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boy and girl Drama!!!
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i am going out with this guy named Drew and my best friend Mariah is not friends with him and Mariah and drew both want to spend time with me and that is really hard at school. Mariah is in 3 of my classes and drew is not in any of my classes. Maraih and i have gooten in alot of fights lately cuz she thinks that i am not spending that much time with her. but i am. What should i do???
I feel really Sterched between them.
please help!!!
thanks
Strawberry
14/f
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I had this same problem my freshman year of highschool, it can be very difficult. You really have to think that boys may come and go, but girls remain forever. Try talking to both of them about it and try to get thme to get along. My best friend and I have learned how to work around it and try to get along with the others boyfriend.
Hope I Helped.
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your only 14 years old. boys come and go. a friendship could last you your whole school life and even longer. its very common for someone to get jelous when there friend starts dating someone. even if you arent spending less time with her, shes going to feel like you are. its human nature. just make sure you dont get to involved with drew and start dicthing mariah. once you start to ditch her it gets easier and easier and before you know it your not even friends anymore! if mariah cant seem to get along with drew just make sure you spend just as much time with her as you do him. and make sure she knows you still love having her as a friend and you would never leave her for some boy!
good luck!
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Im sure you have more than one friend...just make plans as if ur bf or Mariah was any other normal person...freinds last longer than boy friends just so you know, so dont go and pick the guy over the girl in this case. Hope i helped. -Dr.Drew
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hmm it is quite typical for best friends to get jealous when theyre best friend gets a boyfriend...they feel like theyre not as important and you care about the guy more than the friendship...so you just gotta tell her that thats not true...
now if you can honestly say you spend enough time with her then just explain to her how you feel you are being fair and are balancing your friendship and relationship just fine and that she should be okay with that...
however, alot of the times once a girl gets a bf she usually does tend to spend more time with him then her friends and even though she doesnt notice, her friends do...you may think you spend enough time with her when really, you might not be... managing time between your bf, school, and a best friend is going to be difficult but maybe designate a certain day or something thats meant for just you two...try to hang out with them equally and let her know that you still care about your friendship :)
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