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srry if this to long but i rely need help
my two best freinds used to be best freinds till they got into a really big fite are not freinds anymore so lik when ever i hang out wif 1 of them my other friend will get mad at me n stuff lik that and i no for a fact they will never become friends again cuz the fite they got into was a huge fite
how can i hang out wif 1 freind w/o the other 1 gettin madd??
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what the first friend dont know wont hurt her. dont tell her, she wont know youre with the other, thus she wont get mad at you. TA DA!! you can hang out with whoever you want and not get bitched out for it! hope i helped. good luck sweetie!! ~*stefanie
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ok first of all there's always a way to patch up a friendship that's wut happened with me and my best friend cept me and her got in a big fight and my other friend was in the middle, she ended gettin us both on the fone and w just let it all out! She let us fight on the fone but wen it was her turn, she told us how stupid were acting and stuff and we ended up being fine. But really there is probably no way for you to hang out with one and not let the other get mad, becuz there will always be a tension between all of u, the only thing you can do it patch up the relationship and tell them how you feel about them fighting stupidly, and that they need to fix the relationshipbadly or your gunna be the one getting hurt and being split up by friends. they will understand and probably make an effort to talk to eachother. Everything will be fine. Hope I helped and send me feedback! -Bianca/HunniBunni
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Tell your friends that whether they like it or not your gonna hang out with the other one. If they really and truley are your best friends...they will understand. If not then fine new best friends!
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Tell your friends that either we all are friends or we all or not friends. Its hard being stuck in the middle between your two friends. Just try to fix the fight too. Make them relieze that friends should not be fighting, friends should be laughing about when they 'used' to fight.
good luck!
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try to fix there fight
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ok well tell your friends that you can be friends with whover you want .. and if they dont like you hanging out with one of the friends then maybe your friends should try to be friends again and stop fighting ..
hope i helped xoxx
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You tell your friends you going to be friends with both of them, tell them to grow up and stop acting stupid. If they're really your friends they wont get mad, because it shouldnt matter to them who you hang with.
Hope i helped
Adrz
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Just tell them, be like okay I didn't get into the fight so it really isn't your job to be one or the others friend. Tell them the both of you guys are my best friends and i want to hang out with both of you and not get the other one mad. They should understand if they don't, they're really not good friends. good luck, hope it works out :)
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Try to talk with both of ur friends.Make them uderstand that u didnt have anything to do with their fight,that both are ur friends,that u want to be with them,and that u cant choose.
I dont know what kind of fight they had,but frienship is precious,it takes a great soul to forget about the problems they ,and it even a bigger one to forgive.Ask them to put away their difference.As a friend of both,u don't want to be in the middle ,u want the 3 of u to be together.Try to talk to them,make them come to their senses,if they dont fix their friendships,they dont have to break urs.
Good Luck and The Best of the Wishes
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Well, if you ask me, you're friends are being stupid by getting mad. All you are doing is hanging out with the other one. It isn't like you are talking behind their backs or anything. It's harmless. They can't get mad just because you have other friends. You are your own person and I don't get why people don't see this when they get over things like this. Their fight, isn't your problem. But if you insist on doing something, you need to talk to them and help them understand that you like both of them as friends and you want to be friends with both and they can't change that. Truly, why does it matter? You aren't causing any harm. Talk to them separately and help them see this. Good luck xo*
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You need to talk to them and tell them that just because they had a fight doesnt mean they should drag you into their problems! Tell them they need to understand that you want to be friends with both of them and that if your at one of their houses, the other one should not be mad because its not like their losing you. If they still dont care, I wouldent be friends with either of them.its a little immature to get mad about something like that.
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