the first time i tried putting a tampon in it went right it and i couldnt feel it the next time i tried i couldnt get it and it hurt really bad so i went back to pads and its been like a couple months but today i have a swim party to go to and i tried putting a tampon in and i can gett all of it in except like a centimeter and it hurt because i get it all in and when i peed it started expandind on the outside and it just kinda pushed itself out i dont undertand how to get it in all the way
you have a moisture problem. the tampon wont go in because its too dry. its like.. i dont know if youve every tried this but... if you rub a cotton ball down your tounge, it slows down and has resistance because its drying all the moisture and cant slide. thats whats happening in your...well, you know. try using tampons like right after you go pee, and that might help. if not, then maybe youre just not tampon material.
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my right foot is ugly, like its always dry and scaley and stuff and i put lotion on it and stuff, then my left foot is like perfect, is there anyone else who has this problem? what can i do? i call them my women and men feet. haha
try getting a professional pedicure and see if that helps. if it does, then ask the pedicurist what they used and if you can buy some to use at home.
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My friend just told me she smoked weed. She is 14, and I don't know what to do. I can't get her in troble. She said she only smoked half a bowl. What can I do to get her to quit? I don't want her to fool up her life
ONLY half a bowl? you make it sound so innocent. If you dont want your friend to mess up her life (or DIE) then you have no choice than to tell someone who can help her.
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Is it possible for a young alto with a really low voice to later develope into a coloratura soprano?
I dont know about coloratura, but if you are young and you work very hard at it, soon Mezzo Soprano will be very easy for you. Just try range expanding exercising EVERY DAY. dont skip a day. If you get to a certain age and have not worked on expanding your range, it will become very hard to do so. Thats why vocal training should start early. but try this range expander, it works really well.
c [Zee]
cde [E-E-E}
efg [E-E-E]
gabcdef [E-E-E-E-E-AH]
fed [AH-AH-AH]
dcb [AH-AH-AH]
bagfedc [AH-AH-AH-AH-AH-AH-AH]
try this, and after every one, move up the scale. also, the E's are stocato and the AH's are legato.
have fun and dont ever give up!!
~*Stefanie
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I Want to make a picture collage in like paint. how would i do that ?
save the pictures you want to use in seperate files, then you go and open each of the files in paint and place them were you want them to to. you can resize and you can add borders and stuff... its not as hard as you think, i promise :D if you need more help, jsut drop something in the inbox, i'll be glad to help!!!
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Me and another one of my friends is concerned because we think that one of friends is having an affair with her boss. He is the owner and chef at a small cafe and he hired her a couple of months ago as a waitress. He is married but always tells our friend that works for him about his marital problems and has even told her that is wife is a "stupid woman", and that he can't stand her kids (from another marriage). He is always going over to her appartment, and he invites her over to his house when his wife is at work. We are friends with this man too and I have seen them when they are together, always flirting, and they give each other back massages.
He has no intention on leaving his wife so I'm worried that my friend will get hurt, she seems to have really fallen for him.
My question is, what should we say to our friend before she gets in over her head? And does anyone else think that this man is acting inappropiratly?
First things first- this man's behavior is completely inappropriately. Because he is the owner of the cafe, he is supposed to maintain a code of ethics, and flirting with his employees while he is married is way out of line. It doesnt matter that his marriage sucks... what he is doing is wrong. I feel really sorry for your friend because eiher way, she IS going to end up hurt. He wont leave his wife for her, and eventually he will have o end it with her because of the whole ethics code violation situation. You should try telling your friend that no matter how much she cares for this guy, she needs to end her "relationship" wih him before she gets in too deep. Because if she gets involved with him and then the shit (pardon my french) hits the fan, he is going to take her down with him. Warn her about how wrong this guys actions are and tell her of the consequences... and if all else fails show her the movie Fatal Attraction. :D ok so the last part was a joke, i was just trying to lighten the mood. let me know how this turns out and if you need anything else
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One of my cats has started peeing in my room. Anytime time else he uses the litter box. He only does it in my room. Does anyone have any idea as to why he started to do this or how I can get him to stop? I have 2 other cats and he is our newest one, but we have had him since March. He just started this. Thanks for your help!
hmm... because of the other two cats, he may be starting to feel a little territorial. maybe now that hes been with you for awhile, hes decided he needs to make a permanent stake on the premises. thats just what it sounds like to me though... start keeping the door to your room closed for awhile and dont let him in there. maybe he'll grow bored with your room. the only draw back now is that he might start peeing in other rooms, but you said it was only your room so... i dont know. i would say try the *keep him out of your room* thing and see what happens.
hope i helped
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Hey ok so i just downloaded limewire but there's a problem..when i search for a song or a name of an artist, nothing shows up - no results. And if i make the same search at my friends house (i did yesterday) it works! How come? Is there something i should do or install? Has this happened to anyone before?
