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2 things
when i shave my under arms it is never completely smooth and if it is then i can still sorta see the black hair under the skin, i guess its the best way to describe it what can i do?
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the hair on my underarms and legs grows fast
like i need to shave every day to keep it 100% smooth but the most i can go is like 3-4 days in the summer. why is that and is there anything i can do besides waxing and lasers? (link)
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I think its the same for most women. I also have to shave every day for my legs and underarms to be completely smooth. Its the best you can do, unless you want to go to a beauty salon and get a wax. It shouldnt grow back as fast, should take a long longer than a day to grow back. But waxing doesnt feel good lol but at least you can be nice and smooth :P
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I have a big brother who's the type that never admits when he's wrong. In an argument, even if it's blatantly obvious that he's wrong, and even with other people in the room telling him that he's wrong, he will never admit it. He condemns me for trying to defend myself, and will even use hateful and hurtful words to try to win the argument. I try desperately not to let it bother me, but he gets me so angry and frustrated, I can't even get my words out correctly, and then he uses that to his advantage and brings me to my knees. I need help! (link)
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Most men are like this, doesnt matter what the age.
Especially when they're young men. He'll hopefully grow up, but just try to ignore him. Boys always have to be right, and you'll learn this and soon come to terms with it. It happens very often... its not common at all. I guess men just have big egos. There were things my brother have said to me, that he hasn't even apologized for it yet, and maybe he never will. But I'm sure it hurts him everyday. Especially because hes a minister now. I wish you the very best.
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15/f
I know that at this point, not a lot of people know what they want to do, or what college they want to go to, but I would really like to start getting an idea.
I am very interested in the arts, you know? Theatre, music, art... but I know how unstable and risky jobs connected to those can be. You know? I dont want to be an aspiring actress or something going from audition to audition as my job.
I also like working with kids, handicapped, or elementary I guess.
I am very interested in psychology and the human brain, I wanted to be a psychologist or maybe a therapist, but I really don't know the difference too well, and would I have to go to medical school for that?
If any one has any job ideas they think I would be good for, any colleges with good programs that might work for me, or whatever you can tell me. Any answers are appreciated.
Thanks
Elise (link)
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Same here :)
Here is a link to different types of jobs in mental health (so you can see the differences between all of them, and you can choose what you like):
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/mental-health/MH00074
As far as going to medical school for medical school, are you talking about just regular medical school? If you are, then I highly doubt it. Because a psychologist is a different type of doctor. Mental health :)
also, think about school counselor, caregiver, child psychologist or child psychiatrist.
Sorry about not knowing too much, I'm still learning as well lol
I'm hoping to go to college really soon :)
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I want to get my tongue pierced. But Im scared it my hurt. I have my navel...but that didnt hurt at all. I heard you cant talk right after...and your only aloud to drink not eat...also that it burns even when you eat spicy food it all this true...oh yeah and about not being able to talk right...how long will that last? (link)
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I already got my tongue pierced, and had it in for 2 or 3 years before taking it out. When I went to get my tongue pierced, I was scared too (I was barely 17 when I got mine), so I asked the guy that was piercing my tongue if it would hurt. It does hurt, but not that bad. I didn't even cry, although my eyes watered, but I wasn't screaming in pain with tears coming down my face. And trust me, I'm HORRIBLE with pain. I know some people take pain differently, but just telling you that I was just fine. And yes, you're right about not being able to talk for awhile, same with eating solid foods. So, you may want to prepare for that lol
Although, I ate solid foods anyways, just tried to be careful. People do weird things with their tongue when eating (I figured that one out the hard way :P). But you should be fine. I heard drinking pineapple juice helps the swelling in your tongue and helps the healing process, but I also heard it was not that great tasting, and that it goes bad easily. But the healing process should take 2-3 weeks, maybe more.
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How do you say CHINATSU?
