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I'm a person who sees the world in many different ways and have diverse points of view.I'm here to help anyone with any type of problem, feel free to contact me.I love to help others. ^_^
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Lately I have been under a lot of stress from finals and other things. In the past two weeks I have passed out 4 times. How much blood do you ussually have to lose before passing out and what could be other causes of this? I'm 14 and relatively healthy.
Stress is the cause of many health problems,it dosn't matter if you are healthy it can stil affect you pretty badly.Stress cause the muscles to get extremely tense.Your body also starts releasing a chemical that alters your cell functions,making you more worried,frustrated and starts making disbalances such as your blood sugar and pressure.Dosn't mean you lose blood,it means your amount of sugar can decrease or increase in a unhealthy way causing you to pass out.Also the blood pressure can be a cause,as I said before ytour muscles get really tense and that includes the heart muscle,making your heart and body get overworked and causing you a blackout.That blackout is your body screaming for rest,all your functions shut down.
You need to rest.Also maintain your healthy eating just incase.Most importantly try to relax.Work out a schedule so you could feel more organized and secure.Take time to study and do your best.Confidence will be a great pain reliver.
Hope it helps
There is this guy (let's call him Bob) and he's really really cute. I just met Bob a few months ago but he's very sweet and whenever I'm with him I get goosebumps and butterflies in my stomach (majorly) I don't know if I should go up to him and tell Bob I really like him or not. And he also dated one of my friends but they broke up, and I don't want her to be mad at me if I date him. What should I do?
Well I think you should give it a try.But first you should talk to your friend to see what she thinks about it,you might hurt her without noticing,so do the approach,check what she feels for him and if you see its nothing then comment her about your feelings.If for some reason your friend seems to get hurt drop the topic there.Analize all those fact and then get prepared for a decision.SInce you like the guy it is always worth it to try.Maybe you have a new oporunity,do the apporach to him,you got nothing to lose.If he dosn't like you back no worries,you'll find someone out there that will like you for who you are and that will want to be with you as more than a friend.Good luck
i have been with my boyfriend for 5 months but we are not together officialy itis supposed to be a flig but i realy like him and he admitted he has slepted with other lasses since we have been together i want to finish it but dont know how to or what to say but i realy like him and dont want to loose him but i dont him making a fool of me any longer plz help i will rate.
What a situation the one you got there.Let me get the picture.
You were in a relationship with this boy,it hasn't gone official,you really like the boy,but while you got out,he dosn't only date other girls...he sleeps with them...three important factors here: 1.He saw the fling as an adventure,and if he slept with other girls that means he didn't want anything serious
2.Someone that has so many relationships is a player.You would probably get more hurt
3.Apparently,his head is not settled,you appear to have a difference with him,you like him enough for a relationship,but he likes being with alot of girls.With a difference like that is hard to have a long lasting relationship.
You are not making a fool of yourself,but sometimes even if it hurts its better to accept that is not ment to be,and move on.
You deserve better,and a relationship with someone like him will hurt more than not having one at all,since you would grew to love him and be attached.In my opinion,you should talk to him and tell him staightly that you want a serious relationship,that you understand you guys can't have one(if that is the case).Tell him that you are really liking him and that you should end the fling here and move on.
If he dosn't understand that would mean that he's not even worth to talk with.
Good Luck hope it helps
The thing is my dad suspects me to be perfect and the thing is I'm not. And i can never be. I can never be the girl he wants me to be and i dont know what to do anymore, i'd tell him all that but he would just kick me out and i would have no where to go , can you help me please?
Well what can I say? Parents see their children as their beautiful master piece and they just can't see the flaws.Your father probably feels like if you could do better,problem is that most of the time is never enough,and belive me I know how you feel.You have to try to let your father know that you understand that he wants you to be the best ,that he wants you to suceed and have all the oportunities he didn't have.But no one is perfect,but let clear to your father that you will still try to be the best you can.Sooner or later he'll understand.It is believed that parents want their kids to be and do all they wanted to be and do,thats why they put so much pressure,but dont let that pressure put you down.Keep trying and don't give up.Good Luck
Sorry this is long, but i rate high! :)
I have a friend...lets call her Jill. Well jill is really cool to hang out with...when she isnt around guys or we arent on the subject of guys. She always uses guys and she flirts with them, and leads them on all the time and then she ends up crushing them. She always steals the gusy her friends like (including the guys i like...) and we are all sick of it. I really want to tell her off because i have talked to her about it before but just talking to her wont get through to her. I want her to really realize what a slutty jerk she has turned into. because she used to be really cool. Please help!
