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alright alright okay so i havent had a bf for a really long time, but thats okay bc i ddint want one, i enjoyed being single and doing things with a lot of guys rather than just one.. but now i really just want a bf n im like getting depressed about it- the huge problem is, i dont even LIKE any guys, which really sucks... plus, homecoming is coming up but idc really if i dont have a date for it bcc i can go with mah guurrls but i waanna bffff soosososoo bad omgosh....HElp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Don`t sweat. Enjoy single, and one day (soon) youll find a guy and you'll go out. Don't try to rush things.. relationships cant be rushed. Just remeber to be yourself & have fun. Get to know some guys better, (you might end up liking them). Just always be yourself & have fun. Finding a guy is no fun AT ALL, if you dont have fun with it :]. Youll find him & you will be so happy.. just keep thinking that one day you'll find him. You cant make someone like you, but you can get to know someone better & dont be afarid to give guys chances. Don`t sick to one type. Try different types.. not all guys are the same, but if your not feeling him.. let him go... ALOT OF FISH IN THE SEA :]
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okay. well.. my BESTBESTBBBEEESSST friend was over, kt, who is practically like my sister and we were talking on aim and she is like, tell **** shes annoying, so i did and then **** was like your the ugliest girl i ever met ,go kill urself and alot more (**** said that to kt) and me and **** were like REALLY good friends before all this,, so it sucks bc ofcours i take kt's side. buttt **** also lied to ppl saying that we told her to kill herself (which we didnt) and then people were mad at us for no reason whatsoever but this was all sunday and monday- and weds was ****'s Bbbirthday and i made her a card and tonihgt im getting her a present, she was really happy when i gave her the card and she told my friend that it made her day. even tho i made her a card, DOESNT mean that me nn her are friends again but i couldnt just not bc we were rlee close do u think i shouldnt give her a gift thoo?? i mean...the last 2 years shes gottnnn ne something nn i hadnt got her anything... and also,, should i be friends with her again? or should i wait until kt forgives her bcc i just doo not knooowww. hhhelllpp!!!

This is going to be a stupid question.. but deal. If kt jumped off a bridge would you ? Most likey not. You`re your own person. If you want to forgive **** then go for it, its not up to kt. She doesn`t control you. Do you honestly have a real reason to be mad at **** ? If you do, is it worth losing a friend ? You shouldnt be mad at someone because your other friend is. If you being friends with **** would make kt mad, then let kt be mad. You shouldnt have to pick between friends, and its wrong to do so. Even though kt is a very good friend of yours, you shouldnt pick her side. You shoulnt pick anyside.. ever. It shows favoritism (spelling) & thats not nice.. If you honestly have a reason to be mad at **** then thats okay..


**** is your friend right ? She has helped you threw alot, of different things i`m sure. I think you should get her something, even if it`s small. It`s the thought that counts.. right ? I would get**** something small, but yet thoughtful. It was nice of you to get her the card.


This will be totally my own thoughts right here... but, I think kt brought you into the fight. She should have told **** herself. Sure you were doing a friend thing, but do you have a problem with **** or do you just have one because kt has one ? You are you own person, dont let other make dissions for you.. If you want to forgive **** then go for it & same with the gift, its totally up to you..
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im 13 years old, and i have braces. the teeth around my braces arent completely white, but not yellow either. just sorta regular. i realllly want my teeth to be whiter, tho, so is it ok to brush your teeth wit baking soda, evn tho i have braces? will it damage the braces?

It won't hurt your braces, but its not such a good idea. Sure you want your teeth white, and baking soda will help, but the area under your braces will be discolored. It would be better to wait untill you get your braces off & whiten your teeth.


Also, brushing your teeth with whiteing toothpaste wil turn the exposed teeth white, not the underneath of the braket & when your braces are taken off, you will have funky squars on your teeth.. if you really want your teeth white go for it, but it will not whiten all of your tooth. Id just wait, time with braces goes by fast.. I had them for 3 years :]
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I like this girl at my school in Texas. But i used to like her friend and i asked her out about a month ago because idk i guess i was confused. So am i screwed or can i get this first girl that i like now to like me or go out with me. I know this is confusing but could u help me. Shes worth it.