If you know how to speak japanese it would be great to know. Thanks. (link)
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Chi-not-sooo
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Okay, so its been a while since I asked a question, and this time its not about relationships. I'm on the Pill now, called Microgynom or something like that. I have a few questions to ask about the Pill. Firstly, today I will have been taking it for two weeks - my GP says, if I have not missed one for these two weeks it will be safe commencing these two weeks to have unprotected sex without the risks of getting pregnant, or very little. I understand there is never one hundred percent protection against becoming pregnant, but as I have been taking it now for the required time, what are my risks of getting pregnant (if I do not mix it with the added protection of a condom which I will be doing for a while anyway, but say if one was not to hand, what would my risks be?)?
Also, I know the Pill provides no protection against the passing on of STI's, but me and my partner had never even kissed anyone else before we met, were virgins when we first slept together, and had never had any sexual contact with other people. I know this for a fact (besides, I am 15, nearly 16, and he is 16 - we met while he was 15 and I was 14), so I'm 100 percent certain he didn't contract STDs from anyone else, and there's none in his family or mine. Is there any chance he could pause on an STI to me, or me to him, in these circumstances? (And yes, I am one hundred percent certain).
Another question related to the dreaded time of the month. The pill is supposed to shorten periods although it causes spotting sometimes, I recognise. I started, as instructed, taking the pill on the first day of my period and have been taking it ever since, but my period was much longer than usual. It lasted about a week and half - has this been heard of before? I presumed it was just because I was only just starting the course, and my period from then on will be much lighter. (My sister suffered the same way when she started taking it).
Is that normal?
Thanks very much, any help or answers to these questions are appreciated.
Please don't mention my age, in Britain, I'm only three weeks away from becoming legally allowed to have sex and my GP and parents know anyway. I know what I'm getting myself into.
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Without a condom, the pill is about 98% effective, but you cant take any other meds, skipping a pill or being ill, can cause the pill to be less effective.
I recommend using a condom though, just to be safe ;)
There are other ways to pass STDs to the other person. You could simply touch someone's blood to catch it, kiss or touch someone or eat or drink after someone to catch herpes. So it doesnt matter if someone has had sex. There's no such thing as being too careful.
Now the spotting question... it seems likely since it not only happened to you, but your sis as well, and the fact that its only spotting... sounds ok, but 'shortens' periods sounds odd.... i would check with your doctor on that, or ask your mom.
I understand that youre from Britain and you said not to mention your age... but trust me, you have no idea what youre getting yourself into. Im not trying to be rude in any way, believe me.
Having sex isn't the greatest thing in the world, and it isn't worth the trouble and the stress of a child yet. Once you meet "Mr. Right", you're going to regret having sex....trust me, that was MY mistake. lol
So please dont think of me trying to control you, i just dont want you going through the heartache i suffered.
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15/ F/ Virginia, US
School starts this fall and Im your plain Jane I guess;; one or two best friends, annoying quite critical overprotective older brother, and Im always having a bad hair day. Welll I wanna be a scene kid. Theyre so confident and always absolutely stunning but Im not allowed to dye my hair. My moms always been OCD about it. No joke! And no odd piercings. Thats my brothers rule.
But around here you dont see girls with ginormous hair teased in all directions looking like they survived some big crayola bomb.
The hair IS cut with a side bang, some fringe, little bows, skinny jeans are a necessity, but I guess they mostly dress...indie/boho/beachy chic? I dont know. Any tips on how NOT to be a poser would be appreciated.
Please no rude remarks
if you cant type anything nice, then dont type it at all :D (link)
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Well, theyre are some 'scene' hairstyles that you dont have to dye your hair to do. Although, even if you wanted to dye it, you could always have the hair dye that comes out in one wash. Also, try to talk to your mom about this, your brother as well.
