*HeLLo!* My name is Amanda and iM a sophmOre iN highschool!
I really *lOve* giving people advice, which is the reason im here! I have loved it ever sence i was little =). If you ever need any help or wanna ask me any questions, im here! =)
Gender: Female
Location: mass
Occupation: cleaner
Age: 15
AIM: x simply romance
MSN: summerxl0vin@hotmail.com
Member Since: July 1, 2004
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Just wondering. Where in Mass do you live??? (link)
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Near boston. why?
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13/f
is this werid?
i take off my clothes and look at myself in the mirror and want to do stuff but i dont kno what? it feels good being naked what should i do. i like my boobs and others ppl's boobs. i want to have sex or something what is hapening
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Its normal, almost every girl goes through it. =)
♥ Amanda
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what does 143 mean? (link)
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i love you
♥ Amanda
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Does discharge mean your close to your period? (link)
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Not necessarly, you can get discharge all month long and not be close to your period.
♥ Amanda
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ok so this might sound gross but i have had my period for like 2 years now and i am 13 and so well always after my period the WHOLE month till it starts again i have to wear a thick panty liner cause it all comes out like the goop does. the white goop. it dosnt smell or anything though please help i rate high (link)
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that white "goop" isnt your period hunn, its discharge =). every girl gets it, its normal.
♥ Amanda
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im am 13 i havent gotten im period and im afraid it will happen at the most embarrassing time like in class or something. i went to the doctor and she said that she etimated it would happen when im 17 but im scared that it will start and i wont knwo and ill be really embarrased :-( (link)
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I kno periods are different for every girl but when I first got mine i was at home and i was in the 8th grade. It was so light i didnt even kno i had it. If your a small person (like me) yours will most likely be light at first & for a while.
♥ Amanda
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Okay, so my boyfriend and I were hanging out tonight and he kept tryin to like get into my pants, i don't mind because we've been doin that a few times and it doesn't bother me..but now i have my period and i don't want him doing that right now..what should i say to him to get him stop with out him being offended. i dont want him to think i don't want him to do anything any more..thanks (link)
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Tell him straight up if you dont want him to do that while your on your period. If you dont tell him hes going to think theres something wrong with you.
♥ Amanda
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Ugh, you have no idea how fed up I am with periods.. I get depressed because I get them. Basically my question is, is there any chance that I can make the flow a little less and is there any way I get rid of periods by surgery?? By like removing the eggs or something.. Please help!! I just want to die.. grr (link)
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Well my sister is on a monthly shot called "Depo". She doesnt get her period at all. They give her an injection in her lower back (almost on her butt cheek) and it stops periods. She loves it. Hope I helped a little!
♥ Amanda
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i get really bad ingrown hairs when i shave my bikini area. they get really bad and sore. im suppose to go out with a guy tonight but i dont wanna do anything because idk he'll probably get weirded out. i dont know what too do! how do i get rid of these?!? without scaring and stuff. and what do i do about toinght ... =/ (link)
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one thing i can say hun, dont shave against the grain.
♥ Amanda
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I am getting my haircut tomarrow and I am thinking about getting angled bangs and layers, but i cant seem to find any pictures of this hairstyle. Does anyone have any pictures of THEIR haircut, or other hair pics that I could show to the stylist?
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i have the same thing but i fixed it to my liking. if u go to the stylest they WiLL know what your talking about trust me.
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okay my boyfriend and i have been going out for 5 1/2 months and we haven't made-out yet....i am scared to make-out...i have never made out with a guy before (sad i know) but i need help....i get all these feelings inside of me like scared, nervous, and (funny)but i get a feeling like that i think i will mess up... ihave no clue on what to do i despiratley need someone's help....( i dont know if we should try it the next time we go to the movies or what, help)
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honestly if your nervious to make out of the first time your either not ready or well i dont know. it comes naturally everyones kissing is different - go with the flow!
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hi i am a guy who shaves his legs. i have recently started to get red bumps on my legs after shaving and they stay there for a long time, they also sting alot too. is this normal? if not what do i need to do to make it stop? thanks for helping and i didnt put this on here to be made fun of i put it here to get a straight answer nothing more. (link)
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Its probably just razor burn.
