my name is jen. i love to shop pretty much like every store. I live for my cell and iPod. i
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Age: 14
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Ok, im 13/F and im semi-cool. What I mean is the guys like me as a friend and stuff and Im never alone on a slow dance. I also hang out with the popular kids. See but people say im too nice and too smart and I find that lots of people are calling me a looser behind my back. I know I shouldnt care but it does affect me. All my clothes are brand name and Ive never done anything to the people "above" me. This one girl (shes in top 3) has started alotta rumors about me and even though everyone at school thinks I dont mind so they ALL play along it still hurts. Im really good friends with all the guys and I was wondering what I could do to well........be more popular. (Please no U shouldnt care or stuff like that, I already know that but I do so ya) (link)
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you seem like a really nice girl. you shouldnt care what anyone thinks if you havent done anything. you seem to have a lot friends, guys like you, & it seems like you have a good life ignore that girl who starting rumors. girls are too overdramatic & she is probally just jealous if people are gonna listen to stupid rumors then you shouldnt be friends with them in the first place
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there's this boy in my class that i really really like and he has been buying me my favorite drink and snack when he stops at the store before he come to school everyday for a while now. he's really sweet and cute but i don't know if he's just being friendly or he really likes me. i really like him but i'm afraid to ask him out and i don't know how to flirt. all of the girls in my class say that we'd make a good couple and i think are that they might try to hook us up (not that i think that that's a bad thing). i get really shy and nevous around him. what can i do i really really like him! (link)
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maybe hes waiting for you to make the first move talk to him & see what he likes, ask him to go to a movie
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I have really dark brown hair, its almost black.
What color should I consider dying it?
Not blonde, I'm asian, & I really blah dont think thatd look too neat.
thanks.
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Blonde asians ... yeah
Try dying your hair 1 or 2 shades lighter than your hair color now and matches your skin tone. Go to a hair dresser and get it professionally done the first time
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My boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago because he said that he didn't have time anymore for a relationship. We had been together for over a year and now he's just quitting on me. He said that he just got a job and he'll be working all summer and stuff. The truth is that we met online, and we've actually made it work for this long. I don't know when we'll meet, but he's everything I really wanted in a guy. I've been endlessly crying every night and unable to sit still when I think about the fact that it's over. I'm still really in love with him and I want him back. I do have a job too now and everything, but I'm homeschooled, so I'll have more time on my hands.
So my question is should I ask him back out, or would it just be being desperate and bugging him?
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Okay, I think its wrong to break up with a girl because hes trying to make money to buy games. I dont know but that sounds like a pretty lame excuse. But if you met him online .. you dont know what he is like in person. Anyone can be a perfect guy on the screen. You dont know his true identity. He mightve met some one in person and doesnt want to tell you. It might be hard getting over him. Hang out with your friends to help keep your mind off him. Who knows maybe you will meet someone in person.
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When me and my boyfriend hook up, I get so caught up in it I forget to breath. I end up pulling away to catch my breath. I dont want him thinking that there's something wrong with him. I just cant seem to remember, you know? How can I fix this, or rather remember that breathing is what keeps you alive and functioning? lol (link)
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Just tell him or if you pull away again and he asks why tell him he will probally slow down ... just remember breathe through your nose
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THere is this boy that I have been friends with since kindergarten and now im in seventh and hes in eighth grade. We have always been really good friends, but now I am really starting to like him in a different way. I think he might also, even though he says he like someone else. But he always asks me who I like and I just say "i dont know" because Im not sure if he really likes me. But we have also gotten alot closer. like Ill lean on him and stuff when we would never do that before. I would really like to date him, but im scared that if I date him now that we wont have a deeper relationship later on in our lives. Im also worried that we would stop being friends when if we break up. I know im only in seventh grade, but ive always dreamed of spending the rest of my life with this guy. Can anyone help me? Ill rate
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It sounds like he likes you. If you have known him for so long, your grade shouldnt matter. Tell him how you feel. If he likes you back, tell him that if you start dating, you dont want to ruin your friendship. A relationship may not last long, but a friendship deffinately will.
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Ok, so I was just on MSN and this guy (grade 11) I really liked asked me(grade 9) to go to the movies. I asked my parents if I could go and they said no because they don't want me to date and he's too old. What can I say to change their minds? I badly badly want to go with him. Plus, i know I can totally trust him because I work for his parents and I met him through work. (link)
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Okay, try to explain to them that age shouldn't matter. He is only like what? two to three years older than you. I bet if you were out of school, the age difference wouldn't matter. All that matters is that you like him and he likes you. But that doesnt mean that your parents shouldn't get to know him. Since you work for his parents, try to get your parents and his parents together.