Explain to them (nicely) that youre growing up, and you should be able to experiment with your style. Its not like youre doing drugs or getting drunk every night. Tell them youre almost 18 and that you doing this regardless, and you need her support. Say 'It will grow back out, and the color will either fade or your original hair color will come back once it grows out. Say its not like it will be there forever, unless you want it done again. Try to be civil and try to have you mom listen to you. Tell her you need her and need her to listen. Tell her that you need her support. Maybe that will get her to listen.
However, wait on the piercings. Got my tongue pierced and wound up taking it out. :P
Just think about it, before considering too much into it.
Hopefully I helped :)
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are there any cheats for ratchet and clank:locked and loaded for ps2
if you know were i can find them could you please either paste them in your answer or paste the url into your answer
thanks in advance
btw my question is only under computers cause there is nothin else to put
i want the ps2 version plz (link)
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http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=cheats+for+ratchet+and+clank%3A+locked+and+loaded+cheats+PS2&btnG=Search
Here you go. Hope this helped :)
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Alright, I am about 5'2 , and I weigh over 150. Yes I know I need to lose weight. But here is my question,
- I have a treadmill, and I was wondering If I ran about an hour everyday on it, would I lose weight ?
- I'm looking to lose all of it in my legs & stomach.
- I DON'T eat healthy. I don't like salads or most healthy food, so don't tell me to eat healthy.
- Sits up never seem to work for me. But I do them probably three times a week.
- Please help me here. I don't have enough money to go buy a new machine to work out with, and cardio I could try but I don't think I will enjoy it.
Please answer all of my questions. Thanks in advance. (link)
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This is based on my own knowledge and advice a lot of people give me. But thats not too big. Not in my opinon anyways. It also depends on your age though as well.
-Well, the treadmill should help your legs gain muscle and lose the tummy weight as well. An hour should be plenty of time. But instead of everyday, cut it down to maybe three times.
-This should help wonders as well.
http://health.yahoo.com/experts/joybauernutrition/1819/8-foods-that-help-you-lose-weight
Also, you can go a little without soda cant you? Because if you cut down and start drinking a LOT of water (or just when youre thirsty) then you can lose a lot, and it can even clear your skin up as well. Salads dont help you lose weight, those can make you gain a lot of weight because of the amount of fat in it. Instead, eat a nice breakfast, maybe one sandwich during lunch, then dinner. If you get hungry any time between any of the three major meals, you can always eat one fruit or a small snack. (read the back for details), try things that are low in carbs, calories and sugars... im probably missing a few, but just be careful what you eat. Oh, and dont eat when you are full or until you are full. This also helps with weight gain, and try to eat before 8:00 or 7:00pm. One more thing, if you try to cut meals down, this should work wonders as well.
-Sit ups will definitely help the stomach weight and for you. You're doing wonderful with these.
-You can always try cardio. If you dont like it, some of the above things could help. :)
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hey i would like to know the steps to applying for a green card,i tried to get them off google and its really confusing me lol my brother is an 11 year old american citizen and it says that you can get the green card through a family member that is a citizen.Im really confused and i need to apply to it as sooon as possible cuz this stuff can take up to a year!!any help is VERY much appreciated and thanks for your time =D (link)
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Here you go sweety! sorry no one else decided to help you earlier. Hope this helps :)
10 steps to getting your Green Card
http://www.yourimmigrationcenter.com/cardsteps.html
FAQ
http://immigration.lawyers.com/Immigration-Green-Card-FAQs.html
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i'm having hard troubles trying to get guys to like me what should i do i need some advice
love,can't get a guy (link)
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be yourself. if he doesnt like you the way you are, then there will be other guys. I know this doesnt sound good right now, but you'll soon know what im talking about. ;)
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14/f
lately, i've been thinking about cutting my hair short. Not TO short, like in between my chin and shoulders, in some spiky scene kid style. and then getting long extensions for school and stuff. Would this be a bad idea? it's just sometimes, I HATE having long hair, and I think it would be MUCH easier to just chop it off and have "removable hair" ha ha. Ok, I know basically zip about extensions. I know you clip them in but do they STAY clipped in all day? Will they feel secure, and not loose? Also, I need some really long ones, like to the bottom of your rib cage, mid-torso? But I need them to be human hair (so I can dye and straighten it) and really cheap :) I know i'm asking for a LOT but it would help me out a bunch! Thanks!!!
