going to tell her that. My friend is too embarassed to ask people because hes a guy but her problem has never happened to me before. Can any1 help them out? I'm being 100% serious
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Well theres really nothing he can do. If they are going to have sex or if hes gonna finger her hes going to have to force it in, and its going to hurt her at first. Or she could also finger herself making it easier for him. But it will still hurt for her. I hope I helped
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I am 17 f and my boyfriends friend always wants to talk to me about sex and he always tells me how much he loves me and needs me in his life but he knows that i have a boyfriend and my boyfriend is like his best friend I dont know what to do cuz I like my boyfriends friend but only as a friend do u think i should tell my boyfriend what his friend is saying to me? or should i just let his friend talk to me the way he does? (link)
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If I were you I'd talk to my boyfriends friend and tell him he cant say these things to me, and that I dont have feelings like that for him, and that isnt not going to be anything more then jsut friends with us. And if worse comes to worse and if he doesnt stop then tell your boyfriend. I hope I helped
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What are some good truth or dares? plz hell cause im having a Sleepover. (link)
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well, it depends on your age and if your with guys and girls or jsut guys. so post again with the info and I'll give you some good ones
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me nd my ex bf dave just broke up, we was going out for about a year and 7 months... puuurty long time, by the way i'm 14, and daves 16. He was my first everything.. Love, Kiss, just everything about this boy i loved s0o much, but he wanted a break or w/e. So a couple nights ago he was tellin me he was gettin with a whole bunch of gurls, but i know these gurls.. and they were telling me they aint with him, or nothin. Then he told me he was going down mountains for the weekend with Brittney and Candace, s0o i was like Okay david.. w/e man, have a good time. But then Candace called me up askin to go 0utsyde with her that same weekend, and i asked her wut about dave, her nd Britt.. and she said nahh she wasn't going anywhere with david, she hadn't talked to him in a really long time. So i'm just sittin here the like what the fuuck... why is he tellin me this bullshit, I asked a couple friends about it.. and they said that he wants me to get jealous, i really did get jealous.. but just didn't let him kno how muchh it hurt me. So i told him i was gonna go on a date with Frankiie, but he didn't know Frank was my cousin... and he got pissed off, like really pissed. And i'm completely lost on this, i dont know why hes acting like this.... what do you think is wrong, and why hes actin this way, ne ideas.. please!? i really need some good advice on this one!! sorry its so long..
signed,
Confusedd =/ (link)
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Confused,
It seems like Dave still has ALOT of feelings for you. And he wants you to get jelaous, and if he knows you are jealous he knows that you still care about him. And when you told him you were going on a date with Frankie he got mad cause he doesnt want to think that youve moved on and forgot about him. Bascially you need to talk to him about this and figure it all out, cause obviously you 2 still have strong feelings for eachother. I'm sorry if I couldnt help you.
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My boyfriend acts like he*s two different people, When we're on the phone, he's funny and happy and lovable, then when we see each other he's moody and we get into arguements! I don't know whats wrong with him, he just acts so weird! Can you help me?? I'd really appreciate it! Thx! x0 (link)
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Well, it could be alot of things. My best friends boyfriend is like that too, one minute hes happy and then the next hes a total ass. But we also think hes bipolar. Not saying your boyfriend is bipolar or anything. The only think I can think of is talking to him about it, asking him why he changes when you 2 see eachother. I'm sorry if I didnt really help
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I dated this person 4 almost 4 yrs... I loved them soo much n then we went down hill. I don't know if I'm still "inlove" with them, but I always think about them. It's starting to get better and fade away, but they seem to already have moved on. It's only been a year!! What should I do?? Do you think they've moved on?We were eachothers first loves, and I thought first loves don't end!!!Plz Help!! (link)
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Since this person was your first love you will ALWAYS have feelings for this person. The best thing for you to do is try not to worry about them. Go out with a close group of friends and meet new people. In time things will pass by. I know its hard knowing that this person has moved on. But in time so will you. I hope I helped
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What would you do if things in your life were always downhill and uphill like big time. I have delt with it all...family in jail family getting divorced rape drugs sex everything in the book ive been through it, and im 14! Ok so I have always had trouble getting through anything and I always feel that i need an adult to talk to..but theres no way i could talk to my mom. So i have 3 people who have helped me in the past. One was my moms friend, one was a teacher and currentley one is my cousin and godmother. Yeah well it seems that everything just got better. Good right? No wrong becuase now shes moving away to south carolina and i live in michigan. I am afraid that everything is going to go back downhill. I have recentley decided to keep my life up and look at the good side of things and take control of what i can. But now i fear i will slip back and go into a deep depression once again. I dont kno what to do im confused..someone please help me. (link)
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I know what you are going through I've been through it all. and it is hard and you cant always do this on your own. and the good thing is you know that. You took charge and found someone to talk to. It is going to be hard when your cousin moves but try your best to keep in touch with her. You can send letters, emails, talk through AIM and the phone. Just try to keep your head up. I know this probally didnt help you, and I'm sorry if it didnt but if you need to talk you can I/M me on crazy xcoolx kid
I hope I helped
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does anyone know any good clothes stores with cheap clothes? i'm not saying cheap cheap but cheaper than abercrombie type cheap. help asap! i rate REALLY good! (link)
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well...if you want clothes that are less expensive you can always try places like , Kohls, Target, Formanmills, Walmart and K-mart. Just because you go to these types of stores doesnt mean anything, I mean why go and spend 4o dollars on a pair of pants you can get at target for like 2o. well...Hope I helped
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ok im 5'8 and im to tall already and family always used to say that i was the tall skinny one..but now i am like 130 lbs...i am fat...i mean if i pinch the skin on my stomach i get liek a lot of fat...its really embarssing...bcuz i never want to wear a bathin suit bcuz it shows my stomach...and i live on a lake..so its hard not to...bcuz i aloso luv swimmin very much! i play volleyball but i feel that i need to do somthing else to lose sum wieght...what can i do? {14-f}