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I don't attract guys at all. It's been said that I'm a lesbian (which I'm not), and I have an extremely brutal (but with purpose...I don't just say "Fuck the world" for no reason and think it's funny) sense of humor and wear all black. Are these turn-offs? But I'm a nice person. Though I can be a little morbid, I'm generally pretty friendly, I consider others' feelings, and I try to make friends, but nobody at my school wants to be around me. It's inevitable someone will say "Marian, I REALLY wanna sit next to Joe Shmoe. Can you move over?" at least twice a day. I just hate that. Whenever we have to choose partners/teams in gym, I'm always the last person. I feel so lonely, I cry sometimes in the locker room when nobody is around. There's only 1 friend of mine that's a guy who actually appreciates me for who I am, and I now have such a huge crush on him. I don't want to sound conceited at all, but I think I'm a nice-looking person, so that eliminates the idea that guys might not like me because of my looks. Does anyone understand? How can I make more friends? Even though he doesn't like me back in the same way, should I tell this boy I like him, and if so, how?
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It seems that its not you at all pretty much. Im guessing that you are stereo typed as like the dark .. stay away from that person. Im on the other side.. im stereo typed as a "prep" by like all the rockers and such. I certainly dont want to be labled but everyone is. Im nice to most of the "rocker" type clique. I was talking to one of them ... and she was pretty much the leader of her whole group. I talked her into showing up to school all preppy. She didnt have any clothes so I let her borrow some. When she walked in ... everyone was shocked. Underneath her dark clothes, she was gorgeous. Maybe you should shock everyone bye showing up to school in more preppy clothing. Show people who you want to be and shock your school. Shock your crush. He might see your inner beauty by showing that you are happy. No offense but maybe the reason boys may have not approached you is because of what you wear. I wouldnt approach someone that is all dark and quiet ... that tends to draw people farther away.
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I'm not quite sure what to do. My "best friend" from last year is changing. We used to tell eachother EVERYTHING!! But this year she cheated on her boyfriend, broke up with him, and went back out with him and didn't even tell me. I had to find out from someone else. And she doesn't know about the guy I REALLY REALLY like. Its because she doens't take the time to find out. Every weekend I invite her to the mall, and EVERY time she says she busy and then calls me telling me how bored she is.. Also when ever I hang out with ehr myy grades drop. I dont know if I should stay "best friends" with her or not? Please help (link)
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Ask her if she even wants this friendship, shes effecting you in a bad way. It seems that she doesn't wlike to hang out with you. Talk to her, it seems to me you guys shouldn't b friends. A best friend is someone who you tell everything to, hang out with, listen to each other. I think its best for both of you to end your friendship
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i have a good friend, who i have had over my house many times. i have a lot of fun with her, & enjoy having her over, but she has never invited me over her house. i know her dad & mom pretty well, so i am pretty sure she's no hiding anything. anyways, i wouldn't want to be rude & invite myself over, but i really would like to go over her house one day, considering we're always either out or at my house, but never hers. what can i do to solve this "problem"?
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be like, "we should plan like a sleepover this weekend, one at my house one at yours" this way it could answer your question without suspiscion
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ok im really shy around my boyfriends, and i dont know why..but im sick of it.its like i wont do anything not even be close to him. i'll be like on the other side of the room and if i do get close to him i get real nervous and crap...does anyone know how could become un shy around him and not be as nervous? thanks! (link)
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Take a deep breath and relax. Just be comfortable and know that he's not a lion and hes not going to bite you, just remember that you should be able to feel comfortable and be yourself around him at anytime
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hey im 16 and okay so heres my problem...well i have a boyfriend who switched schools and who lives like an hour away so i dont get to see him much but we talk all the time...i love him a lot and i dont plan on doing anything to loose him...but...well before i used to like this other guy and we were like close to going out like we could really tell we liked each other but i never knew what happened but we still talk alot and we're good friends and i think i like him again but this...this is VERY BAD...BECAUSE hes going out with my best friend and they've been together for like 3 months and its bad enough that i already have a boyfriend who i really dont want to lose...now i dont know how my friends boyfriend feels about me and im trying hard not to show that im starting to have feelings for him again...i just need some advice on how to just get over him and put him in the past i really really want to and i'll do anything so please help!
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well i think that you shouldnt try to go anything farther than friends with him, you have a boyfriend, plus he's your best friends boyfriend, that can damage everything you have trying to get with him. you can't help who you like ... it just happens but dont try to go further than friendship.