-also, I play volleyball, so would I be able to wear them during games and practice, or should I take them off? Thanks! (link)
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As far as 'chopping your hair off', it depends on what your face looks like... it sounds stupid, but sometimes people look better with other styles. It depends on if it suits you, so, only you know for sure.
but everything else, you should go to a hair salon because it depends on what you want. And if you talk to them about what you want, it will be way easier, because some people may know what theyre talking about. So just to be safe, you should check with a hair stylist.
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ok im wanting a black/white tat of a yin-yang surrounded by sunburst, but i cant find a pic on the internet cna ne one help? (link)
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Try these. These are all yin yang tatts. They have more than one page, so you should find something.
http://www.tattoojohnny.com/search.asp?k=yin%20yang&page=8
However, if none of these are good enough, go to a tattoo parlor and have them draw it up for you or look it up on the internet. Theyre really good with finding tattoos that are hard to find ;)
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Names Gina, 15.f. Ill get straight to the point..Theres this guy(17 yrs old) and I started talking to him at the beginning of july. I realize that it has not been a long time since we have started talking. He was apparently engaged before..But i think she left him for another guy. Well anyways, I keep bringing her up and he started crying once on the phone with me..I really try not to bring her up but its involuntary. Any suggestions? (link)
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I agree with snickerzz11. Just tell him you'll always be there for him, no matter what the problem is and just try your best to make him happy and/or laugh so his mind isnt concentrating on her.
Maybe then he'll talk about it on his own.
Good luck
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I need some more music.
Anyone know any bands that are like Iron Maiden, Iced Earth, Dimmu Borgir, Children Of Bodom, Slayer, Bring Me The Horizon or in general any good Metal Bands.
Please no Def Leppard, emo music, Deftones or Killswitch Engage.
Hate those bands (no offense to people who do like them)
Thankyou! (link)
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personally, my favorite band is Slipknot. You will either love them or hate them, but im sure there are some songs that you may like. Dont just listen to one song and give up. Every album is different. Check it out.
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i want to get a hip piercing.
ok i wnat to know the good things and bad things about getting it.?
i heard you can get really bad and ugly scars.?is that true.?
can you please tell me what are the good and bad things that can happen if you get it.?
Thanks. :] (link)
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Got to a tattoo/body piercing parlor. They should know and the advice should be free. All i can say
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I'm tired of living with my parents. They don't let me do anything! I'm never allowed to go to any of my friends house, I'm not allowed to just walk around my neighborhood, I can't have a boyfriend, and now there talking shit about all my friends. Like they said one of my friends is a slut and that I can't hang out with her anymore. My mom thinks I'm cutting myself. My dad has called me a slut and skank before. And my dad is touching me in sexual ways. Like the other day he grabbed my butt. I got so freaked out that I started crying and I ran into my room. Oh and I just recently discoverd that I was a mistakein my family... I wasn't supposed to be born! and all my mom and dad care about are my brother and sister...because my brother is going into the marines soon and they want to be with and around him and spend all there time with him. and then my sister has a disability that affects her walking.... i mean i understand they have to watch out for her but they could pay attention to me a little bit more. I mean i am apart of the family right?? WHAT DO I DO??? What can I do? Is there any way that I can live with someone else? and I'm so scared that one day there gonna hit me....they have come close to it. and I don't wanna talk about the situation with them because they wont understand....so please dont leave that as a option!
thanks in advance
-cuttechick24 (link)
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yeah, you would be able to if you would like to. Or get an emancipation from your parents.