P.S.

What can i do to make her like ?

Your not screwed over. You were confused - totally understandable. Talk to the girl you like, getting to know her better, just be yourself. Don`t try to make yourself be this amazing guy if honestly your not. Just have fun with her, make jokes but don`t be mean mean to her. Flirting mean is okay. If shes worth it like you said, then dont give up.. tell her you like her and explain to her that things got mixed up before, that you didnt know what to do and that you made a mistake.


You cant make someone like you, you just have to be yourself. Just ask her to hang out with you, and if she says she cant then deal with it. Dont try super hard (its a turnoff major) but putting in a little effort towards her will not go un-noticed. She will be flatered by it and think about how kind you are. Compliment her, compliments go a long way.. dont do stupid ones like "wow that shirt makes you look hott" no no no.. girls get that all they time, they think its stupid and its also a turn off. Dont try to cahnge yourself, let her get to see the real you from the start. Show her you can be fun, but yet searious at the same time :] Girls like when guys can joke but yet be searious. Dont be afarid to talk to her about her feelings eather. Girls have them & like to talk about them, but dont go girly on her. Just tell her how you feel & if she askes you a question about your feelings explain it to her. Good luck & if you need more help drop it in the INBOX :]
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f/15
Why is it that mothers don't want their daughters to wear thongs?

Wearing thongs alot can cause yest infections, which mothers don`t want their daughters to have. Also, a thong is considered sexy, and the mother might feel uncomfortable with their daughter wearing a sexy piece of clothing. I'm sure once the girl is older her mother will let her wear one.
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14/f. i'm going into 9th grade, which at my school is the last year of middle school, and i think i know what i want to wear for the first day of school, but i don't want to look like everybody else. this is what i was planning on wearing:

skirt:
http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=648&itemID=46122&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=

shirt:
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_297743_-1_12628_12552

it is that but the stripes are light blue & brown. and i'd wear brown flip flops. i'd also straighten my hair.

what do you guys think? i don't want to look like every other girl there, so if this isn't a good outfit, then any suggestions will really help!

I think it's cute. I'm not sure how girls at your school dress, but I think it will be fine.


To make your outfit even more stylish, try a cute pruse, or a bracelet or a necklace. I wore a skirt the first day of school too, and a striped shirt also. However, I found buttons that matched the shirt amazingly well & so I sewed (spelling) then to the butt/pockets of my skirt. It was a person touch that sure wasn`t noticed by many, but it made my skirt different from all the other girls.


If your hair curls try curling your hair, or doing a cute `do` to it, straightening can be super cute, but think about how many girls straighten their hair.. everyday. I know I do. Try curling it or sruching it in, or try a cute clip or something. Something that will add a person touch to your outfit.
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what is the best program for downloading music?

Limewire for sure ! It`s great for downloading music !
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16/f

awhile ago i went out with this girls ex-boyfriend. now everytime she see's me she calls me a fat whore // slut. i'm no where near fat and i never even say anything back to her. how can i make it stop or just ignore her.

thanks

She`s jealous. Ignore her, you know that you are better then what she is saying. Don`t let her know that what she is saying affects you. If she says something stupid about you just smile at her. She says it because she gets a reaction from you. She shouldn`t be saying to you or about you in the 1st place.. it was her EX.. not like they were going out. Just smile at her real kindly & just walk away.. after a littl while she will relize that she is making a fool of herself and leave you alone..


Ughh.. jealous girls.. they try so hard to make someone else look stupid, they end up making themselves look 298348293487 times stupider..
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13/f
can you break your hymen from playing soccer for 6 years straight?

Yup, you can. You can break it from doing almost anytype of activity.
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Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex soon. Neither of us have ever done it before, so we have no idea what you are supposed to do without getting hurt. I am 13 and he is 14, do you think that it to early, even with protection?? Any advice would help.

