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akward ?
okay. so me and my x boyfriend talked on the
phone every night for about 2 weeks. and i was
really starting to fall for him and care for him.
now today i went back to school from spring break
and his friend wants us to hook back up, so he wanted me to sit with my x at lunch today. i didnt
want to make it weird so i sat with my friend
across the table from my x next to my x's other
friend. okay now i was sitting right there right were i can hear everything they are saying. and my best friend walked by him and he whistled that whew whew. thing. and i acted like it didnt bother me and i just kept talking to my other friend. okay and he knows me and my best friend are best friends so i know he did it just to piss me off. now after lunch we have 7th and 8th period together. and i was talking to him and being nice. and his friend that was trying to hook us up sits next to me in this class. and his friend used to liike me. so i guess this made my
x the one i am talking to get mad. or something. so i was talking to the guy that sits next to me
and we were acting like we always do. but you could tell it bothered him. and my x the one im talking to now acted like i wasent shit to him today, i kept asking him what was wrong and i was
trying to see what i did wrong and see why he was mad and then tells me to get up and get everything he drops and get up and ask the teacher things he didnt know. okay and after this incident today i was all upset after school. so i was going to call
him and ask why he acted all different today [he is usually a really sweet guy] but when i went to
call him and talk to him. his friend prank calls me and also treats me like shit. and i can hear my x in the backround so i know he was with him. but okay i dont want to act like i care. but i cant help it. i feel now like ive wasted my time talking to my x when i could have been talking to another guy. so tell me what do i do. sorry for the length. but thanks in advancee. (:
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Be honest with him and yourself. I personally think that you've already figured it out..you said quote "I feel now like ive wasted my time talking to my x when i could have been talking to another guy." If you want to make it work with him, be straight with him. Tell him that you are tired of the games. Tell him that you need to know where you both stand. If he does not want to be in a relationship with you (or chooses not to admit it) then cut contact with him. Move on. I'm sure you are a beautiful girl who can get a lot better! Yes it's true you should follow your heart, but you were given those other senses for a reason. Use them! Watch how he acts, listen to what he says, pay close attention to your instincts! Good luck girl!
<3 Leslie
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hmm...well you should figure out whether or not you really like him and want to make an effort in getting over this stupid situation with him...because we all know guys think very highly of themselves so he probably wont be the first one to say anything so its just something you should bring up and discuss with him and tell him you did not appreciate the way he treated you...
now if you think you're ready to move on from your ex then just get over him, dont talk to him, dont call him dont even acknowledge him... because once he sees that you dont care about him (and if he really does like you) then he'll most likely indicate to you in one way or another that he wants you back or something...that he really does care about his relationship with you whether as a friend or more than that!
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