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it may be long but i could use some help.
Me and Charliie ( shes a girl too ) were best friends in 6th grade. Charliie changed in 7th grade and became loud and obnoxious. She liked to get into trouble, she started cussing alot, painting her nails black, and wearing all dark clothing. She said it was the "real her" Me and her got into alot of fights about her being fake *cause she sucks up to the populars and is totally diff. online then she is in person* We no longer talked to each other at school and I got a new best friend. Me and Charliie started become friends again but there was always this feeling of lies in the air because we never truly worked out our past fights and I knew we'd never have the same friendship we once had. Charliies bad habits got on my nerves again and I had to tell someone. So I decided to tell my best friends. I was talking crap about Charliie to my new best friend ( we were talking about some of the stuff Charliie had lied to us about, some bad stuff she had said to make me and my new bff get mad at each other etc.) and this girl overheard us and told Charliie. Now Charliie is really pissed at me and my new bff. I don't want her to be mad at me, * i know what I did was wrong* and I don't know how to make it up to her. Like I don't nesisarlly want to be her best friend again, but I just don't want us to be fighting cause we just got more classes with eachother and when we fight she lies to turn people against me. How to I show her I'm truly sorry without sounding like I'm desperate for her back. How to I get our past cleared up and have me and her friends again? I will rate 5 for everything. thanks guys.
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Ah that happens alot with friends you just need to call her and tell her your really sorry for what you did and it was wrong.Then tell what you really think about her changing & just be open and honest.That happens alot with friends.Tell her the past is the past and you really want to be friends with her.If you say it like you mean it I know for a fact she will forgive you.Good luck !! ♥
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Apologise for talking behind her back. That's about all you can do about that. Tell her about your frustrations with her changes.
Everyone goes through changes when they are teens. It is part of growing up. Some people get a little extreme. That's probably what happened to her. Maybe she finally saw how she was acting before and didn't like it. She is probably just as frustrated that you are no longer friends as you are.
I think you need to have a long talk. Maybe write it all out like a letter if that makes it easier. Your friendship may never be what it once was, but you never know, with a little talking it could be even better. :)
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okay this used to happen to me all the time last year...you need to tell her that you know what you did was wrong..also you need to talk to her about all the things that shes changed, let her know that thats the reason things are different between you..it will make things alot easier.
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