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hello :]
im 17 and a latina...
i resemble an interesting mixture between Vanesses Hudgens and cassie [me & u singer] although i look a lil bit more like cassie.. prom is 2 weeks away and i have my dress
http://www.davidsprom.com/dresses_detail.jsp?i=2113&g=0&p=2&s=7031
its a deep purple color and somewhat of a haltertop.
i just dont know how to do my hair. im debating on whether to leave it down and curl its or something... or do an updo.... i have waist length jet black hair and side swept bangs that hang to my lips... any help please?
your dress is sooo pretty!!!
i think you should leave your hair down and curled: here are some ideas that i think would look great
http://media.merchantcircle.com/9197623/IMG_0738_full.jpeg
-okay i love the side ponytail curled, i just think it's a really pretty style
http://www.cupcakestastenice.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/molly-sims.jpg
-i really love this hair style with the braid and then the side ponytail
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_FfZMBBaCF8w/SKyQebzxBOI/AAAAAAAACB0/HkxbUMVn00k/s400/lauren+pony+braid.bmp
-braid and side pony, i just love it
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_y2Pxq1jHI8A/SQXOed35hgI/AAAAAAAABuI/VHMtQMoaIR8/s400/lauren-conrad-braid+prom+hairstyles.jpg
-if you didnt want to put it in a side ponytail
okay but yeah i think it would be really pretty curled in a side pony with a little poof ... or the braid is really pretty i love that style a lot too :)
So there's this guy I've been crazy about for like 3 years. We dated twice [once 2 years ago for a year and a month and then for 2 months and broke up on the 9th of this month]. After we broke up the first time, we stopped talking for 2 years and then out of nowhere he messages me and tells me he still loves me and wants to get back together with me. I wanted to be with him to. But now that we've broken up, he's a total ass to me and no matter how he treats me I can't get over him. I'm seriously in love with this guy. But everytime we broke up, he dumped me and started dating some other girl right after. Like right after. I want to get over him, since we both saw it best we stop talking to each other, but I also want to keep talking to him because I don't want to lose him again. He says he still loves me, but I don't know if I can believe that. Well, I already tried seeing him to sit down and talk, but he didn't want to see me in person. We talked online a couple weeks ago and he told me that even though he loves me, it's just not what it used to be. I feel like he hates me and that he doesn't actually care about me. I don't know if that's true and I wonder if he actually really cares about me or even thinks of me, but I don't want to ask him something like that since he's with someone else. Plus I don't want to get on his bad side by talking to him.
What do I do?
so personally i think the best thing to do would be to stop talking to him for awhile...not just a day or two but just completely stop...and if he talks to you just ignore it or say that you cant talk right now. by showing him that youre not always going to be able to talk when he can it kind of will give him the impression that whoa shes acting like she doesnt need me anymore and that can be scary for a guy if he still loves you, even if hes with someone else. right now it seems like he knows that he has your wrapped around his finger and that you still love him and that youre going to stick around and he probably likes that feeling of control, he can date another girl but at the same time he still has you. so yeah id take like a week or two of just not talking to him...and clear your head and keep telling yourself that you are going to be alright even if he is no longer a part of your life. you have to do whats best for you and sometimes that is just letting go.
hi me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 im 19 and so is he and a half months when we first starting dating it was great he called me every night he texted me all the time and we always had fun together now he rarely calls or texts if he does call its around midnight and if i call him he is always with his friends and either says i cant talk right now or he talks to them the whole time while i am on the phone listeneing and sometimes he calls me when he is with the friends and i just have to listen to him talk to them and now we are always fighting he never invites me to do anything with him and his friends anymore either he awways teels me wat hes doing as hes doing it doesnt even invite me and his friends are over every night and he says he didnt invite them that they have a key and he doesnt even wanna b there with them we never really go out anymore we just sit at home and watch tv he says he is always romantic but i cant even remember the last time he was wat should i do to help our relationship
well my first thought after reading this was break up with him...but i realize that i dont know how you feel about him like if its "real love" sooo i think you should just be like we need to talk. tell him how you feel, and that he needs to make more time for you and if he cant give you that then maybe you need to take a break for now. if you do tell him that you think you should go on a break watch his reaction. you will be able to tell if he is really truly upset that he lost you and if that's the case he will start shaping up to get you back.
whatever you do, do not let him keep getting away with this. you are his girlfriend and he needs to make more time for you. if he really cares about you then he'll understand.
