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I dated this person 4 almost 4 yrs... I loved them soo much n then we went down hill. I don't know if I'm still "inlove" with them, but I always think about them. It's starting to get better and fade away, but they seem to already have moved on. It's only been a year!! What should I do?? Do you think they've moved on?We were eachothers first loves, and I thought first loves don't end!!!Plz Help!!
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First loves do end... obviously if there is a first there will be a second... whether they have moved on or not u should try to move on... u cant hold on to sumthing forever... eventually you have to let go and continue with your life... things change, people change... life goes on :)
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Oh i had the same problem so it`s easy for me to relate. You two will always be in love no matter what, it will take time for you to move on. Guys seem to be able to move on quicker to save heartbreak... but he will always love you no matter what n` you should try the same. Good Luck :)
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Well, you have to move on sometime. I mean, they are your first love, and you will always love them .. This i know .. :-/ .. I'm sure they've moved on but they still remember you and they always will because you were that person's first love too .. Who really knows what is goin through their head .. they will always be in your heart, and you can't do anything about it but move on. I hope you're okay.. Break ups can be harsh
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i dont think that it will be easy to get over him but you will eventually do it! nd it seems to me that guys get over grlz so much easier/faster than grlz get ova guys..so jus give it a lil more time nd your gonna be over it too...hope i helped_xOx_
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I think that you will always love your first love. And i'm sure its hard to move on. But you've got to. He might have moved on but i'm sure you still hold a special place in his heart. I'm sure it'll take you a long time. but keep your head up things will get better.
-holly-
hope i helped
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When my first bf broke up with me ..I felt down in the dumps. I know how you fell and then he went out with my best friend...but like people always say theres plenty of other fish in the sea a lot cutier fish.
signed,
Tawnyj2j
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0o0ok yea First loves can tend 2 last 4 ever!But if u really truely luv him tell him bout how u feel. Or if he has already got a gf then i think everything will just pass bye.But deep down truely he may still love u or still have feelings 4 u! I hope i helped!
0x0 Krazzi Shawty<Plz Rate>
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okayy... it`s totally, completely normal tp feel this way. it will take a long while to get over you special someone. and no they are not over you yet. im almost 99 out of 100% sure of that. first loves never die. its normal. hope i helped! =) xox
-Jess
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ask him hope i helped
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Sorry, first loves don't always last. All you can do is just move on. You might always love them, but the part of your life where you both were in love with each other is gone. Maybe you could try being friends with this person. But if you think it would be too hard, and you would get upset everytime you think he/she is interested in someone else, then I would take a break from spending time with him/her for a while.
I'm still in this type of situation with my first love. I still love him, and I always will, but it's different then when we were going out. I love him like a best friend, not a lover. A lot of times it's better than before.
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What do you mean by them/they? But, I know its tough since this person was your first love. You'll never really stop loving that person. True love, really never has an ending, you just sometimes have to move on. But, you have to let go of this person's heart and if it returns then it was ment to be. But, if you want you can try confronting this person and just being like "You were my first love, true love never ends, and I know you have someone right now, but I'm still in love with you and I just want to know how you feel about me." Say something like that, but if you dont then the best thing for you to do is go out and have fun. And by doing that, you can't just sit around waiting for there heart to return. Go out and meet new people, you might even fall in love! Who knows! But, you have to go out and have fun, go to the mall, friends house, parties, etc. wherever people will be that you can meet and try to hook up! You only live life once, don't you? Hope this helps and good luck! If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox!
xoxo Kourtney
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If you are still in contact with this person you need 2 confront and tell them how you feel!! Ask them is it really over between us?? Tell them that you would like 2 start over and if there isn't anything there move on and forget about them, said 2 ur self that i deserve better!!
Good Luck!!
.*.BeSs.*.
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im really confused. them? they?
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Since this person was your first love you will ALWAYS have feelings for this person. The best thing for you to do is try not to worry about them. Go out with a close group of friends and meet new people. In time things will pass by. I know its hard knowing that this person has moved on. But in time so will you. I hope I helped <3 Jesi
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