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Well, to start off with I've had my hair every color of the rainbow. I really want to get dreadlocks but my hair is to short right now, so I'm growing it out. Anyways if you ask stupid questions, you will get a stupid answer. Like, "Can you get pregnant from a toilet seat? or "How do you talk dirty?" And I play guitar so I love answering music related questions. So ask away my loves.

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do you have a bone in ur vigina like that u can feel?

Yes.
But only when a guy is on top of you. ;)

xoxo,
dottie4

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What does bondage mean? Thanks.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=bondage

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Could you wear a tampon in a tanning bed?

Yes.

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dottie4

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can you have sex when you are on your period?

Yes.

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dottie4

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okay so i was just wondering, but can you get pregnant if sperm or seman or what ever is on the loo seat or any were like that ? thanks

Well I guess if the guy masturbates right on the toilet and you go in IMMEDIATELY after and start straddling and physically trying to work the cum into your vagina, yes I would say there's a small chance you could get pregnant.

xoxo,
dottie4

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If a couple has been together for ~1 year, how often should they see / talk to each other? Yes, every relationship is different. But not talking for months at a time is clearly .. not good, and neither is calling each other up every two minutes of the day.

So what's the happy medium?

He's banging someone else.

xoxo,
dottie4

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my roommate and i caught a family of mice, and we want to keep them as a pet. they are field mice.

is it ok to keep them?

and if we do decide to let them go will they come back inside? or will they fnd a new home outside?

No there wild animals, and they could carry something. Ick!

xoxo,
dottie4

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15/f

so i really like this guy and i am trying to hint to him that i like him. well i wanted to put a cute quote on facebook for my status, cause i kknow he goes on my faceobook profile and i want him to think about who the quote is talking about. so i was wondering if anyone knew a cute song that i could put on. not a love song really, but a song sayign "hey i like you or something"
like you belong with me by taylor swift, i would use that but i put that as my status for the last guy i liked. thanks.

You Better Run or My Idea of Fun by Iggy Pop & the Stooges.

Check out the lyrics, you'll find something perfect.

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What is the biggest relationship issue that you are currently experiencing?

My manfriend is getting ready to leave for boot camp so it's kind of hard thinking about it now the issues that will arise. Perhaps jealousy, conversational issues, etc, and the fact he could be gone for a year at a time when he gets out of boot camp.

xoxo,
dottie4

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What are some cute nicknames for your boyfriend?

I call mine my man friend, or just boy.

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dottie4

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What are some meaningful gifts i can give to my boyfriend? I have already given him a scrap book of us for our 6 month anniversary, and our one year is coming up in 3 weeks, ive given him many things dealing with his interests and ive given him clothes. he doesnt like jewelry...any ideas?

Take him to Hooter's for dinner or lunch. He'll love you forever.

xoxo,
dottie4

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My boyfriend & I want to have sex for the first time soon.

We're both virgins, so I'd like to know what I should be expecting. (Of course we're goign to use protection.) I've heard that the girl's gonna be in pain & the guy's not going to last very long. If this is true, elaborate please? Like how much pain, what will it feel like, abotu how long will he 'last'?

If you seriously have you ask these questions, you obviously aren't ready so the best advice I can give you is to not go through with it.

xoxo,
dottie4

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i want a tattoo on the inside of my lip but not a tacky one
anyone have any idea of a fashion logo or anythinv high fashion like a symbol or something that would be cute there?

or soemthing goth like a skull...

i want james dean but they dont do pictures!


I suggest not getting one at all. Tattoos are permanent and will never come off except with costly, painful surgery. Even then I don't think they will really ever come off completely. And really if you have to ask people what you should get on your body, it's probably not a good idea if you do it at all. Before you go through something like this it should be completely your idea and nobody else's. It's going to be on your body, not there's.

xoxo,
dottie4

p.s. Sorry if that's not the answer you were looking for, just doesn't sound like your ready for that.

