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hey..Im kind of in the triangle here..I have a boyfriend named russ but two other guys like me..I really like all 3 of them but im not sure what to do..I feel like im losing my best friend becuz of my new boyfriend, but im falling for him..The other guys name is Billy..and i was with him for 3 months and i fell for him too..and the new guy name is Justin.Help me what should I do? (link)
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Go with your instinct. The guy you really like the most. And don't ditch your friends for guys or anything. That just messes up stuff big time. But with the whole guy thing, I would stay with your boyfriend and just tell the other guys to buzz off and that you're already taken.:-D
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I'm at a new school where i dont know many people... i made this one friend, lets just call her anna. So anna and i have been hanging out on the weekends and stuff for the past 3 weeks and im starting to realize that she is really conceited. I don't want to have a friend like this, but i don't really have any other options because i don't want to be friendless. I don't know if you can help very much, just give me your thoughts on this, or maybe if you can relate we can talk about your experience. thanks. (link)
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Well, a good friend would just be straight up and tell her that you don't like it. If she gets mad then she does. But you don't want other people thinking that about her either.
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ok, all of my friends got mad at me on friday at a birthday party. this is why: my one friend(let's call her mo)told me on thursday night that my other friend(let's call her go)was going to dump my other friend(lets call her jo)after go's party. trying to be a good friend and warn jo, i told her that go was planning on dumping her the day after the party. it turned out that mo was lying and then she got my other friend(lets call her so)mad at me. jo got mad at me for some odd reason that i dont know and now jo go and my other friend ko are all mad at me. mo and so made up with me after school today-and i hope it stays this way. anyways, how do i get jo ko and go to not be mad at me? i mean i didn't do anything to ko or jo and go should be mad at mo. plz help!!!i rate. thx, ~fused 1~ (link)
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tell them that you were just trying to protect a friend. And that one friend shouldn't lie to the other one about things like that. You were just being a nice friend and i understand where you're coming from. Good luck.
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There's this guy that I'ved like for about a year or so now and he's told me that he's liked me to. We've hung out outside of school a lot and everything went great. I really love who I am when I'm with him. He's such an amazing person and I love spending time with him. The only problem is that lately he's been distancing himself from me because he's afraid to get hurt. When he told me that I seemed to distance myself from him so I didn't fall even harder just incase it didn't work out. I still have really strong feelings for him and we talk all the time, I'm just not sure on what I should do. I've told him how I feel. I think I really love him. Should I lay it all out on the table and tell him everything I think about him and the way he makes me feel or should I just give him his space until he figures out what he's feeling? (link)
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I think you could do both. Tell him exactly how you feel .. and if you have that strong of feelings for him, you'd wait for him until he figures out his feelings for you as well. Waiting might be hard. If he takes too long then maybe being friends is just something that has to happen there. But just flat out tell him everything you feel and have him figure out what he's feeling as well.. Good luck
*__Shannon
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i am 5 feet tall exactly. i weigh 135 pounds. is this overweight? (link)
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go here .. http://nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm and calculate your BMI .. Body mass Index
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Okay, Here is the deal. I'm usually good at givng myself advice, but I don't know what to do on this one. I like 2 boys. Corey and Charles.