No one can tell you what to do. It`s up to you. Sure alot of people think you are too young, but it`s totally up to you. If you are ready then go for it,.. but remeber alot of bad things can come out of having sex just once. Think about everything before you do it. You said so yourself "we have no idea what you are supposed to do without getting hurt". Maybe you both should wait untill you are 100% sure on what to do. That might be a few years, but im sure you`ll be more comfortable with it. Make sure you both understand what you two are about to do. Sex is a serious thing.. but if you know you are ready for it, then no one can stop you..


If you do plan on having sex.. remember always ALWAYS ALWAYS use protection..
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14/f. okay in the past month or so i've noticed that in the back of my head there is this spot of hair that is very oily. it is right in the back of my head all the way at the top by my scalp. it is very annoying and it actually LOOKS oily. so here are my questions:

1) what is it??
2) how do i get rid of it??

THANKS SO MUCH!! i would really like to get this taken care of before schoool starts.

I use to have the same problem :]


To help it, try different shampoo`s. Different ones affect different people. Most likely your hair is oily because you are eather missing that spot while washing.. or your growing up ;] It makes your body get all out of wack & it can affect your oil producers.


Try different shampoo`s and make sure you wash your hair once a day. That will help keep the oil down. Some of my friends, on the other hand.. have to wash their hair 2 times a day.. once in the morning and once at night.. just depends on which works for you. Most likely you`ll grow out of it :]
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what are water bras???

It`s like any other bra, the cups have water in them. Most females wear them to make their chest appear larger.
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wellll so. im a girl for starters.
so what should i wear for my drivers liscense becuase like i dont want to wear something that makes the picture look bad.

I wouldn`t over do it.. it`s a drivers liscense picture. Most of the time it`s just a head shot. Try a cute shirt & doing your hair cute, but not over doing it. Something styleish but yet comfortable.. & not very many people look at liscense pictures.


Anything you wear i`m sure you`ll be fine.. heck in mine - I have a black eye :] - Just be excited you passed the test & try comfomiee stylish :] It works for this perfectly.. good luck.
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I know this is kind of discusting, but my breats kind of sag. Im 36D.


http://ruggerjay.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/cleavage.jpg


Don't worry. That is not porn. It's a picture of a bra.

That is how I want my boobs. I have the Victoria's secert.. "body" bra. It still doesnt work.

What are some secerts to get them like this?
Thank you SO MUCH

Push up bras :] They work wonders & if you wear a bra that`s just a wee bit too small it will kinda smooch them together & give them more cleavage.
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Well, before the "in" thing was prep. Right? Well, now everyone is like be "original." Now, Original is becoming UnOriginal. I really don`t know what to do. Because I meen I want to be myself, and stand out. Before I was PREPPREPPREPPREP. & then I decided I wanted to become original because I got sick of everything. But, now, everyone wants to be Original, and its like a new trend. Original is suppose to be original!! not a TREND. I really dont know what to do anymore. I just want to be myself. 14/f.


ps im a REALLY bad speller

Don`t worry about the spelling - so am I :]


If you want to be yourself, then be yourself. Most people follow trends to fit in, when if people just took a look around, its not how your dress, it`s how you act. If someone was the best dress person in the world but was rude & selfish... they wouldn`t be as well liked as if say they were poorly dressed, but nice, kind & helpful. (if that makes sense).


If you find yourself most comfortable in prep clothes then go for it, if you want to wear skater clothes then go for it.. it is no written down somewhere that tells you how you have to be. If you want to be yourself then do whats you.


Prep, skater, goth :: all those are just names. People shouldn`t use them.. beacuse they are pointless.. someone doesn`t dress a certin way to be "prep, or goth" they dress that way beacuse it makes them comfortable.


Everyone wanting to be original is good, but it`s a trend. Why can`t everyone just dress how they want without being labled ? Be you, dress you, and don`t let people lable you.


Anyone someone dresses, is a trend, beacuse people copy other people and make it popular. If people just did their own thing, and didnt care what other people wanted to see worn.. then we wouldnt have trends. There are people in the world that will only talk to other people dressed like them.. and thats what makes trends.