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I'm with my boyfriend :) and we both know I'm not romantic or cliche. I dont agree with the whole posting it on your facebook, putting his name in your msn kind of thing. I'm just not romantic. It's our anniversary thing soon, and he loves it when I do something sweet.
I had a plan to do something that's cliche -when a guy does something for a girl - it's quite cliche - but if a girl does it go a guy - it's really suprising.
I want to do something really random, like turn up at his door step with a single red rose.
Does anyone have any ideas like that? He'll love it :) x

I went on a picnic with my boyfriend. Maybe try that. Pack up some sandwiches, chips, and put it in a little basket with a blanket to sit on. We went to a park and walked around a lake there. Try to do that if you can.

xoxo,
dottie4

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i didnt want to click on your link.. just because my parents can see what i do on my laptop, lame i know haha, im 17 and still no privacy :/
but anyways, well, yeah i know that he is a virgin, ive never given him a handjob or anything, his ex girlfriend did alot, but i havent .. yet. i never have. haha. i just dont understand how me making out with him got him SO turned on that he ejaculatd. we wrrent even like, dry humping. i was just laying on top of him. ahaa. and i dont want to say anything, im just scared that tomorrow, when we hang out, it'll happen again and he'll still be embarassed, you know?
any advice on this would be great. thank you so much :]!!!

Well even if it does happen again, you know why it's happening. He likes you a whole lot and is obviously very, very attracted to you. I'm sure he realized what happened, and will take some sort of precautions so it won't happen again, or at least lets hope he will. If it gets that heated again, maybe you two could please each other, in some way or another.

xoxo,
dottie4

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me: 17f
him: 16m

so, ive been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months. and all we have done is make out, he feels me up.. and thats it. like nothing sexual. but today, i went over his house and we were making out.. first, it was just me like on his lap, then somehow he ended up laying down and i was straddling him. [he had jeans on, i had jeans on] and we kept making out. then he was like, here, lay down. [we were on a couch] and i was like.. uhm, where. and he was like, ontop of me haha. so im like laying ontop of him and we're still making out.. and then like idk, hes feeling me up all over. and i kissed his neck and i think he kinda like, shuttered. then after a little we kinda just stopped, and like we sit apart.. and i see that he has like a wet sopt on his jeans.. and i didnt say anything.. and hes like goin to the bathroooom.. blah blah. and we didnt talk about it afterwards.
uhm.
what happened hahhaaa. did he like.. ejaculate just from making out with me and feeling me up? and could i be pregnant. because i think i might die if i could be. like FROM MAKING OUT. aaah. and did i handle this the right way? and how did he get THAT turned on.. haha.. uhm. help?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4pXfHLUlZf4 Was it like that?

As long as your pants were on your fine. He's definitely a virgin, and very attracted to you. He's embarrassed for sure. Just never bring it up.. Ever to him. You just got him really worked up, after he does a little more sexually it won't happen again.

xoxo,
dottie4

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so...this may be an awkward question, but, how come, whenever you have sex, it kinda, hurts a little bit inside, and makes it feel like you have to go to the bathroom??

If you lost your virginity recently, that could be why. It takes a couple times till you get used to it completely.

And if it just feels like you have to pee, it's not. Just let it happen. Relax!

If it's in some positions but not others, avoid them.

If its painful in all positons, see a doctor.

xoxo,
dottie4

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my boyfriend and i are both 18. we've been together about a year. we're both virgins and saving sex (any type) for marriage. we're pretty serious, and hope to marry someday. recently, we got caught kissing by my younger sister. my boyfriend had picked me up and i had my legs around his waist and we were making out. we also got caught while i was sitting backwards in his lap making out. our parents are concerned about us. we have boundaries and won't pass them but they don't trust us. our dates usually consist of laying on the couch in my room watching movies or just talking. my parents come in and out a lot, and freak out if they catch us doing anything. what can we do that will help us still have time to kiss each other and not be caught? we're not doing anything bad. we just love each other. i want to please him like that, but we have agreed that our first time will be on our wedding night, no matter who we marry. what kinds of kissing or kissing positions that will feel good for both of us? any tips on that? or not getting caught? this is confusing. i apologize. we're absolutely desperate! i want to make him happy and this is putting a big strain on our relationship.

Missionary position. Very happy.
;-)

xoxo,
dottie4

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Does anyone know where I can watch seasons 5 and 6 of Judging Amy online for free?

Thanks!
*I've already checked youtube

http://isohunt.com/torrents/Judging+Amy


Now to play them you will need a codec on you computer so download k-lite codec pack (find it on google) it will play in Windows Media Player after that.

xoxo,
dottie4

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I'm a 15 year old female and i've been playing guitar for many years. Do guys find it attractive/a turn on when they meet a girl that plays guitar/is very into music?

They only want what's in your pants.

xoxo,
dottie4

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