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Ok so i like this boy. Hes pretty shy and doesnt talk much in real life but when im online with him he talks so much! He kind of flirts with me and i flirt back but i still dont know if he likes me..my friend imed him and asked me if he would ever go out with me and he just said 'dunno'. :\ what are some ways that i can tell if he likes me :)

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okay so i'm almost 5'4 and i weight about 134 pounds.

i really want to lose ten pounds by spring break in april, i know i can do it i just need some tips and / or advice.

my routine is going to consist of:
slim fast & granola bar for breakfast
salad for lunch
and usually chicken with vegetables for dinner
somewhere in here i'll have fruit
run atleast a mile sometime during the day

any tips or suggestions? thank you. (link)
Do pilates!! They tone and stretch your body and you can get a tape that u can do your abs in just 10 minutes and u can feel it burning the next day! It really does work and its easy and convinent. Even Yoga would be good.


Heylo. I just got out of a 9month relationship about 3 days ago. I haven't eaten anything in 2 days and a half. I don't have any eating disorders. I'm already underweight as it is. I dont know what to do. I've tried eating but I get so nauseous. I've puked about 6 times already. I tried soup, ice cream, salads, hot meals..and it makes me so sick.
Any foods that you suggest I try? I'm starving..but the food I usually eat...taste HORRIBLE and i cant keep it in my stomach. How long can you go without eating (but you're drinking water) before you get really sick? (link)
You are love sick.Thats what happens. Its your nerves from thinking about it so much. Go out and do things and keep your mind off of it and you'll start to feel better.


Hey guys,
I already asked a quesion a while ago about Valentines Day. I really don't know what to get my best friend Daniel. I'm wanting to get him a stuffed animal off of this one site, but I'm having a hard time picking between all 4 bears I like. I was wondering if anyone would like to go to the site and look at the bears I'm choosing from to maybe get him, and tell me what one you like the best. I can't really decide, so if anyone wants to look at the bears I really like they are on www.bandannabear.com-I like the 2 bears in the very first row and the 2 bears in the fourth row. Those are the ones I'm choosing from to get him. If noone wants to do this, it's alright. By the way I am 15/f and he is 14/m turning 15 on the 31st of this month. He is very sweet and mature for his age. He lives in a different state, and I plan on meeting him as soon as I can save up enough money for me and my mom because she wants to go too. We've been talking now for over 6 months and aren't going out yet. We consider ourselves going out though. We already sent each other gifts for Christmas. Someone help me out if you want! If not, it's alright. I love everyone on this site anyway! Thank you so much! (link)
i like the valentines forever bear


OoOk i have best friend and these girls at my school are trying to back me off like not be friends with him or not going out with him. What happend was he found out that i tease him and he thought that i told whole group of girls about it and second of all i didn't tell them. I would never tease anyone never!! and its really making me mad because iam trying to find out who siad. What can i do with this ...i think the person who siad have a crush on him i don't know but he really likes me so yeah i don't really like him but i like him as a friend.


Thanks Lauren
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Tell him he should know you better than that and know you wouldnt do that. Im sure he'll realize it then.


Does anyone else find this strange? I had gotten hired 3 months ago at a new store. Well I just found out today that my boss wants a criminal record check of everyone in my department. I also found out that it was only my department that needed the criminal record check. There are 7 of us that work in the clothing department. None of us handle cash, we just let people into the change rooms and put out new stock. Wouldnt they have asked us to get a criminal record check before they hired us? It's a little insulting to be honest.
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he may have found something out and doesnt want to mention names and wants proof...Or it may be mandatory


my hair is poofy whenever i blow dry my hair when i wash it. believe me when i say its poofy.. so i heard that when you scrunch your hair after you wash it ..it will work and be curly but i have tried it a billion times scrunching it and when it air dries or even when i blowdry it with it scrunched.. its poofy and it doesnt look as good as others.. so what is something i could do so when i scrunch it, it wont come out poofy (link)
you can get something like smoothing milk my garnier fructis and put that in ur hair while its damp and it should smooth it out so its not so poofy


How can you get pictures from a cell phone on a computer ?



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you need an attachment or e-mail them to yourself from your phone


c i have this friend that is in all my classes and we get along so well he is one of my best friends i guess. but i don;t know everyone says that he has a crush on me. but i don;'t think so. my friend was talking to him on the phone and asked him to say if he thought my butt was nice he said on a scale of 1-10 he said a 6. i thought that was mean and thought that if he would of like me he would of said liek more.. i don't know. and he is a type of kid that i could never picture holding my hand it would just be ot wierd. i don;t know how do i find out if he likes me likes me i need some way of finding out. thanxxx
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tell him u heard he has a crush on you and if your too scared to do that ask one of your good friends to ask him


