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Okay, I there's this guy that likes me and i told him i would go to a dance with him but now i dont wanna go (and for a good reason dont worry) so would it be rude to tell him over the phone? Or should i do it in person? I would really rather do it over the phone so i wont be as nervous but im afraid it might be rude. Plz help me!! And i need to know like ASAP!! Thx (link)
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Tell him in person. Are y ou not wanting to go with him or to the dance? If you don't want to go to the dance, make sure you're not going. If he sees you there he'll be pissed.
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Okay theres a boy I like lets call him TS and hes goin out wit one of my best friends, EC! Ts seems to flirt wit me and everyone sais we look like we are goin out. I dont understand!!!!! The problem is that I set them up and EC knows that I like TS. They barely eva talk but I have three classes with him. We talk all the time. Im really hurt because im the one who has to pass notes bac and forth ( there arent too many either ). Wat should I do? Should I tell him? Should I stop helping them?
Im desperate I really like him PLEASE HELP!
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you need to wait until they break up or something and until your friend is comfortable with the idea. Obviosly he still likes EC if they haven't broken up yet. Don't tell him, or you could lose a friendship!
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ok well.. i am going out with this guy... hes really great... we have had a few problems but we are totally awesome now... so ne way... we have been going out for a little while now and i really really like him... we have gone pretty far and are started thinking about have sex... we have always talked about it even before we were together and i kind of want to but i am afriad of regret.... i hate regreting things and im worried that if we have sex i will regret it... the thing is, before we did everything we have i thought i would regret it but i totally dont... is it just a 'virgin thing'?? i trust him completely... im just scared im to young (14) although (and i swear im not bragging) i am way more mature than the 'average' 14 year old... (if it makes a difference he's 16) i guess im asking all those 'non-virgins' out there... do you regret it? and do you wish you had waited? what do you think i should do? please answer!!!
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Wait. 14 is to young and the guy, i think, just wants some. This sounds mean but if people find out you did they'll the think the guy's awesome and you're a slut. I'm sure you're not, but kids are cruel.
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I have a friend named Lisa, and me n lisa just got out of a HUGE fight, and i'm sure shes suprised i forgived her.. well! LISA got into my purse the other day in study hall and took my watch i wasnt feeling good and i kept demanding to get my watch back but she wouldnt give it to me, this is like my favorite watch and it means so much to me everyone hates it but i totally love it .. well anyways i asked her today if she had it and she had like a 5 second break and then finally said. its at my house and i said dude bring it to me then and shes like im not gunna be home tonight i really want it back what can i do to make her give it back i have a pair of pants and a shirt of hers too! so should i threaten to burn them if she won tgive it back thanks! (link)
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lol, i don't know if you'd want to threaten that. Why the hell did she steal your watch? Keep asking about it and if she still says no for a week, then tell her you're coming by her house after school to get it unless she can bring it to you.
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Ok, here is my situaton. I am a 14/f and in 9th grade. Well, i take a foods (cooking) class and there is this guy AJ who is in my group. Well the other day Garth, also in my group, asked me who I was going to the X-mas dance with and I said no one and that I wasnt even sure I was going. Well, AJ, an 11th grader said he was doing the same thing. He then asked me if i wanted to go with him. He said he would pay for it (It is $35 to go as a couple)and he would pick me up. He also said that he wouldnt ditch me for someone else at the dance b/c I was his date. Well, AJ is a really nice guy but he isnt the most attractive guy if you know what I mean. Also, he is really immature...he acts like a lil kid a lot. Anyway, he said he didnt want to go as boyfriend/girlfriend. Just so he'd have a date. So now, I dont know if he wants go with me b/c he wants to or because he wants a date. I don't know what to do! I dont know if i should tell him yes or try and find another date. My friend Kayla said she was going to ask her friend Bunion if he would go with me. But she said that if he didnt want to go then to go with AJ and then ditch him at the dance just so he can pay and so i'll have a ride. I don't want to do that but maybe i should? I dont know. I dont want to hurt him but i want to go. I told her i wasnt going to go if i didnt have a date b/c I didnt want to pay $20 to go by myself.