He's really nice and smart, but kind of quiet at times. He has a fun personality though and I guess most girls would not consider him "hot" but I like him for who he is. I want someone who I can relate to in a non superficial way, and someone who will help me grow as a person, and hopefully I can do the same for him. The thing is I only see him in one class and he probably does not suspect that I like him. I try to compliment him when I can and talk to him more, but I don't sit next to him so it's kind of hard to. And I don't hang out with him during lunch or outside of school. Basically I need some kind of a way to give him a hint before summer break. I won't see him all summer, so I want to plant some kind of seed in his mind that I like him so that when school starts again, we can hopefully talk more and become closer that way. Any ideas? Thanks =]
hmm well i think you should just start talking to him more in your class if thats at all possible... otherwise i guess what about like facebook/myspace or texting? thats always a good way to ease into things because it makes it seem casual...and then from there the relationship can grow whether as friends or more :)
I went out with this guy a while ago, and we went out for about 6 months, which was my first real "relationship". I'd dated a lot of guys, but he was special. I broke up with him because...I guess at the time I was just tired of his over-protectiveness. Now I see he just loved me. The thing is, I thought that by breaking up with him, I'd get a new start. Dating new people, since I hadn't dated in a while. I was really excited. I guess I just THOUGHT I got over him at the time. Currently, we are both going out with someone. Unfortunately, after the break up, he suddenly decided he hated me because I moved on so quickly. I want him back. A lot. I know it will be nearly impossible to get him back, but I'm willing to do anything. Next year, both of the people we're currently dating are going to a different school. We've been broken up and he's hated me for about 5 months. We haven't talked at all, I tried to email an appoligy to him, but he wouldn't reply. I know he hates me, but I would do anything to get him back. I really think I actually love him. I just don't know how to do any od this. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend, but I've been thinking more and more about my ex. I had a thought that I could wait until the end of the year and next year, start all over. We could start taling again, and see where it goes. But I'm not sure if I can wait that long. And I don't know if he'll attempt a long distance relationship with his girlfriend. I just need help. No specific question, just advice on what I should do. It kills me when he glares at me. I don't know how to deal. Thanks.
well you definitely shouldnt sit back and do nothing and you shouldnt wait either! try talking to him again...email, text, call or even in person if you can! just be like i really need to talk to you and i understand you dont want to talk to me but there is something i need to tell you. hopefully he'll respond and let you say what you need to say. but, he may not respond the way you would like him to. he could still really have feelings for you but act like he still hates you and there is no chance. he could be like oh yeah i want to be with you too. or he could really have moved on.
just explain to him that you need to know if there is a chance for you two in the future because once he gives you an answer to that (even if it is no) then at least you'll know and it will make the moving on process a lot easier because right now you dont know how he feels. once you know for certain how he feels... things should be a little more clearer as to waht you should do. just dont give up :) whatevers meant to be will always find a way!
I am just graduating and in turn of college I would like to nanny abroad. I am thinking any country that speaks English. No other language for the fact I can not speak another language. I am really looking anywhere in England.
My trouble is I can not find any legit websites.. can someone help??
umm idk if this website would help but craigslist.com
you pick your location and then in the search just type like "nanny" or "live in nanny" and then underneath that click jobs and then search and anyone looking for nannys that posted an ad on craigslist should pop up and you can read it and then email that person or whatever
i hope this helps? :/
Alright, I'm well aware that teens go through different confusing stages. They're unsure of themselves, they get depressed..blah blah. But what if I actually thought I had some kind of mental disease? What if I read about it and found the symptoms to be true in my case.? Like..I've found myself to be bulimic, depressed, anxious..all those things. But how can I tell if it's true or not and not just one of those "teen" things. Because my mother won't even listen. She brushes it off and says its just another teen emotion and stage.
