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for a while now i have been getting really horny and all i want is for someone to eat me out. like i am almost tempted to ask some random neighbor hood boy to eat me out and i dont even talk to him. so should i go for it? or should i try to fight the feeling? and also how can i fight the feeling?
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It's actually the law until a person turns 18 that it's illegal to engage in any sexual activity. It's a rare fact that moderators are asking us to point out. But, it's your decision and we can't stop you, we can only advise you.
When it comes to sexual activity of any kind you definitely want it to be with someone who loves and cares for you. It's more than a physical thing it's the emotional connection that matters, your maturity and being ready.
You have your whole life to engage in this or any other sexual activity. Don't rush it and definitely don't pick someone at random. Why? Well, they have no respect for you (and vice-versa you for yourself) and may have STDs etc. You never know where people have been and what they did in the past. Don't make it your problem.
It's fine to be curious about this which in your case is really what's fueling the desire and interest to try it. You should wait until you are with the right person. The safest thing to do is decrease your sex drive, urges, tension through masturbation as that can't get you into a bad situation.
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talk to your friends and even family even your mom would understand your feelings..
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If I were you, Id go for it dont fight it.
I would be concerened if it was more than just that. You cant really get and STD from only eating out.
And you get pleased in the process.
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I think this is a very very bad idea. You really don't know where this person has been or them at all for that matter. They could have an STD or they could take advantage of you in some way. I think that you should just fight the feeling or maybe masterbate more often, maybe that will cure the craving.
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your best bet is to not allow some random guy to eat you out, he may be carrying tons of random diseases.
masturbation is a good form of helping this urges. try maturbating with a shower head, or letting the water run over your clitoris while you're in the bathtub, that may give you the same stimulations as being ate out would.
being ate out isn't completely enjoyable either, some boys are unsure of what they are doing & just barely do anything, and some may even scrap their teeth against your skin, ouch.
maybe finding a trustworthy & clean boyfriend can also help these feelings.
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Try to distract yourself or something don'tjust grab some random that's the definition of slut mate.
Try masterbating heard it helps.
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Young adults and teenagers tend to have strong sexual urges as their hormones go crazy during maturity. Inside you know that what you're feeling isn't acceptable or you wouldn't have suggested fighting the urges.
The media is telling younger and younger generations that sexual activity makes them famous, popular, attractive, wealthy, well-liked, and feel-good. This is not true at all and if you and your partner aren't educated enough about sexual activity then it's pretty much a waste of time and can leave you with emotional insecurities.
Having sexual relations is a major thing. It puts you in a very vulnerable state. You are risking STD/STI transmission along with emotional, physical, and mental hang-ups to develop.
Just because your hormones and the media are telling you to do it, it doesn't mean it's right and acceptable. Your virginity (in all ways) should be a very valuable thing that should be cherished. Once you engage in sexual activity, you cannot take it back. If something bad happens, things get out of hand, or you catch something from the activity you cannot magically pretend it didn't happen.
Here is a list of 25 reasons why you shouldn't engage in sexual activity/lose your virginity. I understand that you may be dead set on engaging in sexual activities but it's still something interesting to read and to think about:
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Oral sex can lead to various STDs and STIs. Here is a link of STD facts you'd be shocked to realize:
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STDs/STIs can really screw up a person's body. They may develop a life-long illness they must live with and suffer through. They may carry it for years, passing it on to partner to partner without realizing it--harming other's lives. They may just end up passing it on to their offspring as well (which can cause the baby to have defects). It's even possible for people with certain STDs/STIs to become infertile.
Along with engaging in oral sex, you will be pressured to go further. Here is a site of photos of what STDs have done to the bodies of various people. It's important to be informed about these things before engaging in sexual activities so please check them out. The photos of are mostly of males (some females though) and they are behind different links so you're able to choose which ones you'd like to see:
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Having pre-martial sexual relations degrades the value of yourself. You simply think that giving your body to other people isn't a "big deal" anymore. Before you know it, you've racked up partner after partner, trying to find the thing you feel you're missing.
That thing you would be missing would simply be security from a partner and the right amount of knowledge. Married couples never worry about catching an STD from their partner because they know they're their only partner, they don't worry so much if a baby occurs because they know they will have each others support in it's rearing, there are no worries of being left or just being used for sexual pleasure. Married couples are also able to communicate to their partner what exactly they are desiring and by being knowledgeable and comfortable by their marriage they are able to please their partner completely. By waiting until marriage, you put yourself in a position of comfort and security. You don't have the same hang-ups as the teenagers now have or are developing.
Masturbation has always been an option that is much safer than including another body into things. Many teenagers and young adults aren't informed enough to understand techniques of good sexual encounters anyway. Many young people do not take the time to fully research (not engage in; I mean study) things enough to be "good" at them so, really, masturbating might give you a better sensation than engaging in activities with another person.
Please make the right decision before rushing into things. Get yourself completely informed of EVERYTHING before engaging in ANYTHING. You don't want to suddenly be in a position you know nothing about and end up being in a scary predicament later on.
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You fight a feeling by NOT feeding the feeling.
That means ignoring it, distracting yourself, and using your willpower to stop obsessing.
We are not slaves to our feelings. They are useful tools and guides, not hard facts. Unless you are mentally ill you can master your desire and do what you know it rational.
In this case, it would be rational to NOT go about asking random guys to perform oral sex on you...
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I agree with below..I don't recommend just grabbin' any ole' guy up..it's likely to lead to something more and what if he doesn't come prepared, ya know?
Yep, self gratification..that's the way you should go. Take care of your own needs and you'll be al'right *smile*..in fact, at this point, it will probably be more satisfying...really..cause you know what you need much more than a stranger would!
Just dim the lights, crawl under the covers and get lost in your imagination.
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personally i dont think you should go get a random guy to do it to you... i mean yes it would be nice but i just dont think thatd be good to do...thats my opinion though! what about just masturbating? or does that not help you fight the feeling??? :/ haha good luck though i know it must be tough
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