Hummmm....well if talking to her dosnt work,and I always go for the talking first,then comes this.
Make her realize what a jerk she has been,Tell her that u and ur friends are tired of it and that u want it to stop.
If she dosnt realize,then stop hanging with her,if she STILL dont get the point,leave her,she is a lost case she will have to learn it,but not from u,and I guess she will learn the hard way.
U probably deserve to hang out with better friendships if this dosnt work out
GOOD LUCK!!!
hope it helps
Okay well i was walken downtown with my 2 friends today and this druggie/badass was down there and he called over this geeky guy called Josh and all of a sudden he starts beating him up! i was so scared i didnt know what to do.. he almost started to cry and before he left he said im callen aaron (the cop in our town) and my friends r like dont tell him we were here. im afraid hes gunna tell the cop and he'll ask me and somehow it'll get back to the badass and he'll beat the shit outta me .. im a gurl btw and he hits girls and stuff and he like knows how to set up bombs n shit cuz he put a bomb in our school one year.. if the cop does ask me shoudl i say i witnessed it?
I think u should tell them,That guy cant be roaming there hitting people,setting bombs,and doing that kid of bad stuff.Think of it like ur doing a favor to the community .just be VERY careful,try to avoid being discovered,and if the cops dont take him away,explain ur situation,maybe they will help u out with some security stuff.Never walk alone,be careful,even if u dont tell the cop u witness it,u may be the guys next victim.So think about it well,its ur decision.
Good Luck
ps Some karate and self defense classes wont do u bad.
hi, im 13/m i have this gf we started going out like 2 months ago and its been really cool and i really like her alot but now i found out shes been smokin pot and drinken and shes only 13 though it was her first time it was kinda shocking cuz i expectede more from her i still like her but i sont kno if i wanna handle this i dont know what to do should i keep going out with her.
It all depends on ur values.If u find that she is not the right person for u bacause she smokes pot(which is bad)and drinks(which is bad too) then u should move on.
What I recommend u to do:
Try talking to her,communication is ur only salvation.Tell her that what she is doing is wrong,that u woul like to help her,show her how much u care.Ask her to stop.If u find that it isnt going to work,move on it wasnt ment to be.
Good Luck,I hope it helps
well i have a lots of great friends, but they are all shit talkers, and so i just found out that my "best" friend was talking crap about me, and it was things that were so harsh that she even had a hard time saying time, now what do i do, should i confront her, or keep it until i need to use it?
help
I think u should talk to her,Aske her why was she saying all that crap about u,that she suppose to be ur best friend.Maybe she said all that stuff because she is mad or just because she isnt a good friend.Ask her for an explanation if she was mad at u try to fix up things,and if she is a bad friend,then u better move on.Dont keep it all to urself because ur going to explote,all those feelings and emotions will stay inside u,and u may take it out in the wrong person,Just try to talk and tell her how she saying all that stuff made u feel.
Good Luck,hope it helps
what r sum cool games and stuff to play at sleep overs? mi friend is coming over soon n im clueless
*I RATE HIGH*
Well,when I have sleepovers I like the action
The foundamentals:
-coke or pepsi
-popcorn
-chips
-cookies
If u want to spice the night,horror movies
If u want to have a laugh,comedy movies
The classic:
Truth or Dare
Recommendation:Have a phone and an adreesbook on ur side when playing
What else:
My personal favorite,pillow fight
If:u have games(no board games they are sometimes boring,but if u and ur friend like it what the heeck)u can play with them(nothing new)
i brokeup with my boyfriend because he lived so far away and i d never being able to see him. i still love him alot and i miss him just as much as i did before. i thought he would me forever but he said he could never me. it's like i can't live with or without him... i want to ask him if he'd give me a second chance so bad, but i don't think i can deal with never being able to see him all over again, buti love him. :-/ i dunno what i should do. help plz
If u truly love him,distance shouldnt be an obstacle.Talk to him,tell him how u feel,then ask him for the second chance.Don't be negative even if ur far,u can still keep in contact with him with letters,e-mail,some calls,and even u can organize a vacation with him.
Good Luck.