Any advicee? I'm 16/f by the way.
yeah you should seek out professional help but that is expensinve...i would start with going to a counselor...like do you have a school counselor you could go to? they can kind of get an idea of if this is just a stage or if you really need to get help and then they will help you figure out how to see a professional and all that stuff...but if you cant go to a counselor then definitely go to the doctors...and well if neither of those is an option then is there a close friend or relative you could go to to talk about this with?
i like this one boy. and he likes me. but he said he wants to get to know me better. cause we dont see each other that much other than wednesdays. but other than that not really.what are some ways we can get to know each other better? but i dont wanna make thing awkard for when i do see him...?
i always start with talking to them through the internet: myspace, facebook, aim, msn messenger? it always seems to make it easier to ease into things and not make it totally awkward for when you do talk person to person cuz you'll have talked before online...idk i always find that the easiest/less awkward way :)
im moving in 2 months and i keep trying to make time to see my bf because we go to different schools but hes always too busy. i dont know what to do because we havent hiung out just him and i in over a month!! we have seen each other at church/youth group and gone to service together and madeout in between services but thats all. im LEAVING and he doesnt have time!! it kills me but i cant just sit around waiting for him. but also it would literally break my heart everyday to not be with him and i dont know what to do. i love him more than i have ever loved anything (besides God and my family) and he is my best friend. we have been best friends for 2 years and started dating in december. please help me i know hes busy but i cant sit around waiting for when hes free. but also i coulndt bear to be without him!!! please help im so lost and heart broken. also he doesnt see the point in keeping our relationship if im moving in 2 months because we will just break up and he always thought we would date for years. and no long distance isnt an option. and some may say the best thing to do would be break up now but 1) i couldnt waste the last time i had with him not being with him (trust me i would die hes my best friend and i couldnt just be friends with him-i LOVE him) and 2) i want to spend as much time together with him as possible (hes just ALWAYS BUSY and he cant help it either) i have no idea what to do at all please help me
ps we are both in high school
why isnt long distance an option? i mean, if you barely see eachother already how different would that really be? idk i think if i really loved someone (like the way you say you do) i would totally do the long distance thing cuz whos to say you cant be together again physically?
but obviously he already doesnt see the point in dating you since youre moving which is probably why hes too "busy" to hang out with you...he just doesnt want to get more attached because it will make the break up harder for both of you...
i know its hard for you but this is something that is going to happen one way or another and so i guess youll just have to put up with him being busy for two more months because it doesnt sound like hes gonna make an effort to spend time with you if he already sees it as pointless...thats the only thing you really can do since youre not willing to break it off just yet
ok,,,,
well
i am going out with this guy named Drew and my best friend Mariah is not friends with him and Mariah and drew both want to spend time with me and that is really hard at school. Mariah is in 3 of my classes and drew is not in any of my classes. Maraih and i have gooten in alot of fights lately cuz she thinks that i am not spending that much time with her. but i am. What should i do???
I feel really Sterched between them.
please help!!!
thanks
Strawberry
14/f
hmm it is quite typical for best friends to get jealous when theyre best friend gets a boyfriend...they feel like theyre not as important and you care about the guy more than the friendship...so you just gotta tell her that thats not true...
now if you can honestly say you spend enough time with her then just explain to her how you feel you are being fair and are balancing your friendship and relationship just fine and that she should be okay with that...
however, alot of the times once a girl gets a bf she usually does tend to spend more time with him then her friends and even though she doesnt notice, her friends do...you may think you spend enough time with her when really, you might not be... managing time between your bf, school, and a best friend is going to be difficult but maybe designate a certain day or something thats meant for just you two...try to hang out with them equally and let her know that you still care about your friendship :)
What are some things I could do to my boyfriend while we're making out? I don't want to do anything past first base at the moment, but is there anything I could do to turn him on while/instead of just kissing him?
compliment him
whisper (ive heard guys like it when you whisper in their ear too)
moan a little
15/f
i know this is long but to whoever anaswers thanks a billion!
i know im young and im gonna meet a lot of ppl as i grow up, but my bestfriend and i are completely split apart. A few months ago we were super close and tahts when HER bestfriend was hanging out with someone else and completely ditched her in a way, so we got even closer.(we've been friends since we were 10)so now shes friends with her bestfriend again and now shes tlaking behind my back majorlyyy like she hates me. i know i have a lot of other friends but in a way i miss her, shes still my friend. but shes doing to me what her bestfriend did to her. and i know this for a fact, she runs around her bestfriend like shes a queen and tells her absolutely evertyghing.
