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help me plez!
srry if this is long but
there is this kid in my school and he is shorter me and not very good lookin but i still lik him alot and no one understands and ppl always make fun of me for likin him and i already went out wif him lik 3 times b4 and he dumped me all the times but i still rely lik him and alot of ppl make fun of me for it and i hate how no one understands mee
how can i get them 2 stopp??
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Well first of all...there's nothing really to do...if they don't understand why you like a shorty thwen deal with it...I was a inch or so taller then my 5th grade bf and everyone made fun of me and him being together but we liked eachother and did almost anything together nothing nasty since we were only in 5th grade...but yeah...
Just DEAL with it..you'll get over it..and those people will find something else to make fun of...It's just all gossip and making fun of shit...that's life...So Hoped I helped Please RATE!!! - Kelly
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Some people just don't understand. If they're your friends, maybe try just telling them that it bothers you, and if they're not ur friends go all bad-ass and be like get the hell away from me. Ha no i'm jk, I don't think you really can stop them. But if it starts to embarras you, only tell ur closer friends and keep ur crush on the down low.
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You know they may not..but to me..you are a winner..you like him..for so,mething you see inside..which lasts WAY longer than outside as we all get ugly as we get older..yes it is true..lol
So tell them that you care...keep saying it..do not get mad but do stick up for him..Say it firmly that you like him..and if they cannot deal with it..well that REALLY is their problem...
But..if he dumped you..i would wonder if you like him..for you want what you cannot have...why did he dump you???
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you can. just because others dont find him attractive doesnt mean you cant. you you just have to put up with all the teasing and continue likeing him, because he must have a good personality.
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i hate how people critize others just based on appearance, it's so stupid. it's good you arent all appearance based, you shouldnt let anything they say to you get to your judgement on someone. to get them to stop, you just cant let give in or be upset, because they'll keep doing it. just play along, and obviously those people have some horrible attitudes. dont give up on how you feel, everyone has something they like in someone [other than appearance], ex: i like guys who can make me laugh no matter what. there must be something about this boy that keeps you coming back. as for those jerks who tease you- they should get a life and do something better with their lives. dont let them get to your head. =] -ask_anything
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well i have certainly been in the same exact situation..and even went out with him three times! whoa this is really scary..well anyway..if you really like him..you shouldn't care what people think. yeh. people are gonna say some hurtful things..but if you really like him. isnt it worth it?
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Just stand up to them& have his back. Height has nothing to do with the relationship. As hard as it may be, don't let your friends choose your boyfriends or who you like, try not to let them get to you. It's your choice not theirs. Be thankful they don't understand why you like him, b/c if they did they would like him too. Hope I helped! -Amber
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I think it's gerat that you like soemone shorter than u and less attractive, it shows that your not shallow probably like those people that make fun of you. I used to like someone shorter than me, but I got over him for some reason. Still apparently if this guy keeps dumping u he doesn't realize wut a good person you really are and he doesn't know wut he's missing. I still think it's great that your not shallow because more than half of the people on this earth are! They probably won't stop making fun of you unless you just stop liking him. Or agree with them about it i was made fun of just for stupid things like, liking someone ugly, or something like that and I was jsut like "yeah i no, yeah there hot" and they get annoyed that I'm not be offended by it and they stop trust me it always works!. I Hope I helped. Oh and send me some feedback k! I wanna c how everything works out or just ask me anymore questions! :) -Bianca/HunniBunni
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I think you should just tell them "look, how would you like it if i did this to you" and just walk away. It doesn`t matter what other people say or think. It just matters what you think.
good luck!!
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Your friends clearly lack understanding of the concept that beauty is more than skin deep. This is their problem, not yours and not your partner's. You are clearly able to see compatibility is more important than good looks. Perhaps it's time to apply that same standard to your friends, who don't seem to be very supportive. Pursue a relationship with this guy, because (although I realize you're a touch young to be thinking about commitment) 30 years down the line he'll still be a great guy and the guys your friends married who were cute at 20 will be overweight, balding and still jerks.
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I know how you feel, same thing with me... Just tell them you like him, get over it.... your the one who has to like him not them so why do they care?! as long as you like him then thats really all that matters.
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Best bet is to not care what everyone thinks, Dont worry about what they think about so much. Just ignore them, they'll get bored with teasing you and stop eventually.
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If it helps,I understand u.People are different for each other.They have their own taste and their own way of thinking.And most important,they have their own way of feeling.I feel like u like him,u don't have to care what others say.Its ur life,show them how confident u are,and that u dont care what they say,u like him and thats final.The will learn to respect u.
If it dosnt work,ignore them,eventually they will get tired and leave u alone.
Looks arnt everything,if u like this boy,just concentrate in getting to know him better.No one can manage ur life besides u,Its ur decision.
Good Luck with the boy!He might be ur next prince charmin !!!
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You can't really do much about it. Don't cuss them or anything like that. You don't want to go instigating it, or you'll get no where. Just don't really worry about it. Tell them they must not have a life if they have to go worrying about what you are doing and why you're doing it. Quite frankly, these people are being ignorant. I've been there and done that with people saying things. Just ignore their stupid asses. That's all you can do is brush it off and get over it. Blunt truth. xo*
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if anyone says anything to u tell umm to do f*** a donkey tehy have no right makeing fun of u in the first place!! and if it bothers u so much just stop telling peeps
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if they say anything to you, cuss them out..if thats not your style..yell at them whatever. Beat them up..get them taken care of so they wont talk crap anymore!
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