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I really need advice.
Well every guy i date wants to have sex with me
but im really scared and want to wait till i find the right guy or im married and they dump me should i just give it up to them?
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well if ur scaerd dont have sexy wait tell you find the right guy
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you should definitely not have sex if your not ready. If those guys dump you then obviously they aren't the right one. You want to find the right guy so do that and if they keep dumping you then obviously they aren't the right ones. Because if you have sex with them when you are not ready you might regret it. so please don't do something just to please others if you are not ready yet.
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no no no ... that just shows they only want one thing. in your pants . you have the right idea. because when you meet the right guy he will under stand and want you happy and respect the fact that that is your choice. keep up the good work hun:D
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NO!! Do not give up something as sacred as your virginity to someone who just wants to get in your pants. Especially if you aren't ready. If a guy really cares about you then he will wait, but if he is just going to dump you over it then they aren't worth it in the first place.
Hope I Helped!
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hell no if the guys only want to date you for your sex then they aint the kind of guy you want. i think you are right with saving yourself for the right guy.just keep your legs closed and your heart open.
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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okay part of your question was good. the last half was dumb. don't give it up to them.
obviously.
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okay hope i helped lol
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dont be stupid girl, if all a boy wants is sex then forget him and move on 2 the next, maybe you will find a guy who wants you for you dont give it up cuz the want it ok be smart****gossipchic
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If you have to ask yourself such a ridiculous question, you shouldn't even be dating. You should be in a convent.
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No. Once your virginity's gone, it's gone. and you'll most likely regret it if you just give it to anyone.
No one should pressure you into doing it. You should do it when you feel completely comfortable and you're 100% ready. Not to mention they WOULDN'T dump you if you said "no". If they do - they're not the right guy for you.
Just wait.
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NO! don't give it to him just because he wants it. Don't let any guy push you into anything until you're ready. If he leaves you because of it, then he's not worth being with anyway. Sorry to say it. Hope I helped.
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NO. Stay stronger sister.
That was about the lamest thing I've ever said, but I mean it. ;]
Don't do something just because a guy wants you to. Don't rush into something you're not comfortable with. I would dump these guys, because the one that's worth it, is one who respects you and your values and will wait until you are ready.
-Laura. (15-f)
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Don't give it up to someone unless you are truly ready. If those guys really did like you they would give you time to get ready to have sex and they would still be with you. They're prolly just trying to get some. So wait until you're ready
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If they leave because you won't have sex with them,
they are not worth having as a boyfriend. If they
really cared they would wait and not insist it
be sex or nothing. So you are doing just the right
thing by NOT giving it up to them. These same guys
will leave you when they get what they want anyway.
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no i think you shouldnt just give it up to them because thats all they want from you and if you just give it to them theyll have what the wanted and leave you... i think you should wait for that special someone or wait untill your ready xoxox gossipbabe i hope you make the right decision
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You should defenetly wait until YOU are ready for it. Even if you love the guy, he can't pressure you into sex.
Explain to the guys what your views on sex and so on are, and if the guy is a good guy, who cares about you, he will respect your opinion, and he should be able to accept a sexless commitment.
So, don't do it, until you know you are 100% ready, and you trust the guy.
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