I had a boy very close to me,but I moved
now I miss him ,I'm really sad,
nothing is wrong with me, I think
in my high school almost all the girls have
boyfriend,I feel really lonely.
every time I watch them do their boyfriend-
girlfriend things I cry.sometimes I just want to
kill myself .being alone is killing me please
I really need to know what I should do,because
I think guy are scare of me but I'm pretty,smart
and I have a medium body why is this happening
what can I do?
I'm desperate
DON'T EVER THINK OF KILLING URSELF!!!
Your life is precious,don't play with it!!!
I don't think theres something wrong with u.If u feel lonely try meeting new people,involve urself in some clubs or creatuve groups,stuff involving activities and people.Go out often and open urself for new friendships.Give it time,if u want love it will come to u sooner or later,just wait for the right guy.About the boy,try getting in contact with him.Write him a leeter,give him a call,or even get together sometime.Moving away dosnt mean that u have to leave ur friendship there,instead take it with u.Don't feel bad when u see the couples,think positive,u might even have one soon.
Good Luck,I hope u feel better.
If u ever want to contact me u can im me at madkitty8@aol.com
srry if this is long but
there is this kid in my school and he is shorter me and not very good lookin but i still lik him alot and no one understands and ppl always make fun of me for likin him and i already went out wif him lik 3 times b4 and he dumped me all the times but i still rely lik him and alot of ppl make fun of me for it and i hate how no one understands mee
how can i get them 2 stopp??
If it helps,I understand u.People are different for each other.They have their own taste and their own way of thinking.And most important,they have their own way of feeling.I feel like u like him,u don't have to care what others say.Its ur life,show them how confident u are,and that u dont care what they say,u like him and thats final.The will learn to respect u.
If it dosnt work,ignore them,eventually they will get tired and leave u alone.
Looks arnt everything,if u like this boy,just concentrate in getting to know him better.No one can manage ur life besides u,Its ur decision.
Good Luck with the boy!He might be ur next prince charmin !!!
srry if this to long but i rely need help
my two best freinds used to be best freinds till they got into a really big fite are not freinds anymore so lik when ever i hang out wif 1 of them my other friend will get mad at me n stuff lik that and i no for a fact they will never become friends again cuz the fite they got into was a huge fite
how can i hang out wif 1 freind w/o the other 1 gettin madd??
Try to talk with both of ur friends.Make them uderstand that u didnt have anything to do with their fight,that both are ur friends,that u want to be with them,and that u cant choose.
I dont know what kind of fight they had,but frienship is precious,it takes a great soul to forget about the problems they ,and it even a bigger one to forgive.Ask them to put away their difference.As a friend of both,u don't want to be in the middle ,u want the 3 of u to be together.Try to talk to them,make them come to their senses,if they dont fix their friendships,they dont have to break urs.
Good Luck and The Best of the Wishes
okay well i have this problem..there is this guy and i have been going out with him for about 2 months..and i went to a party with him last weekend..and for some really weird reason..it was really weird to be around him..like i didnt want to go out with him ne more..and hes really nice and all..but i keep comparin him to my ex bf..who is going out with my friend..and he was like my very first love..and i just cant get over him! and its irritating..well anyways back to the current boyfriend situation..he hasnt talked to me whatsoever this week..so im thinkin that i should breakup with him cuz i dont think he likes me ne more..and i dont think i like him ne more..
so here are my questions..should i break up with him? and if so how should i do it (like what should i say) and HOW CAN I GET OVER MY EX! lol cuz i really want to..but its just always coming back to haunt me
okay,if u dont like him,and if he dosnt like u,what r u guys doing together?
But if u dont like him,and he still likes u,try breaking up with him in the less hurtful way.
And please dont say:"Is not u,its me"
Tell him,how much u appreciate him,how cool is him,that he is very nice,but that is not working and that u only see him as a good friend.That u hope u still can be good friends,that nothing has change,and that u had a good time with him,but right now u dont feel like having a boyfriend
How to get over ur ex:
The past is the past ,theres nothing u can do about it,u have to move on.Is not going to be easy,but try to remember all the goodtimes u had with him and accept that it didnt work.It was not ment to be.Go out with friends,meet new people,keep urself doing stuff,like going out etc.and with time ull get over him.