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Okay well I have a boyfriend and he's great, he gives me great compliments but he never makes a move!, he never gets jelous and it makes me think he doesnt really care and seams like I'm nothing special when he's around me, but then theres this other guy my exboyfriend, he's great, nice, sweet, thoughtful and he would do anything for me but the only problem about it is he's not that exciting and it makes it no fun sometimes...could someone please give me some advice on what to do its been bothering me for a week and I dont want to hur either of them thanks (link)
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It sounds like your in that relationship just to be in it. If theres nothing going on and your not happy, break up with him. If you have any doubts of leaving him, at least talk to him, maybe hes nervous or something
*happy holidays
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I was just out for a walk to the nearest grocery store to pick up some stocking stuffers. I ran into my ex bf. He was walking towards me. I smiled at him and he looked right at me and didnt smile or even say hi. He kind of looked uncomftable.
My feelings were a little hurt because even though we broke up 5 years ago I still consider him to have been a big part of my life, he was my first bf and we spent a year together. I lost my virginity to him. I was the one that ended the relationship and at the time he was choked, but that was so long ago. I figured he would have moved on like I have.
Do you think his reaction meant he still has feelings for me? And why do you think he acted the way he did? (link)
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He probally still has feelings for you. Losing your virginity to someone then getting dummped probally hurts alot. Start talking to him again maybe you guys can hang out again so you can be on good terms with your ex
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Ok...
there is this guy that i like. and i he doesn't know that i like him at all. and i hunt with him. and were just friends. and i love him very much. how should i drop hints to him that i like him a lot. or what should i do???? (link)
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Get the courage to tell him. If you hang out with him alot then he might like you too. Life is short take chances you never know !
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Ok I have been going out with my girlfriend for a little over a month. a couple days ago i was hanging out with one of my female friends and she pretty randomly kissed me. i pushed her off of me almost imediately, and we talked about it afterwards and were ok with it now and are still friends. here is where it gets a little more complicated. this is a girl that i used to have very deep feelinfs for. i wouldnt quite call it love, but it was close. i never told her, because she was for various reasons unavailable and i got over her. then i met my current gf and fell for her. now my gf knows that i used to like this girl, and she was ok with me being friends with her. now my worry is if i tell her what happened shell be uncomfortable. i know she would never try and forbid me from handing out with her, because she is one of my best friends, but i know it would make her feel uncomfortable. now because of an age difference (my gf is a little older than me and my friend is a bit younger) they will most likely never meet on their own so my gf would probably never find out. so my question is, should i tell her? (link)
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Yes. If you really like her, then you would tell her. She should understand and maybe be happy that you pushed her away immediately and told her the honest truth
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hey im in 7th grade and so i was going out with a girl for like 3 weeks until today becaues i broke up with her and, well today i just found out that she thought i just liked her cause of her looks. and now im all pissed off and i want to get back with her.so today at lunch i go up to her and try to talk to her and she simply just walks away with her big group of friends. but like a week ago we were like makin out so im like confused? yea so if u could help me ill rate you a 5 even its retarded cause i think i am haha (link)
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well the reason why she wont talk to you is you pretty much used her. that probally hurt her a lot so she wont even bother looking at you. try to say im sorry and talk to her ... idk if she will accept it for what you did to her but you can try
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Hey Guys. This Question Isn't Gonna Be Long, But I Really want a boyfriend. I havent like went out with anyone in like 4 years. Yea I know..Loner. But No one (guys) likes me. I'm Ugly, Fat. You Name it. Everything About me is messed up. Whats wrong with me Guys? (link)
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First of all, dont be so down on yourself saying your ugly and fat. Guys dont like listening to girls make fun of themselves. Build up your confidence. Guys dont like girls that are so down on themselves. Be yourself, dont hide under make up. If a guy cant like you for yourself then they have a problem cause no one should ever change themselves
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Ok..i like this guy we have been dating for like 2 months, today in fact, but i like this other guy..plus my boyfriend keeps talking to his ex-girlfriends, he says he likes me but i cant help thinking that somethings going on....so should i just leave him and go with another guy or should i stay with him, honestly i think someones going to get hurt either way. (link)
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let him go. if you have any doubts about your relationship, leave it before you get hurt. I dont think its fair to be in a relationship with someone and like another person.
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alrite. so me and one of my ex's broke up the past may well he is like the love of my life. i love him so much. well my parents hate him and we are still friends and everything and now people are like oh yall should get bcak together ya know but my parents hate him and so i can't see that happening. we didn't break up for a bad reason. there was actually no real reason but he some how knows when i get a new bf because he doesn't want me with anybody bc he doesn't want me to fall in love with anyone else. its crazy like i have no clue what to do. so hmm what should i do..i don't really even know what im asking im just confused.
also the other day he stopped by and i gave him this huge hug and he kept kissing my head and then i just looked up and kissed him. i missed it so much that i just like had to. well it just brought back soo many memories and i miss them so much. do you think it was wrong that i kissed him?
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lucky. thats sooo adorable ! well I think if you guys care for each other so much, get back together theres no use waiting around knowing you can have something. As for your parents, try to show them the good qualities, explain to them that its not fair for you that they hate him. They should understand
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