thats the short version, its a lot more complicated taht that with boys and..other things related to taht, but thats waht im worried about. How i was there and now she completely ditches me fro something "better". im not even kidding she kisses her bestfriends ass, and when something happened with her and her boyfriend she went to everyone else BUT me. and apparently when i asked her to hang out the other day(for the first time since..december?)she went to her bestfriend and asked her how to get out of it she hates me itll be awkward,,and so on. and her bestfriend just laughed. see her bestfriend doesnt like me so much because she used to be jealous of how close me and my bestfriend are.
anyways the end..
haha sorry this is sort of confusing but i realllllly need help please!!
anyways im just asking if i should try to deal with this, but i know if i talk to her she'll go tell the other person no matter waht(weve gotten into many fights before) or if i should just let it go...
also..one big problem is that i feel like im losing myself thsi year, and shes moves on especially because she thinks shes a lot better than me and im like ntohing and worth nothing.
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!
yeah you need to let her go because that does not sound like a good best friend to me... the point is, you've made an effort to try and get her back into you're life and the result...she treats you like crap...that is not cool
so let her go, dont acknowledge her, call her, talk to her, dont even look at her! part of the reason why shes enjoying this so much is probably because she knows that its bothering you so much! once you show her that you dont really care anymore then she'll eventually realized how she screwed up... her best friend left her once, she'll most likely do it again and then who will you're best friend be left with?
i mean, you've tried and now its just time to move on,get better friends and take the time to find your true self :)
okay. so me and my x boyfriend talked on the
phone every night for about 2 weeks. and i was
really starting to fall for him and care for him.
now today i went back to school from spring break
and his friend wants us to hook back up, so he wanted me to sit with my x at lunch today. i didnt
want to make it weird so i sat with my friend
across the table from my x next to my x's other
friend. okay now i was sitting right there right were i can hear everything they are saying. and my best friend walked by him and he whistled that whew whew. thing. and i acted like it didnt bother me and i just kept talking to my other friend. okay and he knows me and my best friend are best friends so i know he did it just to piss me off. now after lunch we have 7th and 8th period together. and i was talking to him and being nice. and his friend that was trying to hook us up sits next to me in this class. and his friend used to liike me. so i guess this made my
x the one i am talking to get mad. or something. so i was talking to the guy that sits next to me
and we were acting like we always do. but you could tell it bothered him. and my x the one im talking to now acted like i wasent shit to him today, i kept asking him what was wrong and i was
trying to see what i did wrong and see why he was mad and then tells me to get up and get everything he drops and get up and ask the teacher things he didnt know. okay and after this incident today i was all upset after school. so i was going to call
him and ask why he acted all different today [he is usually a really sweet guy] but when i went to
call him and talk to him. his friend prank calls me and also treats me like shit. and i can hear my x in the backround so i know he was with him. but okay i dont want to act like i care. but i cant help it. i feel now like ive wasted my time talking to my x when i could have been talking to another guy. so tell me what do i do. sorry for the length. but thanks in advancee. (:
hmm...well you should figure out whether or not you really like him and want to make an effort in getting over this stupid situation with him...because we all know guys think very highly of themselves so he probably wont be the first one to say anything so its just something you should bring up and discuss with him and tell him you did not appreciate the way he treated you...
now if you think you're ready to move on from your ex then just get over him, dont talk to him, dont call him dont even acknowledge him... because once he sees that you dont care about him (and if he really does like you) then he'll most likely indicate to you in one way or another that he wants you back or something...that he really does care about his relationship with you whether as a friend or more than that!
yeah i like alternative/acoustic stuff [all time low, dear juliet, sum 41, mayday parade, dashboard confessional, etc etc etc]. what are some either cute love songs [ex. getting into you by relient k] or some sadd breakup songs [ex. the alamo is no place for dancing].
thanks :]
check yes juliet- we the kings
skyway avenue- we the kings
mistakes we knew we were makin-mae (i dont really know if this goes with what youre looking for but its a good song)
skies so blue-the rocket summer
all i need is you-the click five
fall- something corporate
best of me- the starting line
come back to me- plain white t's
on my mind-newfound glory
let this go- paramore
after all- jonathan clay (acoustic)
a plain morning- dashboard confessional
realize- colbie caillat (yeah shes not alternative but its kind of acoustic and its such a good song)
holiday-boys like girls
here in your arms-hellogoodbye (great song)
we were made for eachother/you can breathe-jack's mannequin (that is one song)
i wont disagree- kate voegele (shes so amazing)
hmm i hope some of these helped you out! haha i tried
for a while now i have been getting really horny and all i want is for someone to eat me out. like i am almost tempted to ask some random neighbor hood boy to eat me out and i dont even talk to him. so should i go for it? or should i try to fight the feeling? and also how can i fight the feeling?
