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sex with my brother?
ok lets just keep it brief... I am 18 and my brother is 19/20. whenever we are around eachother it gets akward, i get wet and i have seen him have an errection over me. :/ he has tried foreplay with me but i refused. we both want sex with eachother really bad,what should I do???
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That is called incest and incest is a crime.
Having sexual intercourse with family members is wrong. Like one of the users said, your brother does not want you he wants the idea of having sex. Also, your brother? Really? That's just gross
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You may not want to hear this, but if your brother is having sexual thoughts toward you, it is not you he wants, but the taboo act of having sex with his sister. He is 19/20...erections just kind of happen all the time, and if he is looking for sex in the household, chances are he is having a difficult time finding it out of the household...you taking care of his "need" will only hinder him from having a healthy relationship in the future. Also, you should consider that if he does have a relationship in the future, he may feel the need to reveal his history. Do not be certain he would definitely never tell a soul...chances are he will, to at least one other person. You should ask yourself why you are having these taboo sexual urges...do you feel abandoned by a lover and are now turning toward a man you know will always be around? Are you rebelling against something? Are you feeling depressed and seeking to self-sabotage? Has something sad happened to your brother, and now you have misguided urges to comfort him? Sexual games between siblings is not uncommon, though it usually ends around puberty. It is probably more common than not that siblings fantasize or at least consider sex with one another, but usually that is where it ends. It is fine to daydream and fantasize, but to bring it from fantasy to reality will be disastrous. Consider the long run, and not just a moment of instant gratification. You should NOT encourage your brother in any way.
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Ew. Eww. EWWWW.
What the f...
EWWWWWW
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Having sex with a family member is incest and not only is is morally wrong, it is illegal in many states.
If you begin thinking like that when he is around, you need to distract yourself. More importantly, I suggest you speak to a therapist or someone you can trust.
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Try taking cold showers. Sex with your sibling, mother, father or first cousin is not only morally wrong it is illegal. At least by Western standards and culture.
It is believed by most medical standards that sex by close relatives can produce medically deformed and mentally deficient offspring. Depending on what answer you are looking for it is possible to find enough science on either side of this issue to justify what you want as your answer.
Since you are asking what to to my advice is that you leave each other alone. That you take all precautions to insure your brother does not see you in any way but fully clothed. This would mean wearing a bathrobe in the morning or evening if you wan to walk around in your night close. Your brother should do the same by not parading around in just BVD or boxers. Keep the bathroom door locked when showering so no one can intrude.
You are both old enough to have adult sexual relations should you wish to, just not with each other. If you need sexual relief you two can either masturbate in private or find someone to work out your sexual frustration with.
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