Thanx for any answers!!
it may have something to do with the firewalls on your computer or your popup blocker. try decreasing it or taking it off all together and then try your search again
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okay well theres this guy at school. he really really likes me and i dont know what too do. i mean hes really nice and all but not too be shallow but hes not all that attractive. i would date him because hes such a nice guy but when i think about doing anything with him. like sexual stuff. i completely get turned off but its not like that with other guys. what should i do? whats going on?
well try jst going on a few innocent dates. ask him what his intentions are. it may turn out that he doesnt want to do anything sexual with you. then everything will be fine, right? but if he says that he wants to get in your pants, let him know that that is just NOT going to happen.. see how he reacts. if says thats fine, i respect that, then he a keeper. but if he says oh come show me how much you really like me, then kick him to the curb
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Hey everyone! My hair is naturally wavy and very thick. I have it cut it layers with angled bangs. If I wear my hair natural it looks, well, like crap. I would love to make my hair either curly or wavy. What do you think is the best product and how do I make this possible? Rollers? Curling Iron? Any specific product??
definately dont get a perm.. this will fry your hair and it will never be the same (take it from me, i know!!!) try heat rollers. spray a little bit of hairspray on your hair and then brush your hair. roll your hair in different directions (roll one roller towards the crown of your head, one roller towards your neck, one roller towards your face, one roller towards the back of your head) this is called bricklayering and it will make your curls look more natural. let the curls cool completely and then put a little bit of styling gel on your fingers and tousle them a little but. if its too curly for you, then use some more gel and tame it until you like it.
hope i helped!!
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I was shaving this morning and used a new razor. I didn't pay attention to it but the blades were chipped. So, it cut me while I was shaving and it was pretty bad. Not too deep but not your normal shaving cut. I cleaned it up and wrapped the cuts and everything and at school it felt fine. Now, my leg is hot and red and the cuts kind of burn. I don't think that that shoudl be happening. My mom said it isn't anything to go to the doctors for but she'd take me if I really needed to. Should I go or do you think it will go away on it's own?
i dont think this is anything to be too concerned about at the moment, but you should definately make sure you keep them clean. use peroxide to kill bacteria and cover your cuts completely with bandaids. if your cuts are still buurning after a few days of cleaning, then you should reconsider the doctor.. also if they keep opening and bleeding or start to have puss (ew), you should talk to your mom about getting some kind of ointment or something.
hope i helped!!
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hey. i'm a sophmore and i really wanna do something for community service so i decided to try asking different places if theyd let me work there for community service hours. but i have some questions...:
1. how do i go about doing this?
2. do you think i will be able to get the same discounts as the employees?
3. how does community service work?
thanks =)
1. just walk into a business, and ask to see the manager or supervisor, then introduce yourself and ask if it is possible for you to work there as a volunteer or as a service worker
2.no, you prolly wont get the same discounts. employees get discounts because they are on the payroll and receive a paycheck every other friday. you on the other hand, receive a signature on a community service card and a pat on the back.
3. community service is just people doing services for free to make their community a better place. something as simple as picking up trash in a local park or trimming overgrown weeds on the side of a street to make it look nicer can be counted as community service, but what youre looking at is something a little more in depth. you might want to try a real estate office.. you could work filing and making copies.
hope i helped. good luck!!
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Okay, so my boyfriend and I were hanging out tonight and he kept tryin to like get into my pants, i don't mind because we've been doin that a few times and it doesn't bother me..but now i have my period and i don't want him doing that right now..what should i say to him to get him stop with out him being offended. i dont want him to think i don't want him to do anything any more..thanks
tell him why you dont want to do anything. if youre comfortable enough to let him get in your pants, then you should be comfortable enough to tell him that your bleeding from your vagina, right?
