My boyfriend and i decided not to tell anyone about us going out, and he goes to all of the other girls that he admits that he likes and blows them kisses and said stuff like hey sexy, i really like this guy, but is he worth keeping around??? I don't know so please help me.
squirrell answered Monday March 10 2008, 6:59 pm: I think the problem is that you haven't told anyone you're dating. Question, was this more his idea to keep quiet or yours? If it was his, I think you need to have a talk with him. Actually, I think you need to have a talk anywayz. Let him know how you feel. [ squirrell's advice column | Ask squirrell A Question ]
CaliforniaLover1111 answered Monday March 10 2008, 6:59 pm: dump him...if a guy is truly committed to you then he for surely wouldnt be looking at or liking other girls... he should only want you and no one should compare type thing...
but on the other hand, if you really are set on making this work...talk to him about it...tell him that you dont like it when he acts that way towards other girls...hes your boyfriend for crying out loud! i mean, how would he feel if you were into other guys??? so yeah talk to him about it and he should respect that and be willing to knock it off...
also, is it a mutual decision to keep ur relationship hush hush? because if its more his decision than yours, thats just wrong...like what does he have to be ashamed of? it just seems like he wants to keep your relationship hidden so he can still flirt with other girls... its all just a little sketchy to me and i think your guy needs to change and fast! you shouldnt have to watch your man flirt with other girls [ CaliforniaLover1111's advice column | Ask CaliforniaLover1111 A Question ]
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