Good Luck
Ok I've got a boyfriend who I love and who loves me but lately he's been really confusing me because he flirts with two of my best friends and it makes me jelous even if he's mine anyway he keeps smoking weed and injects himself with heroin but i don't who if he's telling the truth but he's got little marks on his arm and I'm really worried about him if it's true he could die and I know Id be really upset if he died how can I talk to him about it because he thinks it's cool and his mate does it to
If he loves u why does he flirt with others,why with ur best friends??!!
Anyway if he really loves u,he will listen.
Try to get some sense into him.Tell him how dangerous the weed and the heroin is,that he could die.He has so many options in life,why give up life for moments of happyness,no worries or whatever feeling gives the weed and heroin.Besides,those feelings are temporary,and if he wants happyness,I know he can find it in u,u seem like a good person that wants to help him.Show him how much u care.Show him how much u love him,and that u dont whant to loose him because of drugs.
It is not cool die because of drugs.
Drugs are not cool,they end the life.
In the end its really painful.
If he loves u,he will listen,but is up to u how r u going to tell him,look for words and arguments that can open his mind.And ask him,if ur friend finds that is cool to kill yourself,would u do it?because that is what his doing,killing himself with drugs.
I wish u the best of luck,hope it helps.
u can im me at madkitty8@aol.com
jus b4 i was talking to mi friend online:
the conversation:
me: hey
her: OH HI
me: wuts up
her: n2mmu?
me: n2m
her: KOOL
me: yup
her: look at my pro
me: ok h/o
her: kk
me: its cool
her: ty
her: im not ut friend thanks alot
then she signed off nd i dk what to do.
any advice
It coul have been,that it wasnt her,someone took control over the computer or that she mistaked u.
If its that theres no prob.
But is it was her,and she knew it was u here is what u can do:
-Call her and ask her whats wrong
-Write to her an e-mail
Stay calmn until things have been cleared up,maybe is just a misuderstanding
Good Luck
u can im me at madkitty8@aol.com
**Smiles**have a good day!
does anyone know any good poem sites? because i wanted to add some to mybuddy4u.....thanx in advanced...
Forget poetry.com,I just found out its a scam,poetry.com takes away the copyright of the person's poem.I recommend u to go to creative writing
Okay so my friend just told me that my other friend got raped about 2 years ago.. and I am just now finding this out. And oh my god, I didn't believe her at first, but I know she wouldn't lie about something like this. Ah I am in total shock, I like still can't believe it. I just don't want to believe it... oh my god but I really need to tell my mom, she's good friends with my friend's mom and she deserves to know. But how in the world do I tell her? I like can't come right out and say it.. ahh I really just want to forget about all this though... HELP!!
If you REALLY think that is necessary to tell ur mom,and there's NO WAY u can tell her with words in person,write to her a note or a letter.But it would be better if u relax take a deep breath,keep in mind what ur going to say,organize ur thoughts and go right to her.
Good Luck,รบ can im me,am madkitty8@aol.
Best Wishes...
There's this guy who I've been in love with 4 like more than past 6 months. He knows I like him but it seems as if every time i try to IM him he'll either sign off or seem not too interested in talking to me. The only class I have with him is study hall but we never talk there. I really want to talk to him more because maybe if he got to know me better than he might start liking me. I also want to get to know him better. There's no time tho where i could really talk to him in person and i dont know what to say. I really want to be with him and have conversations and stuff. What should i do? please help!
Well u can:
-E-mail him
-Go to the movies
-Call him,and talk with him on the phone
-Eat with him,cafeteria or some other place
Good Luck,u can IM me,my adress is madkitty8@aol.com
Relax,ur find a away,if not destiny will.....
I`m a senior in high school. I`m turning 18 soon but my boyfriend will still be 17. If we have sex after my birthday, will that be illegal?
In some places it depends.But am aware that when someone turns 18 that person is considered as an adult and gets some rights,Like drinking ,etc(and depends too of the place)Take this advice of a friend,wait,wait until both are old enough and mature enough(not saying that ur immature,I mean it in the way that when u finish highschool,have a job,are idependent and dont depend on u family).
Take it slow,don't throw ur life away,sex can bring many consequences if not ready,pregnancy and std's.Think about it,and please,if u r desperate of having sex with ur boyfriend and cant wait that long,then atleast use protection,and it would be even better if u atleast wait till his 18.Hope it helps a tiny bitsy bit.Good Luck.