I've known CHARLES for about 1 1/2. He's like a best friend to me and I told him before that I like him, but I guess he never really thought about giving me a chance. Charles is always making me laugh and I just love being around him ( I can be myself with him and he wont put me down). Corey, Well I like him too (ALOT).. although I've only known him since this year, But I've liked him since I first saw him. I always thought he hated me, and my friends would tell me that he thought I was ugly,( People say I'm not ugly though) and he hated me. That stuff was NEVER said. Him and I were in class one day and we were passing notes.. I asked him about the things people were saying that he said about me, he said they were never true, he also said that since he's gotten to know me that he thought I was cute and cool. So now, me and Corey are good friends ( I like him because I can be myself around him also, and not have to worry about being put down).. His EX girlfriend, Dylan, she hates the crap out of me, but I hate her with a passion too.. Corey said that when she moves he will think about giving me a chance. It's all really hard because I like both CHARLES and COREY. Not only because they're REALLY cute, but because of the way they are..the way they act. Anyway, I just needed help on what to do with this problem. I've always liked Charles, and now I'm starting to like Corey even more.. I know Corey likes me (cuz he told me on the phone, using the words, "I like you") but I don't know about Charles. I recently broke up with my boyfriend, Chris, so that I could have a relationship with Corey,( and cuz Chris cheated on me with my best friend) I would like to be with corey more than charles because I am comfortable being close friends with charles. It's all really confusing because I'm not sure if Corey still wants to be with me when Dylan moves. (like he said before)Corey told me he hated my best friend and I didn't like how she was treating me, so now I'm not friends with her.. and I wonder if it made Corey think twice about me.. I mean now I can finally be myself and not have to worry about people thinking I'm like my best friend, Vonna (everyone thought I was like Vonna because I always hung out with her)..So, What do you think I should do.. What do you think my problem is... should I try to talk to Corey and tell him that I really want to be with him. (I already told him tons of times that I like him no matter what anyone says, that I was always gonna like him, and I told him I couldn't wait to be with him).. I just dont know if he cares. I sent Charles an email telling him that I still like him.. and he hasnt responded yet.. so if Charles decides to be just friends,(thats fine, its better that way for me, friends with benifits) what do I do about Corey, cuz corey is the one I want to have to relationship with, cuz he's a good guy. Help me soon, please! Give me any INFO you can about my problem, anything that will help, I'm desperate to know. THANKS TONS
-CRYSTAL!- (15, Female) (link)
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Well if i were you, I wouldn't wait for Corey. I mean, maybe he still has feelings for his ex girlfriend and thats why he wants to wait until she moves so then she won't get in the way of his feelings for you. But that's not fair to you at all. And with Charles, You guys are really good friends, would you want to break that up? If i were you, I wouldn't go for either of the guys. Being with charles could and might ruin your great friendship in the long run and having to wait for corey isn't something that is fair to you. You shouldn't have to wait for him. It's just not right. Maybe staying friends with both of them is just for the best. And i'm sorry to hear about Chris, What a jerk!!! he has no reason to cheat on you.. and it's pretty low of your best friend to do that to you also.
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ok i have this friend lets call her cassy..shes like my bestfriend now..but when i met her i hated her cuz she always trien to steal my bestfriend at the time..and now that i hanged with her alot i think shes pretty cool..and we do alot together..well the other girl my old bestfriend (Hannah) always seems like to compete against me to get to her..and when ever me n cassy hang out she gets like jelous..i really just dont kno wut to do ne more..i mean i feel bad for cassy..wut do u guys and girls think i should do? thanks so much! (link)
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Well, first of all. Why can't you guys just all hang out together? You don't need to be with just one friend at a time. Maybe if you spent equal time with both of them, the other one wouldn't get jealous over the other friend. Just try hanging out together and do other things TOGETHER as a GROUP .. don't just leave someone singled out.
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What should you do if you keep on babysitting and they always say they will pay you but never do, and you are too nervous to ask them to pay you? (link)
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tell your parents they aren't paying you and stuff .. I'd quit babysitting them; you can find other babysitting jobs.
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Ok, here's the deal.. I like this guy we've been friends for a while.. I've told him that I liked him before but he had a g/f and he thought that he "lead me on" or in his words "gave me false hope".. well his g/f dumped him like a month ago and I told him that I still liked him.. this time he thinks it will bring us closer.. well what he said is "like last time, i felt bad that i gave u flase hope, but now i don't feel that, and wit that we could work 2 fix watever and be better friends".. I don't quite understand what he is saying.. can you help?? (yeah I do understand that he is saying he doesn't like me tho!)
-Molly (link)
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I think he just wants to be friends with you. Just let it be that. It's better to have him in your life than not at all right? And plus, maybe if you hang out and stuff a lot .. he might start to like you like that! Then something major could happen and you two will end up together. Starting out as friends first is always the best. It gets you closer so then you can see what you'll get yourself into. Maybe you'll realise that he's too good of a friend .. or maybe he'll end up being the Love of your life!:-D sorry it took so long to answer ..
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okay..i have a friend and she wont let me hang around any of the other friends i have made this year or she gets mad and thinks im ignoring her! i really like her and i dont like it when she is mad! but i also like the new friends i have made! i dont JUST want to hang around her! how do i get her to understand that i want to be her friend and the others friend too?! (link)
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Why don't u have them meet or something so then you guys can all hang out together. She's just jealous and thinks that you might stop hanging out with her so if u all hung out together, that'd be really coOl.