There's this guy who I was really tight with over the summer. We almost went out a couple of times. I liked him on an off.. like a day thing. After the summer we just stopped talking. And then when we tried to talk he'd start an arguement and now he like hates me. So awhile ago I was veiwing his Myspace and I put some bitchy comment about one of his pictures. He sent me a comment back and asked me what that was about and why I'm so mean to him. I'm confused! I thought he hated me and now he's acting like nothing ever went wrong. (link)
Maybe he doesnt realize he was giving the impression he hates you


well i really do not like my job. i don't talk to any of the people there except for one of them because i go to school with him and i like him. also my job interferes with a lot of things like my friends and how i have been doing in school. it just stresses me out a lot where i had a melt down the other night. so should i keep it and see how things go or quit so i can finish high school and not have so many problems. (link)
look for an easier job that will work with you on your schedule and not so many hours


14/f boyfriend 15
me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost three mouths and we still havent kissed. we havent even done anything outside of school.im starting to think that he's prude. what should i do? should i kiss him? if so should i kiss him on the lips or on the cheek? also i dont think he's ever kissed a girl before so i will be his first kiss. please help me because i really dont like going out with people and not being able to kiss them or make out with them. it bugs me when i see other people kissing in the hallway. (link)
I think you should kiss him but start off slowly. Like a kiss here and there on the cheek. Then once he gets comfortable with that he may get braver. Then yous can move on from that. I also think if yous have dated for 3 months now you should find out if hes kissed anyone else and make plans to hang out outside of school. Like the movies or something.


I like this guy, hes not that popular and i know people will think i was crazy if they found out i liked him! I dont know if he likes me or knows i like him. I always drop hints and stuff and he is like one of my good friends. Everytime we talk about who each other likes he says he dosent know who he likes and i say i cant tell him . I dont want to make things akward between us if i do tell him. I am really confused and i cant take it anymore.! (link)
Just come out and say " could you see yourself with me?" Thr worst he can say is no. Then go from there.


I love this guy hes my bestfriend and i dont know what to do ive already dated him on and off about 20 times. Im afraid to give him a kiss one because it would be his first kiss and two because weve been bestfriends for 6 years...he keeps asking me to kiss him.. i mean i have kissed a lot of guys but something about kissing my bestfriend feels so weird i want to but i dont ..im so confused..please help! (link)
well dont do anything you dont want to do! Because you dont want to regret it! Obviously you just dont want to screw up yous guys' friendship SO i think id tell him that and if hes your bestfriend i think hell understand



I am 29 years old. I met this guy who is 35 years old. Both of us are single.

I have known this guy for three months now. We always sms to each other. I spent some time with him at a forum. He was always talking to me about stuff.

I caught him staring at me when I was with my friends. When I had a cough, he was caring towards me and asked me whether I was fine or not. He bought me cough drops.

Recently he sent me a chinese new year card.

Does he like me?

What should I do?

Regards.

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I honestly think maybe he has a crush but is more worried about just being a good friend. I think hes just doing what a friendly friend would do.


Me and my guy friend flirted back and forth for a lil while and finally he asked me out then he broke up with me 10 days after. We are still good friends but sometimes he gives me the same signals as before when he liked me,sometimes he acts like he hates me. I want him to like me but then again i don't want the whole drama of a new relationship starting up again. Well my question is, how do i get him off my mind?? I HATE thinking about him. Everybody says i talk about him too much help :( please (link)
Think about someone else. Some new cute guy. If the guy one likes u one minute and hates you the next he really isnt worth your time. But if you put your attention on someone else itll help you stop talking about him easier.


I'm 13 and I've got a huge crush on this guy. He has many girl friends (I mean as just friends) and whenever I talk to him I just feel really awkward and my mind goes blank. What should I do?! I can't say stuff like "what are your interests" because I already know his interests. We used to be really good friends, but now he's in almost none of my classes. What should I do? (link)
Just talk to him casually like...how was your day .... What are you doing today.... n then if yous have n e inside jokes bring them up or talk about his interests....Show him ur interested in what he says....n maybes yous can form a friendship again and take it from there


I think I have a yeast infection. Its itchy down there a lot. My discharge is a normal color though. Do I need to get this checked out by a doctor? And how do I tell my mom? I'm 13. Do I just buy something like Monistat? And what if I use medication and I don't have a yeast infection?
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Well a yeast infection has some nasty dishcarge. It would smell and be an abnormal color. Plus it is known to sometimes be like "cottage cheese". I personally have never had one so i dont know what it feels like. Put ive read it burns and itches....

hope i helped


I have a friend named Tara. Shes in 12th grade, graduating this year, and going to college for Theater.. I've been quite worried about her lately, because i know that she cant have her whole life rely on Theater. She wasted her past 6 years working to be an actress. And shes not all that bad, but someone from a small town and such like ours, prolly wont get very far. I've tryed talking to her about other options. I dont want her whole life to be thrown out the window because of some, un-realistic dream.. Do you think that I should try harder to convince her that theres more to life than thearter.. and thats just there as something to do on the side? Or should I let her make her own mistakes? (link)
Well a lot of people from small towns have made it big...but when u go to theatre school u can take other subjects..its her life n if shes determined then shes going to do what she wants


im a 15/f who has a lot of talent in the singing area of life. i need to know a song, preferably by a girl, thats kinda hard, but not overly hard...im fine with basically anything...even country.lol. thanks so much (link)
Evanesence or how ever u spell it lol




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