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So this guy always tells me im hot, beautiful, pretty and cute. But hes waiting for me to get off my period so we can have sex but I've only known him for about 9 days or so. me and him only were aware that we each exsisted but never talked and nine days ago we started talking and hanging out. but he is nice to my parents and very polite and hugs my mom hello and good bye. And than last night he was talking to my friend Whitney about drinking and smoking and how they should go do it. do you think he could be putting on an act for my parents and things and really just wanting to have sex and using me, or actually have interest in me? i know thats prob not enough info. so ill say a little more, he also doesnt mind kissing me or anything infront of my cousin brittney or my cousin brianna, and i think his friends know that we have a thing going on cuz i read his text the other day and it said "so your with nina right?" (yes my name is nina) so its not a complete secret. But if you can help me distinguish what he wants from me that would be great.. (link)
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I have to be honest with you, it really sounds like it's an act. If he's wanting to have sex after only really talking to you for a little while, it's risky. You could end up regretting it. My advice, tell him you're not ready and you want to wait to get to know him better. If he is willing and actually does wait, then go for it.
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15/f
I don't think I've ever felt love before.. of any kind. I mean I like my family but I feel towards them what I would feel towards a stranger or looking at a wall. Sure, I tell them I love them occasionally but I guess everyone just says that. I don't really have the best relationship with my family but not the absolute worst. That's probably because I don't like to spend a lot of time at home. I'm usually at a friends or when I am home I sit in my room away from the rest of them. And that's okay because it keeps me away from the bitching they do. Just is it normal to not really feel anything special? Is it like a mental thing? Or do you sincerely feel something? Maybe I'm jut thinking about it to much or expecting to much.. I dunno.
I don't think I've ever felt a lot of emotion before and I am just lately realizing it. I'm young, I know.
Also, just another little side question for fun.
Don't you think the worth of "love" kind of decreased like everyone literally tells everyone "I love you" whether they mean it or not. Makes it not as special, yanno? (link)
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Love is a feeling. The problem is this answer has so many possible answers because there are so many different kinds of love. You can love your family, friends or be in love with someone. Actually being in love is the most intense. For me at least, I am in love with my husband. And for me, that means I would do anything. Anything for him. I can't imagine the world existing without him in it let alone my life. To be quite honest, I would die for my husband.
And yes. For a lot of people, 'I love you' doesn't seem to hold much value. I personally was never able to say it to anyone but my husband. I couldn't say it until I knew it was true but most people aren't like that.
Hope this sheds a little light.
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i gave my boyfriend a blowjob last night, and i currently have a healing cankersore.
i've actually never performed a blowjob, and he's never received one. i believe he had precum at the tip. we are not "sexually active" until yesterday.
i was wondering, what are the chances of me receiving anything ? (link)
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If neither of you has done anything before, you can't catch anything. STDs have to be transmitted through sex with a contaminated partner so, you're safe.
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I was watching "True Hollywood Story" on Laci Peterson and could not finish watching and now I'm curious. If a man killed a woman who was pregnant but he did not know that the woman he killed was pregnant, would he be still accounted for double murder or a single murder? (link)
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Most often double murder. It really doesn't matter if he knew she was or not but it all depends on the judge and jury.
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does anyone know any NATURAL remedies for SEVERE cramps? (link)
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Excersise also, peppermint tea works for me.
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15/f
This is going to be a very confusing story, please bare with me haha.
Ok, so last weekend i hooked up with this guy John. John and I had been sort of a thing for like a couple weeks and this was the first time we've hooked up. Things were like fine between us for a few days but then he started excessively calling me and i got really annoyed and decided it was time to move on, though he doesn't know that yet. This past saturday we were all out and john and i werent talking that much because he was in a pissy mood and i didnt want to deal with him. so i just flirted alot with my good friend james who i like now, and he likes me. later that night he called me upset and blamed it on me, and i felt really bad. i have absolutely no feelings for john anymore though. I have no idea what to tell john or even to follow through with things with james. what should i do?
ps. sorry its so confusing if you need me to explain further let me know. thank youuu (link)
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I've been in this situation so I know it's not easy. I dealt with it by just telling my boyfriend I was sorry but that we just didn't click the right way. That's really all I said. As for following through on things with James, I'd just keep hanging out with him for a while and see if you have really strong feelings or if you want to give it a shot. Hope this helped.
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14\F
Ever since I signed an absintity pleague Ive been having dreams of doing things sexually with people I dont even know.
Could you explain why Im having these dreams and maybe how to stop them.. Its akward (link)
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Actually, having dreams of sexual stuff is usually a sign that you want closeness in your life. Maybe, there's not a lot of people in your family that you are close to? idk. Anyway. Just relax. That's all you can do. Hope I helped.
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this is how i've been lately...and im wondering if its depresson:
-im dead tired all the time even if i go to bed early.
-i have no drive to do anything anymore
-i go through periods of stuffing myself sick and then eating nothing for days.
-i cry alot, at least twice everyday.
-i snap at people and get angry really quick
-ive had thoughts of suicide
-just overall sadness and stuff
theres more...i cant remeber it at the moment. but is there any chance this is depresion? (link)
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Yes it is depression. I've been through it. Just keep trying to get through it. It's tough but can be done. Good Luck
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my period is always late. and i am a virgin. just for complete reassurance..theres no way i am pregnant right?
like sure he's 'came' on me and like im sure he's precame while dry-humping and such..but without his penis inside of me and cum coming out theres no way i can get pregnant, right? :) thank you. (link)
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U said your period is always late so you are definatly not pregnant. If you were you wouldn't get your period at all.
