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We've been broken up for 5 months, he hates me
I went out with this guy a while ago, and we went out for about 6 months, which was my first real "relationship". I'd dated a lot of guys, but he was special. I broke up with him because...I guess at the time I was just tired of his over-protectiveness. Now I see he just loved me. The thing is, I thought that by breaking up with him, I'd get a new start. Dating new people, since I hadn't dated in a while. I was really excited. I guess I just THOUGHT I got over him at the time. Currently, we are both going out with someone. Unfortunately, after the break up, he suddenly decided he hated me because I moved on so quickly. I want him back. A lot. I know it will be nearly impossible to get him back, but I'm willing to do anything. Next year, both of the people we're currently dating are going to a different school. We've been broken up and he's hated me for about 5 months. We haven't talked at all, I tried to email an appoligy to him, but he wouldn't reply. I know he hates me, but I would do anything to get him back. I really think I actually love him. I just don't know how to do any od this. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend, but I've been thinking more and more about my ex. I had a thought that I could wait until the end of the year and next year, start all over. We could start taling again, and see where it goes. But I'm not sure if I can wait that long. And I don't know if he'll attempt a long distance relationship with his girlfriend. I just need help. No specific question, just advice on what I should do. It kills me when he glares at me. I don't know how to deal. Thanks.
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well you definitely shouldnt sit back and do nothing and you shouldnt wait either! try talking to him again...email, text, call or even in person if you can! just be like i really need to talk to you and i understand you dont want to talk to me but there is something i need to tell you. hopefully he'll respond and let you say what you need to say. but, he may not respond the way you would like him to. he could still really have feelings for you but act like he still hates you and there is no chance. he could be like oh yeah i want to be with you too. or he could really have moved on.
just explain to him that you need to know if there is a chance for you two in the future because once he gives you an answer to that (even if it is no) then at least you'll know and it will make the moving on process a lot easier because right now you dont know how he feels. once you know for certain how he feels... things should be a little more clearer as to waht you should do. just dont give up :) whatevers meant to be will always find a way!
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If you see him then try and get talking to him again, alot of things could of changed in 5 months of not speaking, so the first thing to do is to try and get talking again.
Tell him how you feel and that you still have feelings for him and ask if he has feelings for you.
If you know his number then ring him or text him.
I dont really know what else to suggest but to try and get talking to him again. Try emailing him again saying how much you miss him and ask him to reply.
Good luck with everything hun.
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