I`m sick of everything also, I want everyone to be themselves. If all else fails just be yourself, dress how you want, and if someone says something about it, tell them to shutup, beause you are you and there is nothing they can do to change that..
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The question is simple but the answer might be abit more complex! "Is life fair"? And please no answers lile "it's as fair as you make it"!!

No, it`s not. Some people that desirve alot, have nothing, and people who should get nothing at all have everything. In life you don`t always get what you want, and some people don`t even get what they need. Some people think life is, as far as my personal opinion, no it`s not.
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hey,
I am a 14/f and I live in Washington State. (spokane if that helps) I turn 15 in acouple months and I know your allowed to take drivers ed once you turn 15. I have alot of questions about this. When can I take it? Only during the summer or during the school year too? Is 15 the right age? Where can I take drivers Ed.? And anything else you know about would be REALLY appreciated. Thanks soooo much xoxoxo

I just took mine about a month ago :]


Where I live. Missouri. You can take your permit test when you are 15 years old. (15 1/2 for a motorcycle). You can take it anytime you want. During the school year, summer, spring break ; when ever you are ready to take it. I took mine the day of my birthday and I even had a black eye in my permit picture (great I know, haha)


You should have a Drivers Ed. book that you have been studing out of (if not you can get one at the place your parents go to get their lisencs pictures). When you get that book if you look in the INDEX it should tell you where you can call or even a website that will tell you the nearest place to take the test. Also, the book will tell you what you will need to bring with you when you take your test. (Almost everywhere you need a copy of your birth certificicate (wow I can`t spell that word) & your social sercuirty card. (Your parents should know where those are.)


Good luck on your test & don`t worry - it`s not that bad.. even with a black eye :]
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i dont know how to talk to people,i mean my friends- yeah but a new person comes and im with people that i dont really know i just stay shy,how cna i open up? any tips? how can i sound like i have a nice personality? anything will help!!

Ask them questions about themselves - Where they go to school, how old they are.. simple things like that. (don`t make everything go on forever).


Be yourself. If you like to make jokes then make jokes. If you want to compiment them on something then go for it. Don`t hold back when you meet new people. Talk to them as though they are your friends (you never know, one day they could end up being one). Just be yourself it`s the most important thing to do.
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all of the clothes i own are 100% cotton which shrink in the dryer up to nothing. i cant find any shirts that arent like that. for that reason, i cant put any of my shirts in the dryer. because of that, my clothes are all wrinkled. my mom refuses to iron and i tried to iron and i burned a hole in my shirt. i dont know what i can do to not make my shirts so wrinkly. please help!!

There are alot of different ways to fix your problem ::


1. You could hang your clothes up, right away. Right when they are taken out of the washer hang them up on hangers.


2. Try praticeing (sorry spelling?) ironing. Take a shirt or something you don`t like or don`t wear and try to iron it. Make sure the setting is made for cotton [( most irons say - cotton - for a setting )] if it burns it , try a lower setting.


3. If you clothes are still wrinkly, there is something call DOWNEY WRINKLE RELEASER. It`s in a spray bottle. It`s chep. All you do is hang what ever is wrinkly up, spray it about 2 times, and pull down on the item. (derections on bottle also). Then you just let it hang. Its super easy.


Good luck, & don`t worry you will figure something out.
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Oh my lord!!! Someone hacked onto my account and asked a question in my column that said my friend was going to commit suicide because she was ugly!!! I did not write that and the question is not even true!!!! I don't even know who that girl is in the picture!!!! So shes not even my friend and I didn't write that question!!!! Please don't believe that question!!!! My question is I want to find out who hacked my account and wrote that question, so how do I find out? My password is not easy to uncode so I don't know how they did it!! I'm scared because I don't want that person to stalk me. If any of you answered that question that talked about my friend being ugly, please leave hate mail to the answer of it. I repeat, I would never write a question like that.

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Asking us to write hate mail is mean, rude, and immiture. Just because someone hacked your password doesn`t mean you should go down to their level & write hate mail. Be the better person and just do the right thing. File an Abuse Report.
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