~feelin fat :( (link)
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Hi...Personally I dont not think you need to loose anyweight. but the best thing you can do for your stomach is do sit ups, like start out by doing 10 a day and everyweek add another 10. If you dont add sit ups each week your body will get use to it and it wont be a challange and you wont see a change. You could also stay away from the fried foods, and walk as much as possible, bascially stay active. I hope I helped you
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hey does anyone know how i can pratice pitching without some1 catching with me and the throw backs.. is there some how another way?? i know its a stupid question but i would like to kno.. and how else can i improve my preformance in softball by any way?? thanx (link)
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You can pratice your pitching by throwing the ball at a wall. Aiming at a certin spot. It helps alot and you dont need anyone else to catch or throw back. The way me and a few friends would improve our proformance in softball is we would get a group of friends and play a game. It was fun and we were improving our game at the same time. I hope I helped
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i don't know what 2 say 2 brad...how can i confront him?! I think of him everytime the song "Pieces of Me" plays becuz i am comfortable around him....and i love him and i want 2 b able 2....write (link)
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Well..first you have to find out if he has feelings for you. The best thing for you to do is talk to him. Tell him how you feel. That you feel really comfortable around him, and that he means alot to you. I hope I helped
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A few weeks ago my brother and his girlfriend were over at our house and he had left the room to go to the bathroom. While he was gone my brother's girlfriend started leaning on me and saying things to me that she shouldn't have been saying to her boyfriend's younger brother. My brother eventually came back into the room and it didn't happen again. The next week she came over again and did the same thing while my brother was out of the room. But this time she tried to reach her hand down my pants. I stopped her and asked what she was doing. She told me to just relax but I still didn't let her, eventually my brother came back in the room and ended it. She didn't come over the next week and I hand't talked to her since so I thought it was finally over. But last week she IMed me online and started saying the same things she was saying to me in person like she wanted to have sex with me and stuff. Don't get me wrong, I would love to get physical with this girl...she is really hot and she has a great personality. The problem is as clear as day though...she's dating my older brother. The other thing is though, my brother and I have never been close even before he left for college. We have also been getting into tons of fights in recent weeks. However my brother really loves this girl and I even overheard him telling my mother that he thinks she is the one. Should I hook up with her? Please help me out... (link)
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No...you should not hook up with her. Obviously your brother has ALOT of feelings for this girl. and even though you and your brother fight and arent close doesnt mean you should get with his girlfriend. and I also think you should talk to your brother about it, if she sayd this kind of stuff to you his younger brother, just think what she is doing with other guys. So my advice to you is not to hook up with her and talk to your brother about it. It may be hard to resist her and even harder to tell your brother but its something you have to do. I hope I helped
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i need advice on what to do here... i am 14 and there's is this guy i like that is also 14...before school ended we went out for about a week. but he hardly ever talked to me. when we broke up he told me "that he liked me, but he like me, like me..." then he sadi he just wanted to be freinds...so i thought i could get over it, but we live on the same lake, so just about everyday i see him and i just think about when we went out. i still really like him. i dotn know what to do. help plz! (link)
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well...theres a few things you can do. You can talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. I mean whats the worst thing that can happen? He tells you he doesnt have those kind of feelings for you? yeah It's hard and its something you dont want to hear, but atleast you know and dont go around wondering what if. You could also go out and meet new people meet new guys. It's going to be hard seeing him everyday but things will change and it will be easier for you to see him. The best thing for you to do is talk to him. Hope I helped
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whats the best way to get a babysitting job? (link)
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When I would babysit I would talk to family and watch my little cousins, or my friends little brothers and sisters, or friends of the family. It's best to look for baby sitting jobs with people you know. baby sitting for your neighbors is always good too. hope I helped
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What's YOUR definition of love? I'm not sure if I'm in it... (link)
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Well...to diffrent people love could mean a bunch of things...but to me love its hard to explain its just a feeling. When your inlove you know. Like me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and still everytime I see him I get butterfly's in my stomach, my heart pounds really fast, I cant stop smiling and when I'm having the worst day I see or talk to him and everything goes away. Thats my deffinition of love. I hope I helped you.
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last summer(july) i met this kid,Jason that lived in maine(i liv in massachusetts).He said if i took the time to know him i would really like him so i took the time (we only were together for like 2 days cuz it was a festival in NH)he asked for my and i gave it to him as soon as i got home in mass the next day he called me but my frend was over n i payed more attention to her then i did jason so he said hes let me go so the next week he called agian but once agian i didnt pay attention to him so he said hed let me go agian...September N October he didnt call then he called agian in November December n January but i was always like not listening to him cuz i wasnt really interested so then he stopped callin wen he did call everytime i mentioned a guys name he would be like whos that?hed always ask me if i would be at that festival this yr that we met at last year but i never gave him an answer.also wen i first met him he was rally nice but wen i wasnt really talin to him on the fone he would brag bout al the money he had n the cars n stuff stupid ?s but do you think he jus bragged cuz he wanted me to talk to him?n ya think he actaully liked me?o and im goin to that festival next week n if i run into him wtf do i say? (link)
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Well...obviously you have no feelings for this guy. He might be bragging because he wants to get your attention. If you see him at the festival try to keep your distance but if he comes up to him, let him down easy, be like you seem like a nice guy but right now I'm not looking for a relationship. I hoped I helped
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