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periods??
Okay, so my boyfriend and I were hanging out tonight and he kept tryin to like get into my pants, i don't mind because we've been doin that a few times and it doesn't bother me..but now i have my period and i don't want him doing that right now..what should i say to him to get him stop with out him being offended. i dont want him to think i don't want him to do anything any more..thanks
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Just let him know that you have your period.. he won't be offended. He'll be thankful that you told him before he found out for himself lol <3
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tell him unless he wants to walk home with bloody hands and all that stop for a week. No really just tell him the truth its life and everyone goes through it he cant get affended because you have your period.
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just say its the time of the month and i shouldnt be doing it when im on it.
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okay you need to tell your boyfriend when you have it so he knows ohh dont bug her or okay i'll wait to have sex with her you know...just be open with your man and tell him the 411 need more advice e-mail me at bigJ2009
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tell him stright up hey i have my period and if her loves you he will understand if you dont tell him he might get affended
x0o natalie
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You just need to tell him that you have your period and that you don't want to do anything while you have it! I'm pretty sure he will understand
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amber lynn
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well i would tell him nicely and say i cant let you right now cuase im on my period right now and if he loves you he wil understand
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be honest. tell him your on your period. he will thank you for it. just tell him not this week and use a significant voice if you dont feel like coming out and saying it. :)
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Tell him straight up if you dont want him to do that while your on your period. If you dont tell him hes going to think theres something wrong with you.
♥ Amanda
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I think you just need to tell him the truth. It's really not a huge deal to tell him that you're on your period. I know it seems embarrasing, but, if you both are close enough to be touching each other, he should know these things by now. If you come up with excuses, he will be offended either way until the excuse makes sense.
-TheTeenGirl
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tell him why you dont want to do anything. if youre comfortable enough to let him get in your pants, then you should be comfortable enough to tell him that your bleeding from your vagina, right?
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If your not mature enough to just say 'hey I'm on my period' your not mature enough to have a guy trying to get into your pants.
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well, you should really just tell him it's that time of the month! if you can let him in your pants, you can let him know that he doesn't need to then. he really shouldn't get offended, because you really can't control when you get your period! i'm sure he wouldn't want to get in your pants while you're on your period, so just let him know.
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just tell him strait up you have your period and you cant do anythign he should respect that hope i could help
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" hey there frisky, I'm on the rag."
-gunner
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He is a guy. It is his duty as one of the "hung ones" to attempt to get in your pants. However, I am sure that he will be fine, if you tell him to get him to get his bloody hands out of your pants! (Oh was that horrible) I am sure he won't mind if you tell him you are on your period. He most likely would prefer to know ahead of time.
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Just tell him you have your period right now...if he's matur he'll undertand! Just be liek not tonight...i have me period right now. And move on..cuz if you stick on the subject it will get awkward lol! hope i helped! ♥
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well just tell him that your monthly friend is here to visit and tell him to try to wait a few days and then start (hanging out again)...
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Since you two are mature enough to be intimate, you should be able to tell him you are having your period (you might choose a different word or phrasing-whatever you're comfortable with).
If he doesn't believe you, then he probably doesn't trust you, which isn't a good sign.
If you're not too grossed out by it, let him find out for himself that you're menstruating if he doesn't believe you. Let him find the pad or the string.
Be honsest with him. If you like what he does when you aren't getting your period, then tell him that at the same time you're telling him he can't do it tonight. Tell him you're looking forward to the next time.
Dr. Chad
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When he gets going just say something like "Babe, maybe we should hold off for a few days..." he'll get what you mean.
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