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best friend help


Question Posted Friday November 19 2004, 5:45 pm

hey my best friend is acting weird and i think she ie jelous that i am hangin out with one of my old friends b/c he old group of friends are bein mean to he and ignore her now and i try to talk to both but my b/f is never their when something happens so wen me and my other friend are talk about it i think she feals left out b/c she dosn't no wuts goin on wut should i do???


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Farren answered Saturday November 20 2004, 2:52 pm:
First off, PROOFREAD YOUR QUESTIONS BEFORE YOU SEND THEM, I mean, it's hard to understand what you're asking.
I think you should just talk to your best friend friend and explain the situation, and talk to your new friend and tell him to talk to his friends and to make them stop being mean to her.
So yeah...work on your grammar hun.
-Farren

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AdviceKitty answered Friday November 19 2004, 7:47 pm:
well,ask her how she feels and tell her that you dont mean to let her out,I just that when u something happens she is not there and ur old friends are the ones who helps u.I think she will try to be there,therefore she wouldnt be jelous.

p.s if it dosnt work,dont choose between friends,try to talk with both and let the situation clear.

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FrEe2bMe answered Friday November 19 2004, 5:56 pm:
Well, you really need to think about the value of your friend's frienships. You don't ever want to lose a good and true friend or friend(s) at the expense of another friend or friend(s). You need to talk to both your best friend and your group of friends. If you friends are being mean to your best friend, you need to civily talk with them and tell him you don't like it approve of it. Give them a chance to stop and turn this whole thing around. You also need to talk to your best friend and apologize on behalf of your other friends (and they should as well) and tell her you want her to be in the know more. Call her to go to the places you and the other friends go so she is no longer excluded. If you group of firends don't stop treating your friends poorly, you need to do something. In my opinion, I would stop being friendly with them and stop hanging out with them until they apologize and change their ways. But the choice is yours. Think about hte poistion your best friend is in, do you want to feel like her. Best wishes. :)

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askmeimaguy answered Friday November 19 2004, 5:56 pm:
i would just ask her to hangout with you and your old friends become friends fill her in she needs to know ok?

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MedicatedSanity answered Friday November 19 2004, 5:52 pm:
oh silly girl (say with lisp) lol... Invite her and all of your friends to the movies and hang out together... go to church together... invite her and another friend to sleep over... tell her what's going on with everybody... try to set her up with a guy... she won't feel left out if you include her! whether it be by telling her everything, or inviting her to hang out more... good luck with that! :)

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