♥ Amanda
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umm.. well first of all. i cut.. second of all.. ppl keep telling me that its really bad and unhealthy but i seriously dont understand why?
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Well first of all, i usto cut. and those people are right it is unhealthy. Its unhealthy to your skin but more inportant, your mind.
♥ Amanda
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I get embarassed ALL the time. EVERYTHING embarasses me. It has gotten so bad, that it's to the point where getting embarassed is what I think about ALL day. I wonder when I'm gonna feel stupid, or who is gonna embarass me, etc..When I get embarassed my face turns BRIGHT red and it stays that way for a while and only gets worse when I think about it. I can feel it getting hott and I know it's turning red and then I think about it which makes me feel even more stupid! I'm so nervous and I don't want to look like an idiot. What are some ways that I can not be so obvious or cover it up!? Is there make-up, a certain way to breathe, or ANYTHING!? I'm so desperate. I need help! (link)
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Its normal to get embarresed, and hun im the same way! it really does stink so if i get embarresed i usually just laugh at myself. Like if i feel down the stairs, or tripped. (wich i do on a daily basis). Recovering from embarresment can be easy or it can be difficult. Try not to think about it so much, because then you just look tense. Try to relax. Also, i doubt theres anything to cover-up the redness because I still get like that. I hope i helped a little!
♥ Amanda
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can you get sick from the heat? like throwing up? thanks (link)
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sorry if im late to answer. yes you can get sick from the heat, i do. i get stomache aches. :( it stinks
♥ Amanda
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Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex and i bled on him, we thought that it was jusy my period coming because i am late...but it wasnt my period. He said that it could be possible that i contracted a std from my previous relationship or i could be pregnant. Im not sure what to do or what to believe~Im going crazy because i dont have anyone to talk to about this and if i do have a std he'll probably leave me...and i dont think that i would want to live without him; i'll be better off commiting suicide. (link)
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he popped ur cherry.
♥ Amanda
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if your 16 and you slept with eight people is that slutty? my friend is 16 and she slept with like 8 people and i think thats pretty slutty because most of them she wasnt even going out with them..people call her a slut and she asked me sometimes if i think she is a slut but i dont want to tell her yeah your a slut cause i think thats rude. so whats your opinion on it? is she a slut or not? (link)
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Sorry to say but *yes* she is an easy slut. 8 people is a lot of people to have sex with. 2 people is a lot! I hope she doesnt get an STD. Maybe you should sit her down and talk to her, face to face. Over the phone sucks because she needs to see your facial expressions. Your absolutly right, dont go saying "oh your a slut" because that will hurt her feelings and you dont want to do that. Try to talk to her about it. Tell her to go to a gynecologist and see if shes alright. hope i helped!
♥ Amanda
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my very close friend who is 13 years old has never had a boyfriend nor does she want one. but she flirts with like every guy she meets and makes them think they have a chance but if they want to go out with her she says no. this really bothers me because so many guys are interested in her. is she a tease? how do i let her know shes a heartbreaker without getting her upset? (link)
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She's probably afraid to date around, and get hurt. I know because I'm that way.
♥ Amanda
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okay im 14,female, i have braces,and i still suck my thumb, i need mucho help! like BAD i need tips. every time i try to stop i just can't its addicting. none of my friends know i do it. please HELP =) thanks ♥♥♥ (link)
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Put soap or something that tastes bad on your thumb. so you wont suck it =)
♥ Amanda
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Yesterday, I was searching for web pages about the human muscles. When I came to 1, it wouldn't load all the way, and it froze my computer. I Ctrl Alt Deleted the thing and it worked as it always does. When I went back into Internet Explorer, every letter was about 3 times the regular size. I don't know how this happened, and it's like that with the page that usually comes up (yahoo.com), and with google, and probably others.
How do I fix this? Thanks. (link)
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on the top of your web page brouser thing, click VIEW -> TEXT SIZE -> and click a size you want.
♥ Amanda
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