Should I go with AJ or find another date? Im confused about what to do! Please help
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Find another date! Ditching AJ would be so horrible and mean. I'd find yourself another date.
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heyy! im 13 yr. old girl.. ok so i had this friend and she was my best friend since kindergarden.. we were friends from kindergarden to 5th grade .. then came middle school .. she became somewhat popular somehow .. but she was trying wayy to hard .. anways im in 8th grade now and its only the begining of the 2nd marking period .. she has been mean and stuck up and a bitch to me .. i get upset sometimes (i dont cry but her being me to me hurts bcuz we were friends for so long) and like should i be upset or am i jealous? plz helpp ! (link)
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Honestly, you might be jealous and upset. But if she's a bitch you'll get over it and realize just how rude she is. She obviosly is not the greatest person,i guess just try to ignore her the best you can.
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I have a friend,Megan which I have been practically sisters with my whole life. I've known her for 6 years and we basically grew up together. I also have this other friend,Kelsy, which I have known for about 4 or 5 years, and is also extremely close with me. Megan and Kelsy have also been close for years,too. Kelsy is starting not to like Megan anymore, due to a drunk night when Megan got with the guy that Kelsy liked. I know it was wrong, but I've known Megan for half my life and I can't just drop her like that. Kelsy might get mad if she knows that I still want to be friends with Megan, because everytime she says something about Megan, I always agree by saying I'm not talking to her anymore either. What are your opinions on this? (link)
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You can be friends with both. It's not fair to you if you have to drop one. Kelsy needs to understand that you're still friends with Megan but you know what she did was not right but that YOU have forgiven her for it.
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i knew that the guy i liked liked me back so today i decided to tell him i liked him and so when i did he was like "oh i dont like you anymore sorry" and it said it like such a jerk...im not hurt like by my heart or anything but im just pissed off, how do i give that jerk a taste of his own medicine? please answer. i rate. (link)
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Bad karma. He'll get what he deserves eventually.
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Okay so my friend just told me that my other friend got raped about 2 years ago.. and I am just now finding this out. And oh my god, I didn't believe her at first, but I know she wouldn't lie about something like this. Ah I am in total shock, I like still can't believe it. I just don't want to believe it... oh my god but I really need to tell my mom, she's good friends with my friend's mom and she deserves to know. But how in the world do I tell her? I like can't come right out and say it.. ahh I really just want to forget about all this though... HELP!! (link)
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Just tell her. Your friend might be really 'messed up' by the experience. Just say that I need to talk to you. (your mom)
It'll be a really akward conversation. Oh and have you talked to the friend that was raped? She might be working things out and just doesn't want to spread it around, it's not something to be proud of and i wouldn't recomend you telling neone either. Hope i helped!
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Okay, Here is the deal. I'm usually good at givng myself advice, but I don't know what to do on this one. I like 2 boys. Corey and Charles.
