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Two boys, Same feelings, 1 relationship.. *HELP SOON*
Okay, Here is the deal. I'm usually good at givng myself advice, but I don't know what to do on this one. I like 2 boys. Corey and Charles.
I've known CHARLES for about 1 1/2. He's like a best friend to me and I told him before that I like him, but I guess he never really thought about giving me a chance. Charles is always making me laugh and I just love being around him ( I can be myself with him and he wont put me down). Corey, Well I like him too (ALOT).. although I've only known him since this year, But I've liked him since I first saw him. I always thought he hated me, and my friends would tell me that he thought I was ugly,( People say I'm not ugly though) and he hated me. That stuff was NEVER said. Him and I were in class one day and we were passing notes.. I asked him about the things people were saying that he said about me, he said they were never true, he also said that since he's gotten to know me that he thought I was cute and cool. So now, me and Corey are good friends ( I like him because I can be myself around him also, and not have to worry about being put down).. His EX girlfriend, Dylan, she hates the crap out of me, but I hate her with a passion too.. Corey said that when she moves he will think about giving me a chance. It's all really hard because I like both CHARLES and COREY. Not only because they're REALLY cute, but because of the way they are..the way they act. Anyway, I just needed help on what to do with this problem. I've always liked Charles, and now I'm starting to like Corey even more.. I know Corey likes me (cuz he told me on the phone, using the words, "I like you") but I don't know about Charles. I recently broke up with my boyfriend, Chris, so that I could have a relationship with Corey,( and cuz Chris cheated on me with my best friend) I would like to be with corey more than charles because I am comfortable being close friends with charles. It's all really confusing because I'm not sure if Corey still wants to be with me when Dylan moves. (like he said before)Corey told me he hated my best friend and I didn't like how she was treating me, so now I'm not friends with her.. and I wonder if it made Corey think twice about me.. I mean now I can finally be myself and not have to worry about people thinking I'm like my best friend, Vonna (everyone thought I was like Vonna because I always hung out with her)..So, What do you think I should do.. What do you think my problem is... should I try to talk to Corey and tell him that I really want to be with him. (I already told him tons of times that I like him no matter what anyone says, that I was always gonna like him, and I told him I couldn't wait to be with him).. I just dont know if he cares. I sent Charles an email telling him that I still like him.. and he hasnt responded yet.. so if Charles decides to be just friends,(thats fine, its better that way for me, friends with benifits) what do I do about Corey, cuz corey is the one I want to have to relationship with, cuz he's a good guy. Help me soon, please! Give me any INFO you can about my problem, anything that will help, I'm desperate to know. THANKS TONS
-CRYSTAL!- (15, Female)
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So I'm confused. Charles doesn't seem to like you in a girlfriend way if he never tried to give you a chance. Corey should get over it and I'm sure Dylan will get over it. What do you mean love was hold them together? Wouldn't that mean he liked her? If he really does like you and you know that she'll try to mess things up then if you guys talk a lot i'm sure you could make a relationship work. when is dylan moving?
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wow that was pretty confusing but i got a solution for you:)it sounds like you and this Charles guy are better off as friends and that Corey is more interested in getting serious than Charles is and i think thats what you want. However if you are going to go out with Corey once Dylan moves i hope you weren't planning on being friends with benefits with Charles while you are going out with Corey...i think you need to talk to Corey and tell him your serious about this and see if he is too but also include that you kind of have feelings for Charles. Also you need to talk to Charles and tell him how you feel and that you have feelings for Corey at the same time. But most of all i think you need to spend some time thinking about who you are more interested in. Think about Who you can share your secrets with, who you feel most comfortable around, who do you think is serious about a relationship, who can you picture yourself with for a long time, and who would be going out with you for the right reasons.
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Well if i were you, I wouldn't wait for Corey. I mean, maybe he still has feelings for his ex girlfriend and thats why he wants to wait until she moves so then she won't get in the way of his feelings for you. But that's not fair to you at all. And with Charles, You guys are really good friends, would you want to break that up? If i were you, I wouldn't go for either of the guys. Being with charles could and might ruin your great friendship in the long run and having to wait for corey isn't something that is fair to you. You shouldn't have to wait for him. It's just not right. Maybe staying friends with both of them is just for the best. And i'm sorry to hear about Chris, What a jerk!!! he has no reason to cheat on you.. and it's pretty low of your best friend to do that to you also.
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Don't mess with their feelings. You need to choose. If Corey really liked you he would have already been going out with you. What does his ex gf have to do with anything? Shes his EX, and doesn't control his life anymore. A friend would treat you better in the end. Charles seems easy going if he can sit back and wait for you to make up your mind. But think of it this way. Charles said he likes you, Corey said he MIGHT give you a chance. He isn't going to wait around forever for you to get over Corey, and you shouldn't wait for Corey either. Hope this helped some, and good luck. -Jor*
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Personally, I think you sound too confused, look at all the guy's you've mentioned! You just broke up with a boyfriend, then you started liking Charles, after saying how much you like Charles and how comfortable you are with him, you turn around and say the same thing about Corey, which is the same guy who told you once his girlfriend moves he would THINK about getting with you,Just take your time,You should not have to make the choice of being with them, If they liked you so much and have known you for so long, they would have snatched you up and made you their girlfriend, them telling you how much they like you, and showing you is TWO TOTALLY DIFFERENT THINGS!
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I would want to stay friends with Charles. If you really like Corey then go for it. Tell him how much you like him and how much he means to you. Let him know that soon.. hope i helped
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