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lost my friend ..
heyy! im 13 yr. old girl.. ok so i had this friend and she was my best friend since kindergarden.. we were friends from kindergarden to 5th grade .. then came middle school .. she became somewhat popular somehow .. but she was trying wayy to hard .. anways im in 8th grade now and its only the begining of the 2nd marking period .. she has been mean and stuck up and a bitch to me .. i get upset sometimes (i dont cry but her being me to me hurts bcuz we were friends for so long) and like should i be upset or am i jealous? plz helpp !
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hey, i was in the exact same situation. it's like she's a totally different person. but if she's going to be fake and be someone totally different, just so the "popular" crowd likes her..then she's not worth your time. just hangout w/ your other friends. you sound like a sweet girl, and deserve better then a so-called friend that's gonna be a stuck-up bitch to you! hope i helped*xoxo.
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If she was ur friend than just go up to her and say "Wanna go to the mall or something this weekend?" I hope i helped bye!
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Honestly, you might be jealous and upset. But if she's a bitch you'll get over it and realize just how rude she is. She obviosly is not the greatest person,i guess just try to ignore her the best you can.
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Weel I'm a 13 year old girl 2 and that has happened 2 me be4. It will hurt alot but u have 2 move on with ur life.If she is going 2 act like that then she's not worth it.
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ur definently not jealous, just upset. if she has been so mean 2 u and u have been friends this whole time, then u have a reason 2 be upset. u should confront her about this and if she doesnt change, then u should seriously consider not bein her friend. she isnt worth the trouble. she has changed but so have u. believe me when i say it is hard 2 get over friends u have had 4 a long time. i had a friend that id known since pre k and she just stopped talkin 2 me 4 no reason and it wuz hard tryin not 2 be upset. hope i helped ya!
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Hey, you have to understand that people change for better or for worse and that is your friends choice so she will have to deal with it and you should only help her if she is doing something that will hurt herself.
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when shes alone tlk to her n make it clear that u wanna b friends with her but u want her to stop bein a bitch. if she still treats u like tha then find some otha fiends who won turn on u like that. good luck!
~jj
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Oh wow, i was put in the SAME position!! I don't think that your jelous or anything. Apparently you made a change t the better and she made a change to the worst. I had a friend like that only we were best friends since 3rd. Now I'm in 9th grade and I have her in my 6th period. I was talking to her online for a change and she said that she feels bad that we don't talk and things, and now me and her are working up to being good friends. Soon she will relaize what she is missing and want to come back. Trust me on this, most people realize there mistakes and fix them when they get older, but this dosen't mean not to give her a chance, because apparently she wants to be your friends and she is giving your friendship a chance, and you can also talk to her and ell her how you feel and if she doesn't listen fight back, becuz apparenlty that's the only way to get through to her. Hope I helped!. Write me feedback! Rate me!
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oh i went through that... ya... I suggest you don't be a prep because that's what semi-popular preps do, stab eachother in the back and lie and be two-faced. Don't be jealous of her! Look at what she did to you, do you want to be like that and do that to other people? Be upset... and then get over it and hang out with people who will appreciate you. *cough* like the freaks, goths, punks, skaters, random weirdos... they are very accepting of the popular-prep-rejected people. lol... yes i know stupid advice... *hides*
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kick her ass, sometimes people need a good beatin for them to treat you right. use to be my problem i took too much shit from people, then i started stickin up for myself and only once in a blue moon i'll get someone up in my face. but just do it and say she's a stuck up bitch and needs to get over herself and you kickin her ass will help. good luck :-)
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hAy!!! i no wut thats like that happend to me but im only in 7th and i lost her this year in the 1 markin peroid. well talk to her and ask her y is she bein so mean to and and y disn't she hang out with you and if she dosn't have a good answer than she was never a true best friend and u need to move on like me and find a new best friend that won't leave u and when she comes cryin back to u in hight school let he befriends with you to lert her no that she was ur best friend and that shell always have a place in ur hart. sry bout wit happend. hope i helpted
xoxo becca xoxo
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Your upset, I mean I would be too. Shes not worth it if she ditched you like that. Just ignore her!
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