Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


This guy i like--I'm15f


Question Posted Thursday May 22 2008, 7:59 pm

He's really nice and smart, but kind of quiet at times. He has a fun personality though and I guess most girls would not consider him "hot" but I like him for who he is. I want someone who I can relate to in a non superficial way, and someone who will help me grow as a person, and hopefully I can do the same for him. The thing is I only see him in one class and he probably does not suspect that I like him. I try to compliment him when I can and talk to him more, but I don't sit next to him so it's kind of hard to. And I don't hang out with him during lunch or outside of school. Basically I need some kind of a way to give him a hint before summer break. I won't see him all summer, so I want to plant some kind of seed in his mind that I like him so that when school starts again, we can hopefully talk more and become closer that way. Any ideas? Thanks =]

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?


Angelique answered Friday May 23 2008, 8:59 pm:
Do you know what he's interested in? If so approach him in the hall. Start by complimenting him, and then casually bring up something he's interested in, so the conversation can carry on. After that make sure sure you always say hey when you see. If all goes well, he wont forget you.

[ Angelique's advice column | Ask Angelique A Question
]




GilbertMar answered Friday May 23 2008, 3:38 pm:
Sweetheart, I can not tell you how much hope you have filled my heart with, hope that there are more of you out there.

I would have one piece of advice for you, choose your words wisely. Do not simply say "I like you", mixed signals if you know what I mean. The fact that you like him goes unsaid, tell him, "I would like to be your friend." Not, "I would like for you to be my boy friend."

Don't ever use hints with guys, we don't do hints well, we're kind of dumb that way. Make it clear for him what you want your relationship to be, never leave any doubt.

You make me feel proud inside, you are a diamond among coal, don't you EVER forget that.

[ GilbertMar's advice column | Ask GilbertMar A Question
]



looneytune1561 answered Friday May 23 2008, 9:34 am:
I think whenever you guys do talk you should exchange emails/myspaces/whatever that way he knows that your interested in talking to him more. Or you could just plain out tell him that you like him. Im taking a psychology class now and my teacher said that if you just say you like him theres a very high chance they will like you back.

[ looneytune1561's advice column | Ask looneytune1561 A Question
]



CaliforniaLover1111 answered Thursday May 22 2008, 11:10 pm:
hmm well i think you should just start talking to him more in your class if thats at all possible... otherwise i guess what about like facebook/myspace or texting? thats always a good way to ease into things because it makes it seem casual...and then from there the relationship can grow whether as friends or more :)

[ CaliforniaLover1111's advice column | Ask CaliforniaLover1111 A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: dying clothes black
Next Question >>> About a pulled appart love.

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker