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Guy trouble please help
Well theres me and this guy and were kinda like best friends but with benefits i think. Hes a year older than me and im not quite sure if i have feelings for him, i think i might though. We have had conversations before like how he said nothing more than friends would work out right now and i asked if it ever would and he said yeah maybe. We talk every night on the phone and hang out every weekend, we have only made out though.
Im not shure quite what we are and if we will ever be more than friends & idk if i feel comfortable asking him, what should i do ?
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before doing anything, discover how your feelings are. if you like him as more than a friend, then you should find out what you are. if you don't, then i would just stop making out with him, unless you're both okay with there being no meaning behind it. if you do like him, and you are scared about asking him straight up, then hint around to another guy liking you, see if hes okay with it. ask him if hes alright with it. or you could just take the easiest approach and ask him. thats what i would do. that way you can say you tried. ask him how he feels about you, and if the makeout sessions were just lacking emotion and if you are just friends that mess around. with whatever answer he gives you, let him know how you feel about it. if you're comfortable with just making out and no feelings being there, then keep doing it. if he tells you that they mean nothing, and you don't feel the same way, let him know how you feel. don't hold things back, it'll just make things worse.
good luck :D
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well first you need to actually figure out if you really, truly have feelings for him...because you said you think you might but you need to know for sure... and then i think the only thing you can do is ask him about it...for all you know he could really just be using you...but talking to him about is just something you need to do, its something you deserve to know...because you dont need to be waiting around for something that may never happen...and you dont want to just give up and always wonder what could have been...so just be like hey i need to talk to you about something...and then just bring it up...you deserve to know
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