He's really nice and smart, but kind of quiet at times. He has a fun personality though and I guess most girls would not consider him "hot" but I like him for who he is. I want someone who I can relate to in a non superficial way, and someone who will help me grow as a person, and hopefully I can do the same for him. The thing is I only see him in one class and he probably does not suspect that I like him. I try to compliment him when I can and talk to him more, but I don't sit next to him so it's kind of hard to. And I don't hang out with him during lunch or outside of school. Basically I need some kind of a way to give him a hint before summer break. I won't see him all summer, so I want to plant some kind of seed in his mind that I like him so that when school starts again, we can hopefully talk more and become closer that way. Any ideas? Thanks =]
GilbertMar answered Friday May 23 2008, 3:38 pm: Sweetheart, I can not tell you how much hope you have filled my heart with, hope that there are more of you out there.
I would have one piece of advice for you, choose your words wisely. Do not simply say "I like you", mixed signals if you know what I mean. The fact that you like him goes unsaid, tell him, "I would like to be your friend." Not, "I would like for you to be my boy friend."
Don't ever use hints with guys, we don't do hints well, we're kind of dumb that way. Make it clear for him what you want your relationship to be, never leave any doubt.
looneytune1561 answered Friday May 23 2008, 9:34 am: I think whenever you guys do talk you should exchange emails/myspaces/whatever that way he knows that your interested in talking to him more. Or you could just plain out tell him that you like him. Im taking a psychology class now and my teacher said that if you just say you like him theres a very high chance they will like you back. [ looneytune1561's advice column | Ask looneytune1561 A Question ]
CaliforniaLover1111 answered Thursday May 22 2008, 11:10 pm: hmm well i think you should just start talking to him more in your class if thats at all possible... otherwise i guess what about like facebook/myspace or texting? thats always a good way to ease into things because it makes it seem casual...and then from there the relationship can grow whether as friends or more :) [ CaliforniaLover1111's advice column | Ask CaliforniaLover1111 A Question ]
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