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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Europe and I speak more than one language. I'm 21 years old & I am currently attending Graduate school. I'm majoring in Human Resources

I started this advice column about 8 years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day.

Much love, Teza

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please help i bought a new house and i need ideas for a bit of decorations somthing like girly girl kinda thing kkk

Congratulations on buying your home! :) Anyway, when you decorate, don't worry too much if everything matches together. If you haven't already painted, you could paint one statement wall. Also, adding art and pictures can make any room pop and it's a great way to bring out your personality. When it comes to accessories, you can always find inexpensive but very girly and cute lamps, pillows, and rugs. If you need more ideas and pictures, go to HGTV.com because there are tons and tons of great ideas that you can choose from. Have fun!

Can I pregnant by using my brother toilet seat.Im 13 and really worried.

A woman or girl can become pregnant after she experiences her first menstrual period, which will appear between the ages of 8 and 14. In most cases, a woman must have sexual intercourse to become pregnant.

With that said, no.. you cannot get pregnant by using the same toiled seat. If that was the case, I think 98% of women would be pregnant right not.

Read more: How Do Girls Get Pregnant? | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/how-does_5403367_do-girls-pregnant.html#ixzz2Iq98VKnq

I'm going to my first ever concert which is a rock concert (Papa Roach!) and I was wondering what to bring with me and what to wear there if you got any advise. Thanks.

When going to a concert, any concert, make sure you wear something that you will be comfortable in. For one, you're going to be moving around a lot and on your feet, so wearing a pair of jeans and flats (or sneakers) would be best.

Don't bring anything with you that you would miss if you lost. I made the mistake of bringing my purse to a concert and it was such a hassle. I had to find where to put it and I had to make sure no one was going to steal it. Bring your phone, camera, and a small amount of cash so you can buy drinks. Other than that, leave all your valuables at home and enjoy the concert!

ok lets just keep it brief... I am 18 and my brother is 19/20. whenever we are around eachother it gets akward, i get wet and i have seen him have an errection over me. :/ he has tried foreplay with me but i refused. we both want sex with eachother really bad,what should I do???

Having sex with a family member is incest and not only is is morally wrong, it is illegal in many states.

If you begin thinking like that when he is around, you need to distract yourself. More importantly, I suggest you speak to a therapist or someone you can trust.

ihave been told i am bipolar does that mean i have two personalities

I want you to get a full understanding of what bipolar means and if you think you have this condition, you should speak to someone. It is nothing to be ashamed of.

Bipolar disorder, also known as manic-depressive illness, is a brain disorder that causes unusual shifts in mood, energy, activity levels, and the ability to carry out day-to-day tasks. Symptoms of bipolar disorder are severe. They are different from the normal ups and downs that everyone goes through from time to time.

http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/bipolar-disorder/what-is-bipolar-disorder.shtml

i had sex with my partner n we didnt use a condom then she took the morning after pills then 15 days after she went for menstruation and now its been 10 days not seeing her periods and de pragnancy test says it positive how can that be?

The morning after pill only works if the female takes it 24-48 hours after sexual intercourse.

So I like this girl that has been really sad for the past two days and I made a bet that I can make her laugh how do I do this?

When you try too hard to be funny, it can become awkward. So, just be yourself and do things that would take her mind off things that have been making her upset. Do something together.. watch a funny movie, get ice cream and just talk to her :) She'll be distracted from whatever is bothering her.

When is the worse time to have sex

Your question isn't very specific, but when you are ovulating, there is a better chance of getting pregnant.

What is an orgasim?

The columnist below me is wrong. An orgasm isn't known as "fingering". Basically, it's a great feeling you get when performing sexual acts. Not everyone can get one though, but once you do.. you will definitely know.

Is there such thing as pre-cum

Yes, & it can make babies.

Is there such thing as too much oral sex, medically speaking? A friend of mine said her man wants to do it every night.

Ha-ha-ha.. these days, EVERYTHING can give people cancer so don't believe what Cosmopolitan says. There is nothing wrong with too much oral sex, and it doesn't cause medical problems. Well, unless STD's are involved.

why would you vote for a women president?

Well, why not? People vote for a candidate because they agree with their beliefs and everything they stand for.

is babysitting at 13 too young??xxx

I personally think it is. If I had a child, I would never allow a child that young to watch my baby.

Freedom aint nothing but missing the person you love?

Nope, she's not right. Not only is every person and relationship different, she's just too emotional.

what is hair playing?

Lol, I don't even have the right words for this answer..

I'm a 15 year old girl and I am what you would call clean. I shower everyday. I have straight-ish, medium thick, brown hair and it gets greasy very quickly and it makes me look scumy. what can I do to fix it

One of the easiest ways to fix this problem is to wash your hair every other day. The more you wash it, the natural oils in your hair are gone. I know this is hard and I wash my hair every day as well. Your hair isn't greasy, but it just get's flat and it looks that way.

For one, try switching your shampoo and conditioner. Tresemee has great selections for different hair types. You can try the hydration one, or the volume one.

Try avoiding using too much product in your hair. Hairspray, gel, etc. can all make the hair feel dirty.

The next thing, try dry shampoo! Tresemee came out with a new product line of dry shampoo. Instead of using baby powder, try this instead. You spray it in your hair, leave it in for a few minutes, and brush it out. It's super affordable and it can save you a lot of time, especially when you're on the go.

Here is a link:

http://www.folica.com/hair-care/dry-shampoos/tresemme-fresh-start-dry-shampoo?s_cid=gaw&utm_source=Google&utm_medium=CPC&utm_campaign=Brands&gclid=CNbjj-bH0akCFUbrKgodJGMn7g

Her favorite actress was in it and she loves it so much she started to cry. What can I do to help her feel better ? How can I make her stop crying ?

I really hope you're not the same person who keeps posting these questions about the girl friend crying about famous people lol. Anyway, it's normal and she's not crying because she's "sad".

My husband is a drinker and he came home and totally went ballistic. He threw up on me, and more. How do I get him to stop doing that and say I love you?

Therapy or rehab.

i want to know that is there any injection or tablet for sucide and easy death?

Death is not easy, and it is never the solution to any problem. I suggest you speak to someone right away and get help.

At parties when i'm a bit tipsy i always feel like i make a fool of myself, but i've always portrayed an 'i don't give a fuck what you think of me' attitude. Secretly though i do, am i just being self consious?

I don't think you're being self conscious, but it's completely normal to feel that way. Everyone has insecurities about themselves and things they wish they could change. It's a normal feeling to have. I know some people portray that attitude that they don't care about what anyone says or thinks of them, but that's impossible. We as humans have feelings and that's why we care. You're not making a fool of yourself, but just have fun and enjoy life. Don't care what strangers think of you or the people who have absolutely no meaning in your life. It's a waste of time trying to get everyone's approval.