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I'm worried about him
Ok I've got a boyfriend who I love and who loves me but lately he's been really confusing me because he flirts with two of my best friends and it makes me jelous even if he's mine anyway he keeps smoking weed and injects himself with heroin but i don't who if he's telling the truth but he's got little marks on his arm and I'm really worried about him if it's true he could die and I know Id be really upset if he died how can I talk to him about it because he thinks it's cool and his mate does it to
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Hmmm...You love him? How old is this boy!? tell him that you love him and dont wanna see him get hurt.. give him the ultimatum and say.. its me or that other shit... and if he chooses the other shit.. he dont really love you and isnt worth ur tears!
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woah..heroin..i am sorry but he totally DISSES you by flirting with yor friends..and uses the WORST drug that you could possibly use...
The only people who think drugs are cool are drug users...ok...and if he is doing this and it has become a habit..heroin is so ADDICTIVE ..trust me..he will not even know that you are alive..soon..he will only be thinking about his next fix.
If you can get him to a drug counselor I would..but he is a train wreck wating to happen..and will only bring you..down.
I am sorry..but herion is such BAD news..that unless he gets help..he will end up on the street just like on tv..is is so bad...
wow..good luck...
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first of all any guy who injects them self with heroin and smokes weed, is a loser. I'm sorry even if he's your bf it's wrong and he needs to get a life and realize what he's doing is wrong. The way to tell him is express your feelings and tell him how much your care for him and tell him not to do it. Ansd if he flirts with your friends and your friends are flirting back I think that there both no good, your bf should pay attention to you and only you and your friends should brush him off and they should of told you that he is flirting with them. It's wrong you need to either get over him and get with someone that picks the right choices or just let your life qwith him keep going. Send me feedback on this or anything else! Hope I helped ya! :) -Bianca/HunniBunni
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you just need to talk to him with a lot of honestly and he'll probably listen to you. just tell him how you feel.
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Just sit him down and tell him how you are feeling right now. Just say "please stop all this smoking and stuff, you are really scaring me with it, its really upsetting, please, stop" just tell him how you feel, if he really loves you, he will stop.
good luck!!
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He is being manipulative and controlling by flirting with your friends in front of you. Chances are he’s trying to make you jealous intentionally in order to deal with his own insecurities. That kind of behavior, combined with drug use, will only get worse over time. People who love you won’t do things to hurt you. Give him the phone number for a local drug treatment program and go about your merry way. Find someone who values you enough that they will never risk losing you by putting other love interests or drug use above your needs.
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First of all, if this guy loves you just oh so much, then why in the world is he flirting with other people? That is his first fault right there. Second of all, in my opinion, no matter how much you love a guy, if they are doing drugs like that then they aren't good for you anyways. Why do you need to be with a guy who flirts with your friends and does drugs?! That isn't good for you. That is plane and simple. But on the other hand, your boyfriend has a problem, and he needs help. Weed is an okay drug but it's still bad and injecting? That isn't good at all. You really should sit him and down and tell him how bad he is hurting himself. He may not see it now, but later in life he'll see that he's making a huge mistake. Try researching the harms of these drugs and explaining to him what could happen to him if he continues to do these things. Try and get him to possibly put himself into a rehab center. I'm sure he won't be crazy on this but it'd be really good for him. And if possible, find his stash of drugs, and get rid of it. Good luck xo*
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If he loves u why does he flirt with others,why with ur best friends??!!
Anyway if he really loves u,he will listen.
Try to get some sense into him.Tell him how dangerous the weed and the heroin is,that he could die.He has so many options in life,why give up life for moments of happyness,no worries or whatever feeling gives the weed and heroin.Besides,those feelings are temporary,and if he wants happyness,I know he can find it in u,u seem like a good person that wants to help him.Show him how much u care.Show him how much u love him,and that u dont whant to loose him because of drugs.
It is not cool die because of drugs.
Drugs are not cool,they end the life.
In the end its really painful.
If he loves u,he will listen,but is up to u how r u going to tell him,look for words and arguments that can open his mind.And ask him,if ur friend finds that is cool to kill yourself,would u do it?because that is what his doing,killing himself with drugs.
I wish u the best of luck,hope it helps.
u can im me at madkitty8@aol.com
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Well first of all, guys flirt with everyone even if they dont mean to. As long as hes not like kissing her/feeling her up..yeah. But if it bothers you tell him to stop! Oh and about the drugs, get him into rehab or something..say your worried about him and that you want him to live and all.
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