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I am a 15 yr old who plays sports but i got injured (i fractured a vertebra in my lower back) ne ways i had to sit out for over a month i could not work out... Just a simple yes or no is 5'9" and 140 fat or not ? (link)
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NoPE!
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Next weeek theyres gunna be a party and theyre gunna be weed and regular cigs there and i wanna try it and ive been meaning to try it with osme of my good frends but my other frends sed theyre not gunna like me as much i guess if i do it i dont no wat to do
CONFUSED (link)
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Well, if you really want to try it then go ahead. No one can stop you, but if it's gunna maybe ruin a friendship or two, i wouldn't even risk it. You can go without weed and ciggarettes. You don't want to get addicted.
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ok this mite seem complicating. I always hang out wit my older sis and her friend. Well theres this boy that my sisters friend knos n theyve known eachother for awhile. Well i like boy now and ma sis and her friend always try to ignore him wen he wants to hang out i wanna hang out wit him b/c i like him and they dont kno that.What should i do!? and how can i figure out if the guy likes me or not w.o askin him? he always looks at me n smiles n stuff but i dunno if hes jus b friendly or if he likes me?..xo`help! (link)
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Why don't u call him up on your own and make plans with him. Instead of your sister being around or something, have one of your friends hang with you guys as well till you get used to it all.
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Me and this guy have been goin on and off for awile with liking each other, but everytime we start to get serious about maybe startin a relationship he decides that he likes someone else more. im really getting sick of it and he says it out of no where, but its really hard getting over him cause we have had some really good times, and can sit and talk for hours. should i call it quits with him or should i give it another chance? and if you think i should call it quits how should i get over him? (link)
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Call it QUITS for sure .. if he's just gunna keep doing that to you, then it's really not worth it .. Get over him by finding a new guy, or by just Hanging out with ur friends more so you don't think of him!! You really don't need a guy like that in your life.. It might be hard to get serious if he keeps doin that!! Gettin over him may take a while .. but if you have the friends to help you out, It'll be a SliCe Of CaKe!
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when a guy gets a boner..what does it mean..how do they get it? (link)
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Umm .. if they are horny, or if a girl touches it or if they touch it like wack off and stuff
:-) .. hehe yeahhhhhh ..
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Hey sis. Just read some of your shit!!!! Good advice from a sister that learned from a great brother!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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hehe thanks justin! i wub u brother!
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ok im 15 n im in 10th grade....but i like this girl that is 13 n shes in 8th grade...i donno what to do...cuz ya i like her alot n in but she is way younger than me please help (link)
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Well, if you really like her then what's the problem? I mean sure she's younger but give it a chance. Who knows. She could be the love of your life:-D And if people make fun of you for it, then fuck em because you shouldn't care what people think.
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ok last year i shaved my upper lip and now i have like black hairs up there and right now i pluck it off but do u have any other ideas besides waxing it? (link)
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try that razorless shaver thing. I forgot what it's called .. but its' easier than shaving, and it gets more of the har\ir out
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whats the best way for me to make myself throw up? i cant seem to do it!!!! HELP ME PLEASE! im s fatass and i want that to change! (link)
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Throwing up your food is not something you really wanna do. Just diet. And exercise. Throwing up your food is really unhealthy for you so just run every morning and eat healthier foods in order to get skinnier.
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heyy yalll... Waz ups? anywho.. my slave name is tyrone jefferson biggums.. however the crew callzz me Mr.T... Anyway i was wonderin bout my swizzle wang. The problem is its just 2 beg. yeah evevar day i wake up an its stiff as my uncles fro.. wehen u talk bout mornin woodz.. shit nigga this is a mornin wake up call 2 pain!!... u see.. morin woodz can be aight..k B? but whan ur wang is 19 inches an 9 inchs arounz it can be paintfull... do u think i should get it cut off? or just get a girlfriend tha has a loose enof puzzy!!! ~~Signed~~~ ur devoted reader... MR.T...Holla back honkey (link)
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Cary ur dumb! You did the stupid tyrone act when I was with you so just shut the hell up! .. this is for people who are sincere so stop being a dick .. u just wish urs was that huge bitch!
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