personally i dont think you should go get a random guy to do it to you... i mean yes it would be nice but i just dont think thatd be good to do...thats my opinion though! what about just masturbating? or does that not help you fight the feeling??? :/ haha good luck though i know it must be tough
ok so my puppy who gets into everything... atleast it seems he does just started bleeding from his butt when he has a bowel move ment he has diarreah with blood in it what should i do and any ideas of what this mught be? HELP ME!!!
hmm i would call a vet... and ask them because they would for sure be able to help you...i know when my kitten pooped with blood she had worms which is something the vet helps to treat...so just call and ask!
Well theres me and this guy and were kinda like best friends but with benefits i think. Hes a year older than me and im not quite sure if i have feelings for him, i think i might though. We have had conversations before like how he said nothing more than friends would work out right now and i asked if it ever would and he said yeah maybe. We talk every night on the phone and hang out every weekend, we have only made out though.
Im not shure quite what we are and if we will ever be more than friends & idk if i feel comfortable asking him, what should i do ?
well first you need to actually figure out if you really, truly have feelings for him...because you said you think you might but you need to know for sure... and then i think the only thing you can do is ask him about it...for all you know he could really just be using you...but talking to him about is just something you need to do, its something you deserve to know...because you dont need to be waiting around for something that may never happen...and you dont want to just give up and always wonder what could have been...so just be like hey i need to talk to you about something...and then just bring it up...you deserve to know
my friend is getting used by this one guy completely. like its so obvious, and shes never had a boyfriend before. she only met him once in person, and like did a TON of stuff with him. shes acting like a whore, and im sure she'll go farther. shes only 15. should i say something or what? i know shes just gonna get hurt..and i dont wanna pick up the pieces.
as her friend... you should tell her how you feel and that youre not trying to hurt her or anything you just care about her and dont want to see her hurt...and just tell her everything you feel like you need to...most likely shell be like whatever to you and will most likely choose the guy but at least you tried you know :/
this girl on my bus is so much fun to talk to. we sit with eachother everyday. and we just laugh and its fun. shes in one of my classes, and we talk in there too. but, i wanna like hangout with her. but like, i dont know how, or even what to say? how can i ask her? she has a ton of friends, and i dont know. what do i saY?
you could probably just bring it up one of the times you guys are sitting on the bus together...just be like hey we should hang out sometime...if you want to :) its not a big deal just throw it out there!
this is going to be confusing so bare with me
i have this friend A whose a guy. i talk to him on the phone every night and hes one of my best friends. i can literally tell him anything. the thing is, i have liked his friend M for a while and he knows, hes been really supportive saying oh well you two should date blah blah blah. But i wasnt so sure. I didnt know wether or not i like A. I mean hes really really really cute hes nice funny and he cares about me. But i dont know M that well. besides those factors i decided to stay likeing M. well last night, my friend A told me he likes me. and now i dont know what to do. i dont think he wants to go out with me but im not sure. hes been acting really weird when i text him like always giving short answers and things. what do i do about A? i dont even know if i like M still. im so confused. why is A acting weird now?? sorry this is so long but i really need to know.
please please please tell me what you think of this situation!
well what you gotta do is just figure out who you can see yourself with in the future... (personally im rooting for A here) haha... but the reason he is being weird is probably because he feels a little bit embarrassed by telling you that he likes you cuz he doesnt know how/if you feel the same way back...and that can humiliate a guy when they tell a girl how they feel and the girl doesnt feel the same way back ya know... you just need to listen to your heart and figure out which one you want to be with... DO NOT lead A on though...either tell him that you love him but as a friend and thats all you'll ever be or you could tell him that youre just really confused right now and need some time to sort through your feelings... i mean, chances are hes not going anywhere and if he really likes you he'll wait! the fact that you said you dont even know if you still like M makes me think that you want to be with A too... :) you just need to figure this out yourself and figure out what youre true feelings are telling you to do! good luck :D