Question Posted Thursday December 22 2005, 9:29 pm
Ok...
there is this guy that i like. and i he doesn't know that i like him at all. and i hunt with him. and were just friends. and i love him very much. how should i drop hints to him that i like him a lot. or what should i do????
scorpio117 answered Saturday December 24 2005, 6:41 am: First thing you gotta do, tell him how you feel. You may never know, maybe he likes you too. And i may guarantee you will feel better because you are not hiding anymore. If he starts acting weird, or is trying to avoid you, act as if you don't notice it and still be yourself, then, you can ask him what is wrong.
You can drop hints too. Then, he will be left feeling confused and asking himself if you like him. You can greet him everyday. Talk to him most of the time about stuff. Help him with homework, or even give him advice. [ scorpio117's advice column | Ask scorpio117 A Question ]
CANDii_x_KiiSSEZ answered Friday December 23 2005, 9:37 pm: Get the courage to tell him. If you hang out with him alot then he might like you too. Life is short take chances you never know !
chickadeela answered Friday December 23 2005, 6:20 pm: Wow! It's never easy to tell a guy that you like him (we usually wait for him to make the first move), but seriously go for it! Well, that's pending the following.
Does he give you hints that he likes you? Have you ever had an intimate moment that could spark into more? If you're totally not sure or you really don't care, go for it!!!!!
It does risk that your friendship could be lost if he is completely shocked and says no, but ask yourself, is it worth it?
I liked a guy, and I couldn't live without him knowing I liked him - so I suggested we go to the movies (it was at a time when none of our other friends were home - we had the same group of friends). So we went, and had a blast! Then we did it again - then I (he was kind of chicken) told him, "I need to tell you something - but you have to make me a promise - no matter what you'll forgive me and still be my friend" (for if he said no) Then I went for it, "These past couple of weekends we've been hanging out have been soo awesome! It's been great spending time with JUST you! I guess what I'm saying is that I like spending time with you - because I like you!"
And sure enough he said yes!
You, you're already two steps ahead because you already hang out with eachother (alone I'm assuming) so all you have to do is spark the conversation! Whatever you do though, I don't recommend the 'make him jealous' thing - this will just turn him off if he did like you - because he'll think you're not into him!
So go for it! And good luck! Whatever happens and whatever you choose to do - live life without regrets! You don't want to look back in 10 years and say... what if i asked him..? [ chickadeela's advice column | Ask chickadeela A Question ]
xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx answered Friday December 23 2005, 4:09 pm: Flirt with him ! and maybe tell him or somthin !
Skentelbery9 answered Thursday December 22 2005, 11:07 pm: Basically, if you flirt with him, try and get close to him, and direct lots of attention to him he'll eventuially get the bottom line. Just don't give TOO much attention to him while hunting or you will accidentally shoot him. Thsi is not what you want. Aggresion is only a sign someone likes you when you're 6. [ Skentelbery9's advice column | Ask Skentelbery9 A Question ]
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