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Im not sure about him!
I like this guy, hes not that popular and i know people will think i was crazy if they found out i liked him! I dont know if he likes me or knows i like him. I always drop hints and stuff and he is like one of my good friends. Everytime we talk about who each other likes he says he dosent know who he likes and i say i cant tell him . I dont want to make things akward between us if i do tell him. I am really confused and i cant take it anymore.!
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I think that you should just stay friends because it would probably end up being extremely aquward... lol and if you think that you should tell him, then do it in person and not with others around. in person is the key thing tho. also, if he doesnt say that he likes you back then just be like . oh thats cool. then change the subject. i truely hope i helped!
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Micki
[[ps i think that he lkes you too if he wont tell you who he does.]]
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Just come out and say " could you see yourself with me?" Thr worst he can say is no. Then go from there.
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It doesnt matter what someone else thinks about who you like if you like that person forreal why care about what someone else thinks anyway if you want to go out with him dont base your fellings on someone elses opinions
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Popular?? I see. Why does someone have to be popular to get other people to accept your decision? You can't help it if you like someone or not and you shouldn't have to. I know it's hard not to care about what people think but you really shouldn't. Sometimes people like to act like those people they see on tv and act like those popular people at school who doesn't want to hang out with someone because they like someone who isn't popular. You know what I mean? Anyways, I think he might like you but is also afraid to tell you the truth because he is afraid or rejection and I think you're the same way. You should defenetly tell him. If you're one of those popular chicks, he might feel okward and think "Why would someone like her ever like me?" My advice to you is to tell him how you feel and stop giving him hints because it might be teasing him or he just doesn't get it. If he doesn't like you, what will you loose? Nothing. Just keep flirting with him and be really nice and who cares about what those other people say because they're being very immature. Do what makes YOU happy not what will please others.
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just tell him before it gets too awkward to even talk to him anymore. if your friends really are "cool" then they will accept him and hopefully see in him what you see. if they don't accept him then they clearly aren't worth hanging out with at all.
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I've been in your situation before.
Only in mine, social acceptance for liking the person (in my case, a girl) was not an issue. But I got to know a friend of mine over the summer and it got to the point where I considered her my best friend. We would talk alot and I got really caring of her. To the point where I was constantly looking to talk to her or see her, just to talk with her and see her again. The only thing was, she had promised herself she wasn't going to date anyone. While I realized this and accepted it, I tried to just blow off how much I cared for her. But...it got the point where I couldn't take not telling her about how much I cared for her and around October I finally broke myself down and told her everything. I was afraid if I did we wouldn't be friends anymore, and she would stop talking to me. It was the opposite and we are still good friends. Not like we were before (we both are usually very busy, so can't talk as much) but we are still good friends.
What does that long rant mean? It means you need to tell him. And find out what he thinks and feels about it. Tell him if he doesn't feel the same way, that you still want to be good friends. The longer you wait to say something, the more stressed and confused your going to get. Trust me on that, I know.
I hope this helps and you find what to do!
-Ryan
P.S. Don't worry if he is popular or not. You can tell the people who think that to screw off. You make your own decisions, don't let them be influenced by what is "cool" and what is not.
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