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i have been cutting myself for about 4 months now, i dont know how to stop, but i dont want to do it anymore. how do i stop and deal with my emotions in other ways?
you cant just stop and deal with it.. thats the worst thing you can do. you have to get to the root of the problem, and its hard to do that on your own. find someone you can trust and get them to help you. youre on the right path with "deal with emotions in other ways" try hitting or sreaming into pillows, or running, or even scribbling on a piece of paper. anything to keep you from hurting yourself. but definately get professional help.
good luck and god bless
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i have been cutting since 5th grade, im going into 9th now. I don't want to stop because i love the way it feels, and its the only thing that helps me to forget the things i dont want to have to remember anymore. Ive tried stopping before but i physically can not do it. Im so attached to it. But, i cant get caught anymore, and i hate the scars i have all over my body. can anyone help me..?
you have to get the professional help.. there is no other alternative. i thought i could do it alone, but i only made myself worse. talk with a therapist, and they will get you the help you need. dont wait, talk to someone NOW, please.. get the help you need!!
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i cut....
it's so addicting and i can't stop. i love everything about cutting but i know i have to stop this...
please help
i dont like to say "i know how you feel" because everyone's stories and feelings are different.
i dont know whats making you want to cut or what makes you so upset that you have to hurt yourself, but trust me, its not worth it. you could seriously hurt yourself and ruin things in your future. im not just one of those people whos just like "oh just quit." i know how hard it is, i've been there before. but let me tell you, to admit that you have a problem and get the help you need and know that youre doing something good for yourself that no one can take away, there isnt a better feeling in the world. ever since i got help for my "problem", i dont see negative in everything. i now look back and say "wow.. i had a problem.. i was sick..and i took it out on myself." dont think like that. whatever it is thats hurting you, talk to someone about it, dont keep it inside and inflict the pain on yourself. you can talk to me, im always here for anyone in need. some people say to just talk to your friends, but your friends can only help you so much. your friends can help you come out of denial and admit that you have a problem, but in the end, you need the help of a professional. thats the only way to get better.
just hit me up if you need more help.
god bless
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My puppies (two small breed, one male one female) are so newspaper-trained that they won't go outside! Every time we come in from a walk they go straight to the newspaper and do their business. What should I do?
try putting newspapers outside so they will get used to going outside.. maybe eventually they will stop needing the newspapers and eventually just start using the grass
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My Birthday is on November 2..and i wanna have a party but i have no idea wut to do! does anybody know where i should have my party and what a good theme is? thankss so much in advance!
i have a great theme for you... TOTALLY 80'S!! dress like Cyndi Lauper and have everyone dance to Girls Just Wanna Have Fun
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How can i lose weight?!i am 13 female and i weight around 154 pounds!! thats about 50 pounds more than what i want to weigh. any suggestions about how i can diet and exercise to lose like stomach fat or leg fat. how can i eat a better diet? i need to lose weight because i get picked on at school a lot and i dont want that to happen anymore. Please help me out!!!
i know how you feel hun ive been "the fat chick" since elementary school. i did lose some weight in 10th grade though doing the South Beach Diet. its easy and simple and i recommend it to anyone wanting to lose a lot of weight. as for exercising, try swimming. it will help keep legs and arms toned, while still giving you the cardio workout you need, plus its fun!!!
if you need anything else sweetie just drop something in my inbox i would LOVE to help you!!!
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As dumb as this may sound, I didn't actually realize how horrible it is, when you eat chicken & hamburgers. I didn't actually understand the concept that for me to eat a hamburger, is for an innocent cow to just die. My friend sent me an e-mail with a video about fur trade in China, and how dogs & cats are skinned and killed everyday just for fur. But, it got me to thinking how horrible that actually is. I really have been thinking about it today, and I think just eating hamburgers & chicken is disgusting especially knowing that an animal died for that. I'm really considering turning into a vegetarian. Do you believe that this is a good enough reason to want to turn vegetarian? Thanks so much. ♥
there really is no wrong reason to be a vegetarian. if you think you need to be a vegetarian, who is it to tell you no? youd be doing your part to make the world a better place. more power to you.
one word of advice though, when you stop eating meat, you lose some vitamins and minerals. look into taking vitamins to help you replace the vitamins youd be losing.
good luck!!
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