I've known CHARLES for about 1 1/2. He's like a best friend to me and I told him before that I like him, but I guess he never really thought about giving me a chance. Charles is always making me laugh and I just love being around him ( I can be myself with him and he wont put me down). Corey, Well I like him too (ALOT).. although I've only known him since this year, But I've liked him since I first saw him. I always thought he hated me, and my friends would tell me that he thought I was ugly,( People say I'm not ugly though) and he hated me. That stuff was NEVER said. Him and I were in class one day and we were passing notes.. I asked him about the things people were saying that he said about me, he said they were never true, he also said that since he's gotten to know me that he thought I was cute and cool. So now, me and Corey are good friends ( I like him because I can be myself around him also, and not have to worry about being put down).. His EX girlfriend, Dylan, she hates the crap out of me, but I hate her with a passion too.. Corey said that when she moves he will think about giving me a chance. It's all really hard because I like both CHARLES and COREY. Not only because they're REALLY cute, but because of the way they are..the way they act. Anyway, I just needed help on what to do with this problem. I've always liked Charles, and now I'm starting to like Corey even more.. I know Corey likes me (cuz he told me on the phone, using the words, "I like you") but I don't know about Charles. I recently broke up with my boyfriend, Chris, so that I could have a relationship with Corey,( and cuz Chris cheated on me with my best friend) I would like to be with corey more than charles because I am comfortable being close friends with charles. It's all really confusing because I'm not sure if Corey still wants to be with me when Dylan moves. (like he said before)Corey told me he hated my best friend and I didn't like how she was treating me, so now I'm not friends with her.. and I wonder if it made Corey think twice about me.. I mean now I can finally be myself and not have to worry about people thinking I'm like my best friend, Vonna (everyone thought I was like Vonna because I always hung out with her)..So, What do you think I should do.. What do you think my problem is... should I try to talk to Corey and tell him that I really want to be with him. (I already told him tons of times that I like him no matter what anyone says, that I was always gonna like him, and I told him I couldn't wait to be with him).. I just dont know if he cares. I sent Charles an email telling him that I still like him.. and he hasnt responded yet.. so if Charles decides to be just friends,(thats fine, its better that way for me, friends with benifits) what do I do about Corey, cuz corey is the one I want to have to relationship with, cuz he's a good guy. Help me soon, please! Give me any INFO you can about my problem, anything that will help, I'm desperate to know. THANKS TONS
-CRYSTAL!- (15, Female) (link)
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So I'm confused. Charles doesn't seem to like you in a girlfriend way if he never tried to give you a chance. Corey should get over it and I'm sure Dylan will get over it. What do you mean love was hold them together? Wouldn't that mean he liked her? If he really does like you and you know that she'll try to mess things up then if you guys talk a lot i'm sure you could make a relationship work. when is dylan moving?
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Ok, well my good friend has a boyfriend, I've known her since I was 6 and her and her bf go on the bus. And it turns out that now I have feelings for this boy and it doesn't go away, and I'm starting to get jelous when he kisses her and things. Am I a bad friend, what should I do? (link)
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Sorry but I guess yoou just have to get over him. You can't really tell her what you're feeling and you can't tell him. Maybe just tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable, but I wouldn't tell her you like him.
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ok umm... my boyfrend broke up with me monday because he said he didnt want to get sick of me and neva talk to me again if we broke up later in the year..... so now we're ova but i still hav a crush on him! n hes already movin on to other girls (he likes this girl but she doesnt want to go out with him) how do i get ova this n b like my old self... not miserable?!?!?! i really need help. o ya he still flirts with me n stuff u can tell he still likes me too cuz he calls me everyday n stuff so wat should i do? (link)
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I think it'd be best if you kinda stayed away from him for like a week or something. Give urself time to get over him.
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I like this site and I goto to this site to try and give helpful advice or even to receive some, why is that people are such jerks on here? They give bad advice or stupid comments to someones advice!! And there will probably be a whole bunch of people who will give a dumb remark to this question! Why do people come an give stupid advice like "go kill yourself" or "your a loser" or some stupid comment! Honestly do these people get a thrill out of making fun of someone ? Why do these people sign up for this website if they are just going to give horrible advice? Does anyone agree? Doesn't it seem stupid and pointless? (link)
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Umm yeah i guess it's pointless. But if you're reading them it's funny.
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Ok, at the beginning of the school year in a new city, and at a new school, (I just moved here) the first day of school, theres this guy that asked me out when I never even talked to him once, not knowing him at all. Let's call him Bob. Bob has liked me from the first day of school till today. He's had many other crushes and girlfriends other than me but still likes me and flirts with me. As I got to know him, I started to like him. He isn't that hott, but has a great personality. He's the player type and if I went out with him I wouldn't be able to trust him. I really like him but I don't want to go out with him. I don't know why.. He's got a girlfriend right now and people say I shouldn't go out with him because he is a total man whore. At school he ignores me but glances at me whenever we pass in the hall. Do you have any advice? I'd be greatly appreciated!
