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ok im really shy around my boyfriends, and i dont know why..but im sick of it.its like i wont do anything not even be close to him. i'll be like on the other side of the room and if i do get close to him i get real nervous and crap...does anyone know how could become un shy around him and not be as nervous? thanks!
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It def comes with time ive been with my bf for like 7 months and i was so shy i wouldnt talk i wouldnt call him anytime he touched me id get butterflies or when he would look me in the eyes just like holding my hand or rubbing my leg made me so nervous...it took a little while but now we can both be goofy with each other i can do like anything in front of him..just give it time youll loosen up hell lossen up more and itll all be fine
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It comes with time. But you have to try. Even if you feel uncomfortable stick around and stick it out. Because eventually youll get used to it and it wont be anything different then being around your girlfriends. But if you keep avoiding it then it wont go away. Plus im sure the boyfriends feel just as akward so its not like your alone on this one.
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Boys are sometimes difficult to talk to talk to and be really stress you out. But talking to boys is easy and you have to have effective good communication otherwise ot wont work. So how do you talk to you boo? well you have to one thing in common so what is it sports what. and if you cant think of any why not try walking over and giveing him a hug maybe a kiss on the cheek. try getting to know is interest by listening to one of his conversations. give him your phone number let him call or you call you guys can sit on the phone and listen to each other breath or say hey what are you doing and hell tall you Bam conversation and the pther way around just ask little simple questions and if your not ready for that write notes and get someone or you give it to him and you guys reply back and fourth until you finally comne up face to face. But start talking to him soon cause you can or you may lose him. be sweet think about why you go with him flirt harmlessly and there is alays the passing of notes. good luck, hope this helps
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Just remember that if he didn't like you already, he wouldn't be your boyfriend. So, try to see the cool things about yourself that he sees.
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Take a deep breath and relax. Just be comfortable and know that he's not a lion and hes not going to bite you, just remember that you should be able to feel comfortable and be yourself around him at anytime
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I used to be the same exact way. Then I realized if I really like him and he really likes me I should be comfortable to be with him. I took slow steps to be around him more. First I talked to him in person simply about what we did in class that day. Then I began walking with him in the hallways. After a few more days I sat at lunch with him. Just take a deep breath and stay calm. Just remember: Boyfriends are great, just be confident.
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