This is about emancipation:
http://www.larcc.org/pamphlets/children_family/teen_emancipation.htm
Hopefully that helps. Tell the judges what your dad did, and how they treat you, and maybe they'll allow it.
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i actually have no boobs & I can't stand it
is there anyway they could grow quicker? Please don't say they'll grow in time ra ra, because I'm 16 and i don't really need a bra...So please ! what can i do? (link)
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sorry, but there is no way :(
other than waiting.
but if you dont want to do that, or you are still having problems, then get breast implants if you are that concerned, although, I wouldnt personally do that, because there are risks to take and because im sure youre beautiful the way you are
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I feel stupid. All the time. Embarrassed, unworthy. You name it. I have such low self esteem. And all my friends are just so perfect. They have perfect hair, perfect bodies, perfect social life, perfect boyfriends. In fact, I don't even know why they are friends with me at all. And I'm not jealous of them. That's so not a part of any of this. This has to do with me. I'm just saying that being surrounded by them just seems to make my life seem even worse.
I can't seem to do anything right. I mess up every friendship I have. My parents told me it's because I always drop everything if there's a friend in need. I support my friends to the extreme. They always take priority. This is because I don't want them to think I'm not a very good friend because I don't want them dumping me again and again and again. But, they never reciprocate the level of support that I give them. I just, can't seem to...do anything. I'm so stupid for even having friends. So so stupid. I shouldn't have any, because I'm selfish for expecting them to show their support for anything that I do. I feel as though I don't deserve their support, but I have to keep giving mine to them because I feel like they deserve it. I don't deserve it. I don't know why I would. They've made it pretty clear that I don't deserve anything from them.
Sorry if this is confusing. It's late, and I'm tired. But this all made sense in my head. It's just harder to get it out on paper...well, computer screen. Whatever. (link)
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first off, dont feel stupid. You can't help the way you feel inside. I bet youre beautiful. cant really say because i dont have a pic, but you sound like a very beautiful person on the inside. I feel a lot like you. My self esteem is low too. And dont think that because your friendships dont always stay together that its YOUR fault. That is a very good trait for a friend to have. If they wish to take advantage of that, or decide to look for other friends, then thats their deal. its THEIR loss. They're missing out on a special friend. You have every right to feel upset for your 'friends' dumping and using you. You deserve their full support and a 'thank you' for being there for them. It's THEM that dont deserve you. You are a sweet girl, and in time you'll find out outer beauty isnt what makes the world go around, its love, friendship and inner beauty. In the end, I think most men would rather date an ugly woman, and have a kind heart than a beautiful one and them having a cold, and cruel heart. Not saying youre ugly, but im sure you get what im trying to say. I wish you the very best.
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so i was dating this guy for 8 months and 3 of them he was in new york because his mom sent him away. his mom really hates me and i don't have a clue why? everytime he would call me from her phone and not call private she changes the number. when he was away he found out his ex girlfriend was prego with his baby and was fine with it until he got back. we hung out for like three weeks and then he broke up with me out of the blue. i ran away with him and the whole thing is quite confusing so i wont explain everything. anyways all of his friends are telling him he doesn't need me, and that i'm just a distraction when he should be worrying about his baby. i really love him. i mean if i didn't i wouldn't have stayed with him while he was gone for 3 months. i have tried everything to get back together with him and it just wasn't working so i gave up and started hanging out with this other kid, and he (my ex) doesn't know. but the other night he called me and said he missed me and wanted to get back together but i don't want to hurt this other kid what do i do? (link)
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stay with the new guy you met. It may be hard on you for awhile, but if he chooses his friends opinions above his own, then he isnt right for you. He should be able to make his own decisions, and his mom probably doesnt like you because he is a "momma's boy". It probably doesnt have anything to do with you, shes just overprotective (maybe?)
but he has a kid, and his mom is unwilling to let her 'baby' to grow up. so it isnt worth the trouble. there are plenty of better men out there.
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