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Well every guy i date wants to have sex with me
but im really scared and want to wait till i find the right guy or im married and they dump me should i just give it up to them? (link)
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NO! don't give it to him just because he wants it. Don't let any guy push you into anything until you're ready. If he leaves you because of it, then he's not worth being with anyway. Sorry to say it. Hope I helped.
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i was on some wierd site my freind found this guy is talkin about some very wierd stuff "I'll be completely honest. I don't know if you know this or not but some girls orgasm so hard that they lose bladder control and piss uncontrollably" i was like WWTTFF that cant be true? can it? O_o (link)
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Yes actually, some girls get really excited and loose bladder control. It happens
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Okay,
All my friends complain when they get cramps. I never get cramps and ive been on my period for 2 years. Is this normal? My friends say im lucky, but is something wrong?
thanks alot (link)
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NO there is nothing wrong with you. Some girls get cramps and some don't simple.
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Im going to sound stupid but. Me and my boyfriend want to makeout. Weve kissed for long amounts of time before but we wand to get into it a little bit more. Like positions and stuff. Any ideas for me?? (link)
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Sit on his lap or pull him on top of you. Something I personally enjoy doing is laying on top of my guy and lightly kissing him then drawing back slightly when the his kisses become more urgent and letting him come to me and press me to him. lol Yes it is kind of teasing but it's fun and really turns him on. and yes lol I realize u said guys answer but... I couldn't resist.:p
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When girls give BJ, I heard they swallowed the cum. is it true? (link)
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Yes. most do swallow but not all. It depends on the person
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ok so i get extremely turned on when i watch gay guys (or just 2 guys) makeout and stuff but im a straight female so i was wondering is this normal?? i know its hott for 2 girls to makeout to guys and when i see guys holding hands i think eww but when they makeout i think its so hott esp when they get into it. is this ok and/or normal? thanks so much! :] (link)
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Yes you are totally normal. I'm the same way. I think it's very hot watching two guys makeout and, I actually see it quite a bit as my best guy friend who is gay is dating my cousin. lol
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im 13/f, in grade 8, and im only 5'2
i feel so short compared to everyone!!
everyone else is 5'4 and up, and i feel like a grade 6. I know im only 13 and can get my growth spurt, but all my family members are really short, so i doubt i'll grow. Is there still some hope of growing?? and is there something (other than heels) that can make me look and feel taller??
Thanks:) (link)
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Just work on your posture. And sorry hunn, if you thing your short, try being in grade 11 and being 5'3". And you may get taller you may not, you just can't be sure yet and besides, being short has it's advantages. Like, sometimes if a cute guy sees your having trouble getting something from a high place he'll help you. A lot of guys open doors for me because of it. :p Also, a lot of guys like short girls so, even if you don't get much taller, make your height work for you. Hope I helped.
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Ok so my boy friend Dylan is really a great guy and I really do like him...The thing is that i don't have those "butterfly's" any more about him now all he does it piss me off all the time and what really makes me mad is that he said that he doesn't care if I'm mad because it doesn't effect him and he just treats me like crap all the time and I really do lie him I just feel like he is using me for sex.... like we haven't done anything yet but he is always wanting to make out and he is always hinting about it but I pretend that I don't know what he is talking about... like he said that "we are going to have fun when we turn 16...." and that "hopefully I want to too or will accept".... "but he has to wait until I'm 16 because that is what his dad said" and I turn 16 this month on the 20th and I don't know if I'm ready to have sex yet.... and I have a feeling that if he doesn't get what he wants from me that he is going to leave me..... well I talked to my best friend about this and we decided that I should deny him if he tries anything once I turn 16 and to see if that is all he wants from me..... but it makes me sad if that is all he wants because we have been dating for like 4 months now.... but yeah so like I don't really know what to do... so help me and give me your opinion on all of this.... (link)
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HUnn, it's simple, like you and your friend discussed, if he tries when you turn 16, you deny him. Besides the legal age in most places is 18, not 16. Anyway, if he leaves you, that's all he wanted in the first place and, as hard as it may be to hear, he's not worth crying over if that's all he wanted from you. Srry to tell you that.
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when you give a hickey like how do you do it. i mean like do you suck on the person or like just kiss it over and over again. like howw...? (link)
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It's really simple. Just pick a spot and suck on it. You don't have to suck too hard tho and you can kiss it. For a better answer, just go to google and search how to give a hickey. Hope I helped. =)
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is it legal for a fifteen year old and an eighteen year old to have sex? (link)
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No. It would be illegal for the 18 year old as 15 is still considered a minor. If anyone found out, that person could go to jail. (Not saying you actually did anything of course)
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My boyfriend and i decided not to tell anyone about us going out, and he goes to all of the other girls that he admits that he likes and blows them kisses and said stuff like hey sexy, i really like this guy, but is he worth keeping around??? I don't know so please help me. (link)
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I think the problem is that you haven't told anyone you're dating. Question, was this more his idea to keep quiet or yours? If it was his, I think you need to have a talk with him. Actually, I think you need to have a talk anywayz. Let him know how you feel.
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