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Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex and i bled on him, we thought that it was jusy my period coming because i am late...but it wasnt my period. He said that it could be possible that i contracted a std from my previous relationship or i could be pregnant. Im not sure what to do or what to believe~Im going crazy because i dont have anyone to talk to about this and if i do have a std he'll probably leave me...and i dont think that i would want to live without him; i'll be better off commiting suicide.
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OK SUiiCiiDE iiSNT THE ANSWER ! HE PROBLY JUST POPPED YOUR CHERRY ! iiTS NOTHiiNG OUT OF THE ORDiiNARY... BUT ii WOULD STiiLL GO AND GET CHECKED OUT FOR STDs... HOPE ii HELPED ! ~XOXO~
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dont be dumb and commit suicide. if hes gonna leave you for that hes dumb. this sounds sick but depending on how much older he is than you, your clitorse might have split. go to a doctor and take an std test and see what happens. dont be ashamed.
<3 much
Kristen
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dont you dare commit sucide..god has you here for a reason..and why do you want to commit sucide if a boy left you..and i dont care if he was the love of your life..commiting sucide shouild not come up in any point of your life..and you need to go to a doctor and ask if you can get tested for hiv..and then you need to go get a pregnacy test and see if your pregneat..but maybe your not..maybe your bleeding form having sex...you know people do bleed when they have sex!but if that boy leaves you then so what..obviously hes not good enough for you..but you dont ever piut your self in a point when youm wanna commit sucide..please dont do it if he leaves you..but you go get tested and you shouild bring him with you to get tested...and then you need to get a pregancy test..
hope i helped.. please dont do anything stupid..and be safe..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101
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He could be right. But he can be wrong. you could of just popped your cherry. Or mabye he went to deep bc it can make t=you bleed. But to be sure. Talk to your mom and get her to take you to the docter. I hope I helped
Bianca
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Please,do not commit suicide under any circumstances.
I strongly adise you visit your doctor or gynecologist immediatly.I've never heard of STDs making you bleed...but then again I'm a virgin.
I was about to say it could be your hymen breaking aka: your 'cherry popping' but since it sounds like you've had sex before,I highly doubt that was it.
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This leads me to believe this sex could have been a little rougher,and caused trauma to your feminine organs,making them bleed.See a gyn. immediatly!
Hope I've helped in some way,
~Long Lost <3
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you need to get tested for stds and to see if your pregnant. but it also could've been something else...like you had a cut and it got irritated while you were having sex and started to bleed...or something else. but if you do have an std you need to make sure you tell him. and if he does leave you..you'll be okay. it'll be hard but youll make it.
good luck and be safe!!
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oh my gosh you lost your virginity.. he popped your cherry.. dont freak out its freakin normal.. you have no STD!
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well did you use a condom? and if this was the first time yall had it it just means he poped your cherry. if you have any other things to ask hit my inbox.
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I dont think you have std, i Just think he popped your cherry thats all! Dont commit suicide, its a very bad idea and it would hurt that ppl that love you the most!
Ashley♥
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Don't commit suicide. Go to a gynocologist, and take a test.
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He could have popped your cherry.. idk.
But i don't think you have std.
&& don't even think about commiting suicide.
That is the worst to even think about so don't say that.
blessEs. - Pls. don't say that. I care.
*Soraa.
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no you dont have a std unless he has one and spread it to you...he simply popped your cherry
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I don't think it is stds and also committing suicide if he leaves you is just stupid I mean come on! If he leaves he isn't good enough for you anyway. You don't just go around saying your going to kill yourself. If all the girls that got rejected killed themselves not many would be around at our age. If he leaves you then you can't do anything... Life goes on. Right?
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Yeah he prolly popped ur cherry..even if u did have sex before you could still do this..it happened to me it was like the 2nd time i had sex and i bled a lil..so dont worry about an std!
hope i helped
x3 steph
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hi. i loked it up and it could just be that you started bleeding for not reason. like you can when you finger your self. if u want 2 talk my screen name is wilsonharley75.
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If this was your first time having sex- ever, he tore your hymen. Your hymen is a little piece of skin near your vaginal opening and the first time you have sex it tears and bleeds. Its PERFECTLY normal, dont worry about it!
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he popped ur cherry.
♥ Amanda
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Calm down swettie.. It's was probably your "cherry" that was popped or busted. You aren't pregnant and I am pretty sure you don't have a STD. Just be catious and safe.. Wrap it up>>> CarTERgiRL
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no, killing yourself is not the anwser. its not worth it no matter what. i think you should ask your doctor ASAP. its the best thing to take care of ir right away. and if he loves you, we wont leave you. he will probally help you through this.
brunettecutie**
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ok thats gods way saying don't have sex before being married! and killing yourself is NOT the answer go on with life if he dumps you hes no good anyway take this as a lesson and go on with life also take to someone if you no one to talk to then with it in a dariy!
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Ok first off suicide is no way out. The next time you feel that way call 1-800-SUICIDE. It's a toll-free,confidential 24/7 hotline. They will talk to you and offer you to a referral to someone who can help.
It's possible the bleeding was your period trying to start up and you were just spotting a little.
Bleeding when it's not your period can be a sign of an STD. Many STDs can be treated easily without any long-term effects on your life.
Spotting during sex could be a sign of pregnancy, but without knowing if you have any other symptoms, I can't be sure if this is the case.
I would suggest going to your gyno, health department, or local planned parenthood office and getting tested for both STDs and pregnancy. While you're there being tested, talk to them about methods of protecting yourself from STDs and pregnancy. In this day and age, it's unwise not to protect yourself since you never know what your partner might be carrying.
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if you have never had sex before its not your period and not a std and its not because your pergnat.you are jus bleeding because its ur first time.
hope it helps
♥ria
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Hey,
It was probs just your period, or maybe he was too rough, but I honestly don't believe it's an STD so don't worry about that.
If the bleeding continues; and it isn't your period then you should go to a doctor and get checked out.
I'm sure that your boyfriend would stick by you, whatever the cause is, so try to relax and dont worry abut it,
hope your ok,
feel free to get in touch
XxXxX
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Maybe he was a bit too...rough? I don't know of any STD's that make you bleed--at least, not any that I'm aware of. Are you sure it couldn't be your period? Wait it out a few days, and see what happens. If you're still bleeding blood (as in blood blood, not period blood), I would really advise seeing a doctor.
Also, if your boyfriend would leave you just like that, he's some boyfriend. Really, why have sex with someone who would dump you like that?
I hope that you'll find the source of your problem, and that you'll get better soon.
Sporkster
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It could very well have been the beginning of your period. It could be that you were irritated by the condom. There aren't any STDs that cause bleeding that I'm aware of. If you don't start your period soon get check by a doctor. I don't think its much to worry about. He should check his facts before going off about it to you but boyfriends aren't always real smart about a girls feelings. And, if it should come to him leaving for some reason you would do fine. :)
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