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friends with benefits?
Me and another one of my friends is concerned because we think that one of friends is having an affair with her boss. He is the owner and chef at a small cafe and he hired her a couple of months ago as a waitress. He is married but always tells our friend that works for him about his marital problems and has even told her that is wife is a "stupid woman", and that he can't stand her kids (from another marriage). He is always going over to her appartment, and he invites her over to his house when his wife is at work. We are friends with this man too and I have seen them when they are together, always flirting, and they give each other back massages.
He has no intention on leaving his wife so I'm worried that my friend will get hurt, she seems to have really fallen for him.
My question is, what should we say to our friend before she gets in over her head? And does anyone else think that this man is acting inappropiratly?
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First things first- this man's behavior is completely inappropriately. Because he is the owner of the cafe, he is supposed to maintain a code of ethics, and flirting with his employees while he is married is way out of line. It doesnt matter that his marriage sucks... what he is doing is wrong. I feel really sorry for your friend because eiher way, she IS going to end up hurt. He wont leave his wife for her, and eventually he will have o end it with her because of the whole ethics code violation situation. You should try telling your friend that no matter how much she cares for this guy, she needs to end her "relationship" wih him before she gets in too deep. Because if she gets involved with him and then the shit (pardon my french) hits the fan, he is going to take her down with him. Warn her about how wrong this guys actions are and tell her of the consequences... and if all else fails show her the movie Fatal Attraction. :D ok so the last part was a joke, i was just trying to lighten the mood. let me know how this turns out and if you need anything else
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