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So there's this guy I've been crazy about for like 3 years. We dated twice [once 2 years ago for a year and a month and then for 2 months and broke up on the 9th of this month]. After we broke up the first time, we stopped talking for 2 years and then out of nowhere he messages me and tells me he still loves me and wants to get back together with me. I wanted to be with him to. But now that we've broken up, he's a total ass to me and no matter how he treats me I can't get over him. I'm seriously in love with this guy. But everytime we broke up, he dumped me and started dating some other girl right after. Like right after. I want to get over him, since we both saw it best we stop talking to each other, but I also want to keep talking to him because I don't want to lose him again. He says he still loves me, but I don't know if I can believe that. Well, I already tried seeing him to sit down and talk, but he didn't want to see me in person. We talked online a couple weeks ago and he told me that even though he loves me, it's just not what it used to be. I feel like he hates me and that he doesn't actually care about me. I don't know if that's true and I wonder if he actually really cares about me or even thinks of me, but I don't want to ask him something like that since he's with someone else. Plus I don't want to get on his bad side by talking to him.
What do I do?
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so personally i think the best thing to do would be to stop talking to him for awhile...not just a day or two but just completely stop...and if he talks to you just ignore it or say that you cant talk right now. by showing him that youre not always going to be able to talk when he can it kind of will give him the impression that whoa shes acting like she doesnt need me anymore and that can be scary for a guy if he still loves you, even if hes with someone else. right now it seems like he knows that he has your wrapped around his finger and that you still love him and that youre going to stick around and he probably likes that feeling of control, he can date another girl but at the same time he still has you. so yeah id take like a week or two of just not talking to him...and clear your head and keep telling yourself that you are going to be alright even if he is no longer a part of your life. you have to do whats best for you and sometimes that is just letting go.
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