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hey my name is Alexa! everyone calls me Lexie. i live in Tennesse and love to cheer. i love to give advice to people cause i think i can really change some things. i know i mite be young but i can really help. you can ask me anything you ever want! if u want u can im me anytime you want. i am always on most of the time. well hope i help yall!!!

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my mother is abussive she curse me and i dont like even comming home becuase she is like that her husband is a crack head and is lways in and out of jail please tell me what to do i just turned 16 and i live in georgia plese help

wow. you need to stay with a friend for a little while (one you can trust) like your best friend.
tell her what is going on you need to call the police about it cause nothing will get better.
i know no one would want to turn there mom in but if it comes to hurting someonne it could come to killing them (not trying to scare you)
but you need to get some help.

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hi. i am 15 years old and have not got my first period...my boyfriend wants to have sex...but idk what would happen...is that horribly bad if i havent got my first period yet
PLEASE help i rate 5s!
despretly confuxed

its actually good. cause if you dont have a period you cant get pregnant nothing would happen at all cause you dont have any blood.
its not your fault seriously about when you get your period he will deal with it.

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Ok...
there is this guy that i like. and i he doesn't know that i like him at all. and i hunt with him. and were just friends. and i love him very much. how should i drop hints to him that i like him a lot. or what should i do????

just start flirting a whole bunch!
call him more.
talk to him at school a lot
and then just tell him

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well she likes me, but shes 12. and im 16, so thats a dead no, but something keeps nagging at me..... like this morning 1 changed clothes like 4 times because i didnt know what shed like.... and im not like this. and the daughter, well rebecca shes really cute and all, but shes 12 and the principals daughter, i know this seems so wrong but i dunno...i really dont know what to do and this is a first time that i really dont know what to do next.

well....theres not much you can do really.
1)talk to her and go out (come on age doesnt matter its just a number)
2) just get over it and move on and try to get your mind off her.

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I know you probably can't answer this but, I am sad and I feel depressed I mean I have great parents, a great boyfriend, and semi-cool friends and I'm popular but I always feel sad like I have these friends but I dont really belong how do u feel belonged and not sooo depressed, sorry if this is confusing but please if u can please help

well you just need to be around people that you can trust and be able to talk about anything and your probably in one of those friendships with like 2 other girls and there better friends i had that situation like that and you just either have to start communicating more or just find better friends that wont leave you out. ive had times were ive been sad and deppresed and you just have to live through it. just thiink about the good things in your life

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OK this might sound nasty but i need help. Ok listen im really worried. OK im 15, I've had sex before right, and i had sex 7 times and 3 outta those times i didn't use protection. I haven't had sex w/ out a condom since the summer. So Like last month i started to notice this wierd smell down there.. it don't smell nasty like fish or anything..but i don't know what it is and i can smell it a lot.. I don't know what it could be!?! if anyone knows please help...I'LL RATE 5s !!!!

its probably discarge because if you have sex your discharge is worse and it tends to have a smell to it.

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theres this guy that im friends with and i like him a lot like more then jus a friend. we have a few classes together, i no i can talk to him if i have a problem and well say hi to each other in the hall what should i do??

well if you talk to him on the fone just start talking to him more. and at school stop and start converastions. if you have aim and he does just say your a friend and see what he thinks about you! that always is a good one.
or just come out and tell him how you feel

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Who sings "IM SPRUNG"?? Please help me out here!

t pain

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I broke up with my boyfriend because his grandma never lets him do anything with me. A friend told me he's taking it really hard and it makes me feel bad. I want to give in and go back out but it's hard. What should I do?

if you really like him you will go back to him.
if you go to school with him at least you get to see him. and if his grandma just doesnnt let him see you let him tell his grandma that hes hanging out with friends or something .. you just have to see if its worth it.

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i was going out with this guy that i really liked and he REALLY liked me too. but then i dumped him for another guy and now i regret it. i still like him and he says he still likes me, but i dont think he'll take me back. this might be hard, but if you can please helpe me.

you just really need to tell him how you feel and tell him you made a mistake and that if he gives you another chance that you wont mess up agian but you have to mean it.

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how do you give a hicky? and what do you do when you get a hicky? cause i really need to no..
thanks a ton

you suck on an area for a long time and there will be a red spot. if your a girl then if you dont want ppl to see it you put make up over it

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Well, I've never worn a bra at night, and my boobs seem to be perky enough, but I was wondering what most people do or should do? My mom says its not good, but some of my friends do it.

well i do it all the time and i dont think its bad but my mom always said my boobs need to breathe sometime but it really doesnt matter/.

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me and my boyfrend have been going out for 2 months and anytime we kiss i feel an urge to jump ontop of him is that normal

very normal you just get horny and everyone does that.

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Me and my boyfriend recently broke up, and he already has a new girlfriend. There's this guy I've been talking to, but we're only friends. We've hung out ALOT, and done some stuff. I have the choice to have sex with him, and I think I want to. But people say he has herpes, and I'm not sure if he does or not. Should I ask him? Or just go for it? And if I need to ask him..what do i say?

i would ask him.
just be like seriously is it true you have herpes? cause you dont want them

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ok im a virgon(well, not any more) and so was she (um.. well not any more) just say there was alot of blood involved. anyone knows why??!!

(and it wasnt from me....) probably seems dumb, i just wanna know why, i know a little about it, but hlp plz

you poped her cherry.

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whats a handjob?

where you move your hand up and down a dick.

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My boyfriend was fingering me last night for the first time, and today i feel quite sore down there, it all feels quite irritated and sensitive. Is this normal? What does it mean? Am i gonna feel uncomfortable afterwards like this every time?

its just that your not used to it yet.
its very normal it happend to me.
it just means hes stretching you out.
and it might feel like that for the first few times but it wont after that.

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hey im a really horny girl.i think about sex a lot. im not a virgin. but my bf is and he thinks i am. what should i do.i dont want him to know. but we agreed to communicate. i want to be sexual with him but i dont know if he is ready. and i dont know what to do to tell him both things. im not a virgin adn that i watn to have sex. not becuz im horny cuz i no i love him. i didnt loose my viginity to willingness either. just to help. and i dont know if i want to tell him that. we have been dating a while. i was 13 when i raped then again wheni was 15. me and him have dated since i was 13 and i never told him. we r now 16. what should i do
ill rate so high
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okay listen. you just need to on the phone or in person and be like i need to talk to you.
just tell him straight be like i'm not a virgin because i was rapped. and i really love you and i hope it doesnt change anything and i want to be sexual with you and go to the next level cause i love you. if yall have been dating for 3 years he should understand.

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okay so i like guys, ALOT, iv gone out with tons and love everything 'bout em. i could never actually LIKE a girl (that creeps me out) but i like girls bodies, like i like think'n about "doing" things with girls. wats up with that.

well you could be bi? or you just wouldnt care like if i had a good friend i would make out with her. if she was up to it, dont think that its seeming like your lesbian or something.
i think every girl is like that or most.

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ok. im 14/f. still a virgin and ive been thinking about having sex with my boyfriend. like when he hugs me from behind he'll just start humping me. and i know i tell him to stop but i like it. l.o.l. and he always puts his hands up my shirt. and i like it. but im ashamed of my body. i know im not fat...but i just think i am. i think my legs are at least. but... i dont know what to do. and i dont think thats all he wants from me. but i dont know....i masterbate alot and it feels good. and i want the real thing now but i dont know about it tho.
please help me.

i was very ashamed of my body too.
but if a guy wants to go up your shirt and stuff then obviously you know he doesnt care. just dont think about it thats what i did. he will love you for the way you are if hes a true b/f

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