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P.S. I'm 13 and in grade 8 if that helps. (link)
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If he has a girlfriend but still is asking you out or trying to get you to then yeah I wouldn't go out with him. It sounds like he moves from girl to girl a lot. But if you just want to date and not really be 'going out' then you can just for fun but i guess be ready to be hurt? That sounds bad but it's kinda true.
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Christmas! Omg... Its just around the corner. Its coming faster, then light. I have this boifriend. I LOVE HIM TOO DEATH!!! But i mean this is our first Christmas together. What should i get him for christmas? I need help. I Love him sooo much. I want it to be something special. Truly special. Please help!! ME!! Ill rate you VERY HIGH 5 Whole BIG POINTS! Avice Columnists help me!! Im just lost!!! ASAP! Quick help me... I have only a week to get his present cause im busy with other stuff til x-mas!! Thankss!!!! soo much...
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Last year my friend got her boyfriend concert tickets. It was pretty awesome and he looved it.
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ok theres this boy thats on my cross country team and we talked a little and out last meet he was with me that wwhole entire time then after that we stopped talking sorta then we started a couple of days ago adn today he had me walk with him to class and he walked me to class does that mean he likes me or just being friends (link)
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It's a little hard to tell. If you just talked then maybe he just wants to be friends, or he's shy and he doesn't know how to flirt. Give it some time.
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Hi, i have a friend who has bad b/o. I'm not that kind of person who can say "Would u mind putting on some deoderent?" I could never do that to a friend. I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to tell her without hurting her feelings. Please my b-day party is coming up and shes coming, i dont want to afend my other friends. Please, I really need some help. (link)
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You have to tell her. But don't do it with AnyOnE around. If you're not that close to her you still should tell her. No one likes people talking about them! It's better to go straight to them rather then telling others.
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I am Vietnamese to and I'm scared to ask my parents bout this cuz it could mean something bad...I know I should know my language pretty well but I don't I do wanna learn...I am full-american born and raise...I know how to say some words in vietnamese...but this is giving me the weirds...It's from a guy I like but he won't tell me what it means...I know this is long and I may sound stupid for not knowing my language but I do this is just giving me mixed feelings...What dies this mean
anh chi muon em toi em von cong yeu anh khong?
I know anh means...boy also your older brother
and chi means...big sis...
Em...also means...little...girl or boy
muon is want...
toi...is to
yeu...means like
khong means...would or could
I sound dumb don't I...but I'm just asking (link)
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www.freetranslations.com! Lol i use it for all my spanish homework.. i'm not sure if it has vietnamese but maybe it does! On aim smarterchild can translate some but he's dumb sometimes um.. you can go onto google and look for more translating sites. Lol now i want to know what it means.
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(16/f) Okay then. I told this guy named...let's say Joe, that I liked him. He knows and eversince, he's been acting werid around me. One day, he'll talk to me and its like he will never shut up, but other days he won't even look at me. I have never been more confused in my life over a friggin' guy. What is he trying to tell me? Should I stay away from him so not to piss him off or do I keep talking to him and let him have his little mood swings? Thanks in advance.
Signed,
Running around in confusion. (link)
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I think He's confused. He might not be sure if he likes you or not. When he does talk to you, talk to him and when he doesn't show that you want him to but like act as if you don't care. If that makes sense! I hope he gets over his mood swings soon and hope i helped!
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Hi well i love playing the piano but i hate goin to lessons. I just HATE lessons. Does any1 kno how to make myself want to go to lessons? (link)
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Umm..I don't think you can MaKe yourself want to go to lessons. Maybe you shouldn't? Maybe it's the teacher or the environment that you practice in.
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